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maybemaybenot -> RE: A request in form of a plea. (6/20/2007 9:22:34 PM)
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ORIGINAL: PassionateTulip
Ha, cute....... No thanks... I'd rather not waste my life.....
Edited to add: Why does everyone pull that up? Like 40-50-60 year olds are having an easier time? I think not........ If I wait, I'll probably still be waiting...... but if I don't find what I seek it won't be because I wasted my time doing what everyone else deems to be "fun" which I deem to be a waste of time..... So many people look back and regret. I do not desire to be one of those people!
Ahh, so you want the insta fix. Add water, mix well, and wellah.... the perfect relationship, custom fit to your needs ?
*All* realtionships worth being in take time. Vanilla, BDSM, kinky, yes, even friendships whatever. If you think putting time nto a relationship to make it fit, is a waste of time, there is little wonder you are having difficulties.
There is a difference between waiting in limbo and working on building something of value. And of course it's not easy, if it was we would all be in the perfect realationship with the perfect partner.
If you don't find what you seek, maybe it will be because you have burned thru potential partners like a drunken sailor? You have nothing but time, we all do, what's wrong with using it to get what you want, instead of trying out submissives like I would try on shoes at a fire sale?
A question for you to consider: Do you think your " hurry up" expectations may just frighten a few potentially good partners? Like others have said, it takes two, maybe a little more patience and willingness to take it slow would have different results.
Just a thought.
mbmbn
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