Termyn8or
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I am seriously dominant by nature. My last partner and I did not explore the scene nor the internet, so I was not very well versed in things. But I have learned.
I somehow need to make it clear on my profile that I am a dominant switch, and as crazy as it may sound, NOT a switch dominant.
I like to bottom. It is like a relief. As soon as I am really helpless a calm comes over me. I assume some measure of control and authority in any matter I am asked to look into or find solutions for. I do this without domineering. This is like walking a tightrope, and on top of that, my decisions better be correct.
Once I assume the position, so to speak, all of that is gone. Oh that doesn't mean that I lose my arrogance and cockyness, not at all. You have many methods at your disposal, but, rules are no gags if I am laying on my back, nothing up the ass and no scat. There are more but that's for later.
And whatever you do, remember your turn cometh. I don't want to be mean and I don't want meanness. We are there for our mutual pleasure, pleasing by teasing, tittilation by torture.
If you are a ditzy bimbo I don't think I want you in my life. If you hate Men, no way. So many people seem to exist to punish each other, and I don't mean in the nice, wholesome kinky way.
Others seem to exist to 'git over'. The git over crowd always wants to get that slight, or great, advantage in a deal. If you are one of these you better be ready to learn to deal fair and square with me and my family, both chosen and blood. None of us will ever try to get over on you, and if anyone does you tell me. They will make it right and correct their behavior or they will be out.
Mistakes are one thing, attitude is another.
I won't stand for an obsessive/compulsive. I would try to help, but a real relationship is not coming until that is resolved.
Lying and thieving are another thing. Hard to address this. If you are full grown, over 21 and have your shit together, why on Earth would you lie to anyone ? You are actually telling me that you surrender to me if you tell me a lie. You are telling me that my opinion of you is more important to you than reality. I do not want that form of submission.
I want a totally intact, functioning fairly normally, human being who is female, who always has been (personal preference on the last part).
Stealing is a relative issue. If I wake up and there is a note on my pants that says "HUN, TOOK 10 OUT YOUR WALLET, NEED SMOKES ON THE WAY TO WORK" is that stealing ? Or what if I left a note on her purse "HUN, TOOK A 5 NEED GAS TO GET TO WORK".
That's not stealing, stealing is waaaaaaaay different.
Trust is important, especially when someone could kill you and cross four state lines before anyone found out.
I dunno, I can't give an exact description of what I want, who can ? I want a real life partner. If you promise to me and I promise to you that is good enough. If that's no good, saying 'I do" is about worth shit anyway. You might need a collar, but not a license and tags.
There are certain things to be agreed on, no matter who is dominant. Don't pretend to agree.
Enough for now, be well.
T
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