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Newbie Questions - 6/19/2007 8:23:21 AM   
anoronoir


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Hello,

I'm pretty new here, and the curious type -- I'm full of questions!

I just checked boxes for all my interests in my profile, and found a few things I'd never heard of...
What is cybering?
What is CBT?
What is Shibari?
What is Queening?
Is cuckolding really a "lifestyle"?

In the boards, under people's names, I see little vanilla ice cream cones, and various numbers of paddles or handcuffs. What do those signify?

Thanks to anyone with answers!
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RE: Newbie Questions - 6/19/2007 8:33:55 AM   
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Cybering - often refers to the practice of using internet chat for "trolling" for cybersex.
CBT - cock and ball torture
Shibari - a type of Japanese bondage, highly decorative - often used in demos
Queening - Basically, cunnilingus from underneath the woman...she is often seated in a chair specifically made for this activity and the one giving the service is on his/her back...is that picture graphic enough?
Cuckolding - the way it's used in the life, it refers to the practice of the Top in the relationship having someone other than the bottom (if a couple) service him/her sexually while the bottom watches...meant as a form of humiliation play, the bottom is often berated, ie told how miserable in bed he/she is and that the other person is so much better...so on and so forth.

Also, in the list, if you click on each activity a brief description of each will pop up.

The ice cream cones etc are little avatars symbolizing how many posts an individual has made. Each avatar represents a range of numbers, but I don't know the exact range.

Hope that's helpful.

MNN

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RE: Newbie Questions - 6/19/2007 8:36:59 AM   
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Also, Welcome to the Forums!!

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RE: Newbie Questions - 6/19/2007 8:57:03 AM   
anoronoir


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Thank you MistressNoName, for the answers, and for the welcome.

:-)

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RE: Newbie Questions - 6/19/2007 10:42:44 AM   
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You're very welcome.

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RE: Newbie Questions - 6/19/2007 11:08:26 AM   
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Just so you know... Shibari is a type of rope bondage.  Very involved, but beautiful to watch.
 
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RE: Newbie Questions - 6/19/2007 11:14:22 AM   
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What is cybering? Online sex, activities
What is CBT? cock and ball torure
What is Shibari? Japanese rope bondage, it wsa orginally used by the Japanese to keep women bound for rape.. now its used as a [common] form of bondage, for demos, and as 'dresses,' its quite beautifull and intricate. 
What is Queening? When a woman sits on a man's face for oral gradification, anal or oral.
Is cuckolding really a "lifestyle"? Sure, it can be. Like most other things, it depends on those involved.  

In the boards, under people's names, I see little vanilla ice cream cones, and various numbers of paddles or handcuffs. What do those signify? How many times you have posted on the boards. Its all in good fun. The more you faster yu get rid of the ice cream cone, then the bdsm disks, then the cuffs, then you get to the paddles


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RE: Newbie Questions - 6/19/2007 1:22:03 PM   
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quote:

What is Queening? When a woman sits on a man's face for oral gradification, anal or oral.


Point of correction:

There actually is a difference between "face-sitting," and Queening. Queening involved furniture and I believe is only referred to as such when the person receiving the service is a Top.


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