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ocilla -> RE: why is fisting so great? (6/20/2007 9:16:23 AM)

Wow - I have a much better understanding now - particularly for receiving women and their fister.  Have not heard from any sub men who desire and enjoy being fisted though.  Curious, as I am constantly contacted by men who want lots of strap on and ass play.



Missokyst -> RE: why is fisting so great? (6/20/2007 9:25:22 AM)

Beats me.  I am not even mildly curious about fisting.  I kinda like my parts satisfied with normal guy parts. 
Kyst



YourShyPet -> RE: why is fisting so great? (6/20/2007 9:55:55 AM)

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ORIGINAL: eyesopened

Okay, i'm sorry i must be built differently than other women.  i actually took out my tape measure and measured the bone from left to right and i have a clearance of only 2.25 inches i wouldn't be able to fit my own hand in there let alone anyone else.  Also, my vagina sits behind the bone so for me my body is constructed from outside to inside in this order:  labia, circle of pelvic floor bone (whatever that is called), then vagina etc.  i haven't examined other women's genitalia so i'm not familiar with any other than my own.  i don't question why other women enjoy this and i'm glad others are able to experience orgasms and squirting etc from this activity.  i guess my body is just different and i wasn't aware just how different it is until now.

edited to add:  now i'm embarassed


eyesopened don't be embarassed... I'm with you hun in the Unfistable catagory... although I haven't examined myself as completely as you... I did after a bad sexual experience... a man I was dating a few years back was a tad on the large size, and the first and only time we attempted to have sex he ripped me and I ended up having to get 6 stitches in the emergency room... I did discuss later with my doctor when she was removing my stitches why exactly he didn't "fit"... she gave me a pelvic ... another area where I am built different then the average female... all of my pelvic examinations have had to be either attempted with the doctor simply using their fingers or a nurse has to hunt down a special mini sized speculum.... she told me that I wasn't quite 4 inches from opening to cervix and that I had very little elasticity thru out my canal... she said while it's not common it's not as rare as the general public thinks... and just like penis's come in all different shapes and sizes so does the vagina.

kittin



dincubus -> RE: why is fisting so great? (6/20/2007 10:53:20 AM)

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ORIGINAL: bbwdommelilith

Can someone please explain to me the biology behind the orgasmic properties of fisting? Since the clitoris is not being stimulated I have a hard time understanding why it seems to be so wonderful.

From what i understand, it is the feeling of being full. and especially if the parter being fisted has an incredibly sensitive area inside.



SlND3R3LLA -> RE: why is fisting so great? (6/20/2007 10:59:06 AM)

I have talked him out of it until I have children.  I can't see why he thinks his fist would fit when I have trouble with a couple of fingers, or his penis.

Silly, Master.[:)]



ForgeDesire -> RE: why is fisting so great? (6/20/2007 11:41:46 AM)

I have had a few people be very forthcoming when asking to fist me. Some people want to meet immediately and say they want to fist me and I will love it. I am severely frightened by these people!

I cannot understand this and it is very suprising to see so many on here that have tried this and/or do it regularly. To each his own, but this can't be safe!



MarkMinette -> RE: why is fisting so great? (6/20/2007 12:13:15 PM)

Mistakes can be made when the "fister" is impatient, and doesn't allow the vagina to expand naturally at at's own pace. Big hands can hurt (as can smaller ones). The process can take lots of lube, and sometime months. The belief that the vagina will stretch and become loose to the point that it's permanently looser, isn't true. Fisting doesn't have to be done with a fist, either. A butt plug the size of what will test your limits, is as effective. Also there are inflateable butt plugs & dildos ( www.stockroom.com ) that can be enlarged after entry, giving the "full" sensation.



charismagirrl -> RE: why is fisting so great? (6/20/2007 12:56:32 PM)

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ORIGINAL: taintedgypsy

Perhaps it is enough that the clit is already stimulated, not really sure but it is very unusual for me to be fisted and not come with the heat of hells fires.



OMG i loooove that expression! That's great! :)

i haven't been totally fisted yet, but the other night my Daddy got 4 fingers in me and the pressure from them being there put pressure on the whole area, my clit included. Also, of course, is the g-spot.

One thing i noticed was that when he removed the 4 and replaced them with just 2 or 3 the relase of that pressure also added to the insane pleasure of having the 2 o 3 in there.

And as others have said, the taboo and the control of it...i was already waaay into the zone when my Daddy was doing this and i knew if he wanted to do more that he had that option. i was powerless to stop it and that intensified the whole thing....though he has BIG hands and that scared the hell outta me too.



kate -> RE: why is fisting so great? (6/20/2007 2:43:44 PM)

i just wanted to add my 2 cents...i have only done it twice... but it was amazing...the person i was with had hands about the same size as my own..... such a rush



bipolarber -> RE: why is fisting so great? (6/20/2007 4:36:54 PM)

OMC had it right. For me, the pleasures of fisting are that it's an incredibly intense, intimate act, for one thing. There's something about the almost trance like feeling I get when I feel my hand being slowly sucked in... and then once in, feeling someone special's heart beating just a few inches away.

It's one of the most primal forms of sex I can think of, running second only to fucking itself... (and at times, it's NOT second place.)

Joe



angelslave77 -> RE: why is fisting so great? (6/20/2007 5:01:07 PM)

I have to say it is something I am really looking forward to trying, and after reading these posts, even more so. 



ocilla -> RE: why is fisting so great? (6/20/2007 5:31:20 PM)

Still no boy subs interested in sharing their thoughts?  I am kind of surprized as I first heard of fisting as an actvity that was being done on top of the bar at I think it was the Amory in Atlanta back in the 80's.  I remember having the thought of "wow, what will folks think up next", and "on top of a public bar? wow again".  Kind of thought that this was prevelent or desired in the world of ass play and strap ons but not hearing even a peep from the subbie boys here.  Hmm interesting yet another preception bites the dust.



Mystique567 -> RE: why is fisting so great? (6/20/2007 6:39:25 PM)

This is also something I have been interested in, thank you all for making it sound even more fascinating than I thought it was before.



MarkMinette -> RE: why is fisting so great? (6/20/2007 6:42:24 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ocilla

Still no boy subs interested in sharing their thoughts?  I am kind of surprized as I first heard of fisting as an actvity that was being done on top of the bar at I think it was the Amory in Atlanta back in the 80's.  I remember having the thought of "wow, what will folks think up next", and "on top of a public bar? wow again".  Kind of thought that this was prevelent or desired in the world of ass play and strap ons but not hearing even a peep from the subbie boys here.  Hmm interesting yet another preception bites the dust.


I've had it done, but she had quite small hands. The prostate stimulation is awesome.



Driver1961 -> RE: why is fisting so great? (6/20/2007 7:12:39 PM)

He dips His lid to all.

As a Dom I find the whole process animalistic, wonderous, and the biggest 'hook' is the challenge of proving and accepting another's trust in me to give them pleasure in a dark 'awe inspiring' (should I edit here with eye popping?) practice!  

Personally I shudder to think that I should give myself to anal fisting but 'Hey I'm Dom and I don't go there!' but it is for this very reason that I accept my participation in this as a'gift' of trust in me.  Therein lies my pleasure in participating.  It is interesting to note that I regard fisting as a more intimate act than anal sex.

I've watched a boi anally fisted (He winces His sphincter muscle) and his Mistress took considerable time getting him there.

Gay friends have stated that anal fisting is to them (giving or receiving) the ultimate act and given me the impression that it is done or attempted quite readily by many they have encountered. 

Warm regards to all.  Driver, Sir to His loving Wildchild.



champagnewishes -> RE: why is fisting so great? (6/21/2007 12:51:32 AM)

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ORIGINAL: charismagirrl

....though he has BIG hands and that scared the hell outta me too.



What scared the hell outta me was how we would manage the drive to the ER when , not if, his hand became stuck......yeah I know....it doesn't make sense yet I was totaly convinced it could.  LOL 



yrstocollar -> RE: why is fisting so great? (6/21/2007 1:32:36 AM)

I've done it many times... both as the fister and the fistee... it's fantastic! Actually the first time my girl and I had sex involved many hours of it... which worked and was great for us but I would obviously recommend knowing the person much better to be safer. We were just lucky and we'd both done it before. Having said that... it was SO great from the beginning that we overdid it a little and it lost something... but we took a break from doing it for a while and it's all good now.

Both roles have incredible feelings associated with them, for me anyway. As the one fisting: I feel an amazing sense of satisfaction watching her go off into space... it's hot as all hell... it feels powerful... I kind of feel proud of her (which sounds weird and I don't know if I can explain it - maybe it's a letting go thing which she doesn't do so well)... I feel like a part of her... it's incredibly bonding and intimate... I feel like I could just keep crawling up until I was inside her skin... I feel both dominant and submissive towards her... dominant because she's given me permission to do anything I want to her but submissive because I'm doing it to make her feel so good... I feel incredibly protective of her... the pressure and movement of her body around my hand and wrist is intense... as is the heat... it's just an intense emotional, psychological and physical situation.

As the one being fisted: It just feels so unbelievably good! There's a point when the fist finally gets past the widest point of the hand and slides / is pushed in... that point is the biggest rush... I just leap in the best floaty space... from there I can either stay in super floaty space or I can get very primal... either is fabulous and time loses meaning... I can stay there forever. Most of the time I have absolutely no idea what is going on except feeling so good... I couldn't tell if she was pushing hard or fast or slow or even not moving... Again it's also very intimate and bonding from that side of things... I feel a real sense of letting go of control as well when I'm fisted.... the last time we did it I was caught between such a fine line of begging for her to go on and begging for her to stop because it was too intense... and I mean seriously begging I was almost sobbing but I was so highly ambivalent and on such a high and she just kept saying "just a little more" and not stopping... WHEW!

You can probably hear what this does to me by the "all over the place" - ness of my response! But in case you missed it (somehow!!) I say go for it [:)]



pandoravampire -> RE: why is fisting so great? (6/21/2007 2:47:21 AM)

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ORIGINAL: taintedgypsy

Hmmm I love it ... never really thought about why. For  me it is something that is worked up too, and usually I'll have had one orgasm getting there.  Perhaps it is enough that the clit is already stimulated, not really sure but it is very unusual for me to be fisted and not come with the heat of hells fires.

I suppose it is being spread so wide, the fullness and pressure of the fisting, and then there is a difference between being fisted and being fist fucked ... the strength of the second is almost a primitive feeling for me ... it excites me just to think about it and it features in most of my fantasies when having a bit of solo play lol. I think also there is the phycology of it as something only bad girls do, a taboo of sorts.

I have never really asked him what he likes about it, I would not be suprised if it does not bear some similarities to my own reasons, also I know he gets off on being in control when I have totally lost any sense of control which is not unusal when he does this. He particularly enjoys fucking me over when I am already completely fucked over, he likes to see me pushed to the limits of pleasure where the line blurs into pain ... ok this is probably not a good line of thought while he is on the other side of the country so I will leave it here.

Hope it helps.




what she said, and....
especial emphasis in being opened up, so far. To allow another into your very being. It is a very spiritual experience. It only hurts if you tense up. Your lover needs skill and patience, and more lube than you can shake a stick at. But most wonderfully for me, my absolute trust, to expose myself so nakedly for another.
pandoravampire



taintedgypsy -> RE: why is fisting so great? (6/21/2007 3:58:19 AM)

hmm after talking with Him about this post he reminded me about the couple of times He has fisted me in view of others and how absolutely hot it made me ... and how I had not mentioned this in my post. It is an extension of fisting, in one sense it can (for me anyway) reduce some of the more intimate feelings but this is definately compensated by the exhibitionism and sheer out right feelings of evilness/ taboo type stuff.  If you get off on being his very public slut ... hey this is hot.
Once was at a large event where a woman fisted me through a railing while I was standing on a balcony slightly above her, I could here him discussing with the people with us and passers by details of what was happening  and it just highlighted the entire event ... Sir had to help steady me as I was went off completely and was having trouble as my knees turned to water .... another time was at a BDSM event where the door was open and I was facing away from it with no idea if someone was watching or not and it certainly added to the heat. I think the term "exhibitionist fist slut" was used at one stage lol ... hmmm could not really disagree with this lol ... hell bring it on ...

hmmm smiling away lol



WhiplashSmile -> RE: why is fisting so great? (6/21/2007 4:19:15 AM)

Fisting is great why?  Well let me tell ya why, because it's simply one more kinky thing to do to mix things up.



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