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why is fisting so great? - 6/19/2007 11:34:18 PM

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Can someone please explain to me the biology behind the orgasmic properties of fisting? Since the clitoris is not being stimulated I have a hard time understanding why it seems to be so wonderful.

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RE: why is fisting so great? - 6/20/2007 12:32:39 AM

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I am curious on this one too. And for the fister - what is the attraction?

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RE: why is fisting so great? - 6/20/2007 12:47:34 AM

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Well, for a masochist like me, i get a great endorphin rush from the pain involved (it's really more a pressure than pain but, it does hurt). There are also plenty of pleasure spots inside the vagina that when pressed on by a whole fist at one time cause a great deal of sexual pleasure (for me, a lot more than i get from just having my clit rubbed). This is just from my experience.

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Can someone please explain to me the biology behind the orgasmic properties of fisting? Since the clitoris is not being stimulated I have a hard time understanding why it seems to be so wonderful.

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RE: why is fisting so great? - 6/20/2007 1:22:27 AM

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i'm no expert, but my opinion is that something exciting, done with someone exciting, is just really nice. different strokes for different folks, but the act itself, if fixated upon it, isn't particularly riveting to me, but in the right context and in the right mood (as in anything) it can be wonderful to supply the needed stimulus to the one that wants it.

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RE: why is fisting so great? - 6/20/2007 1:48:29 AM

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Hmmm I love it ... never really thought about why. For me it is something that is worked up too, and usually I'll have had one orgasm getting there. Perhaps it is enough that the clit is already stimulated, not really sure but it is very unusual for me to be fisted and not come with the heat of hells fires.

I suppose it is being spread so wide, the fullness and pressure of the fisting, and then there is a difference between being fisted and being fist fucked ... the strength of the second is almost a primitive feeling for me ... it excites me just to think about it and it features in most of my fantasies when having a bit of solo play lol. I think also there is the phycology of it as something only bad girls do, a taboo of sorts.

I have never really asked him what he likes about it, I would not be suprised if it does not bear some similarities to my own reasons, also I know he gets off on being in control when I have totally lost any sense of control which is not unusal when he does this. He particularly enjoys fucking me over when I am already completely fucked over, he likes to see me pushed to the limits of pleasure where the line blurs into pain ... ok this is probably not a good line of thought while he is on the other side of the country so I will leave it here.

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RE: why is fisting so great? - 6/20/2007 2:09:13 AM

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*sigh* haven't succeeded yet, but enjoyed trying. Ever hear of the g-spot? Not to mention, I find it pleasurable to be full and my cervix is also a pleasure spot. I imagine it will be even better if I can find someone who can actually get their whole hand in.

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RE: why is fisting so great? - 6/20/2007 2:37:47 AM

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Large lubed object......

That works for me.

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RE: why is fisting so great? - 6/20/2007 3:50:10 AM

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Hmm I find it great becasue I appear to be made up of one big g spot inside when his hand is in there, I find having his hand inside me in such a way and him ebing so gentle and loving when he does it just amazing. I love the way that when he does it i feel such a rush of love and pride over my boy (apparently you get some kind of chemical reaction similar to when you have a baby and bond with it) I love the feeling ti gives me, i love that I trust him enough to stick his hand in there. I love having my cervix manipiulated, I love feeling so full and not knowing where he starts and I finish. I lvoe it stopping my period pains.. And i love the look my my friends faces when i tell them what ive done

Ohh and Ill add that i just love that afterwards when I order him to fuck me hard that it feels bloody great and I cum loads again but for him he still doesnt get as much pleasure becasue its not as tight, It makes me feel dominant having his hand in me though im not sure why lol becasue I imagine it makes a lot of people feel submissive.

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RE: why is fisting so great? - 6/20/2007 4:07:38 AM

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i have never been fisted because it would require the seperation of the pelvic bone as in childbirth and with my family history of extreme oesteoperosis and my age i don't feel like i want to move bones around and expect them to pop back into place. The vagina is stretchy but bones are not supposed to be elastic. my pelvic floor is small enough that perhaps a woman's hand could fit but my g-spot is easily attainable and my depth short enough that the cervix is also easily reached that i don't see how the supposed pleasure would be worth the possible damage. i know, lube lube and more lube then even more lube but i also ask the question why?

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RE: why is fisting so great? - 6/20/2007 4:12:01 AM

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It's the g-spot orgasm brought on by the fist...for me much more intense than a clitoral orgasm...only thing that has ever made me 'ejaculate'or squirt...

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RE: why is fisting so great? - 6/20/2007 4:48:32 AM

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Something about watching a woman as I take her through the stages. Intial intimate finger play. Then more invasive as more fingers go in, pressure builds. A surrender to the demand, pleasure and pain mixed. Then somewhere in there as all the walls drop, she's exposed, greed ,wantoness and need. In that moment nothing is hidden. There is only core animalism and connection.

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RE: why is fisting so great? - 6/20/2007 5:02:50 AM

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If you've never ejaculated. you're probably not familiar with the "G-Spot" or "urethral sponge" ( http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Urethral_sponge ). Many woman like intense stimulation of this organ, and fisting fits the bill. It's just the task of getting the hand to enter the vagina. Care must be used, and in many women, they simply can't open enough to allow a hand to pass. It is worth the time, patience, and repeated attempts to accomplish.

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RE: why is fisting so great? - 6/20/2007 5:08:33 AM

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If you've never ejaculated. you're probably not familiar with the "G-Spot" or "urethral sponge" ( http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Urethral_sponge ). Many woman like intense stimulation of this organ, and fisting fits the bill. It's just the task of getting the hand to enter the vagina. Care must be used, and in many women, they simply can't open enough to allow a hand to pass. It is worth the time, patience, and repeated attempts to accomplish.

But if i've experienced these things without bone seperation, why is a whole hand better than a more comfortable insertable?

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RE: why is fisting so great? - 6/20/2007 5:46:00 AM

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If you've never ejaculated. you're probably not familiar with the "G-Spot" or "urethral sponge" ( http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Urethral_sponge ). Many woman like intense stimulation of this organ, and fisting fits the bill. It's just the task of getting the hand to enter the vagina. Care must be used, and in many women, they simply can't open enough to allow a hand to pass. It is worth the time, patience, and repeated attempts to accomplish.

But if i've experienced these things without bone seperation, why is a whole hand better than a more comfortable insertable?

Some prefer it. I guess it's better to answer some questions with questions. Why do some people like being spanked? Bound? Humiliated? Sick people out there

. Actually, the hand, once inserted (rarely causes bone separation if done right), can move in ways that most toys cannot. The hand is inserted in an arrow-head fashion, and closed into a fist upon/during insertion. Now you have an object the is larger than anything you could ever "insert". A rotating fist (knuckles on top) is very intense due to the pressure & the knuckles riding over the G-Spot (or prostate for that matter, depending on who's recieving it). Always wear surgical gloves, because finger nails can cause great damage, no matter how short they are trimmed.

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RE: why is fisting so great? - 6/20/2007 6:31:36 AM

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i enjoy a woman's fist, as well as a man's. It's a different feeling though. To me, a woman's fist is more sensual than my Master's fist, which is stronger and more forceful. i love how a woman's hand feels inside me. It's just a very different sensation.

Also, it doesn't require the entire fist (at least not with my Master's big hand) for me to feel the intense sensation that fisting gives me. Three fingers, especially when they're spread instead of balled, can have an amazing effect on me.

There is also the vulnerability factor that goes with it. Having someone else's hand in my vagina, manipulating me like a hand puppet, so to speak, is a feeling of vulnerability that adds to the experience and is very nice, for me.

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i have never been fisted because it would require the seperation of the pelvic bone as in childbirth and with my family history of extreme oesteoperosis and my age i don't feel like i want to move bones around and expect them to pop back into place. The vagina is stretchy but bones are not supposed to be elastic. my pelvic floor is small enough that perhaps a woman's hand could fit but my g-spot is easily attainable and my depth short enough that the cervix is also easily reached that i don't see how the supposed pleasure would be worth the possible damage. i know, lube lube and more lube then even more lube but i also ask the question why?

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RE: why is fisting so great? - 6/20/2007 6:57:25 AM

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ORIGINAL: MarkMinette

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ORIGINAL: MarkMinette

If you've never ejaculated. you're probably not familiar with the "G-Spot" or "urethral sponge" ( http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Urethral_sponge ). Many woman like intense stimulation of this organ, and fisting fits the bill. It's just the task of getting the hand to enter the vagina. Care must be used, and in many women, they simply can't open enough to allow a hand to pass. It is worth the time, patience, and repeated attempts to accomplish.

But if i've experienced these things without bone seperation, why is a whole hand better than a more comfortable insertable?

Some prefer it. I guess it's better to answer some questions with questions. Why do some people like being spanked? Bound? Humiliated? Sick people out there . Actually, the hand, once inserted (rarely causes bone separation if done right), can move in ways that most toys cannot. The hand is inserted in an arrow-head fashion, and closed into a fist upon/during insertion. Now you have an object the is larger than anything you could ever "insert". A rotating fist (knuckles on top) is very intense due to the pressure & the knuckles riding over the G-Spot (or prostate for that matter, depending on who's recieving it). Always wear surgical gloves, because finger nails can cause great damage, no matter how short they are trimmed.

Okay, i'm sorry i must be built differently than other women. i actually took out my tape measure and measured the bone from left to right and i have a clearance of only 2.25 inches i wouldn't be able to fit my own hand in there let alone anyone else. Also, my vagina sits behind the bone so for me my body is constructed from outside to inside in this order: labia, circle of pelvic floor bone (whatever that is called), then vagina etc. i haven't examined other women's genitalia so i'm not familiar with any other than my own. i don't question why other women enjoy this and i'm glad others are able to experience orgasms and squirting etc from this activity. i guess my body is just different and i wasn't aware just how different it is until now.

edited to add: now i'm embarassed

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RE: why is fisting so great? - 6/20/2007 7:36:41 AM

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Actually every person I've fisted orgasmed when I was ALSO stimulating their clitoris.

And people have different orgasms- while I always need clitorial stimulation, an orgasm just with my hand is different than with a vibrator, dildo, or anal. Different nerves are being touched in different ways and combination.

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RE: why is fisting so great? - 6/20/2007 7:38:59 AM

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Something about watching a woman as I take her through the stages. Intial intimate finger play. Then more invasive as more fingers go in, pressure builds. A surrender to the demand, pleasure and pain mixed. Then somewhere in there as all the walls drop, she's exposed, greed ,wantoness and need. In that moment nothing is hidden. There is only core animalism and connection.

I would add.... the feeling when her lips are wrapped around my wrist I can open my fingers and touch her heart at will.

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RE: why is fisting so great? - 6/20/2007 7:43:09 AM

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ORIGINAL: Legman1

Something about watching a woman as I take her through the stages. Intial intimate finger play. Then more invasive as more fingers go in, pressure builds. A surrender to the demand, pleasure and pain mixed. Then somewhere in there as all the walls drop, she's exposed, greed ,wantoness and need. In that moment nothing is hidden. There is only core animalism and connection.

Ummm..... what Legman1 said....

There's just something about the leading up to it.. and how far it open and exposes you as your animal side wants to run free....

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RE: why is fisting so great? - 6/20/2007 7:47:31 AM

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For me, it is the feeling of control AND the visual and auditory and sensation-loaded image of the woman beneath...spread wide as her tissues accept more and more of me, her writhing under the pressure, her gasps of pain and pleasure, the mini-contractions as I move my hand this way and push it that way and curl my fingers down, the grip when she orgasms and the amount of fluid created by that orgasm (in most cases), the moments of surrender afterwards.

All this and more...

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