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Thick Skin, Less Pain - 6/6/2005 4:55:58 PM

Mia1978

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Do any of you have 'thick skin'? I find I like 'pain' because I can actually feel the touch. Soft kisses on my cheek and there's not much to feel, if anything. Grabbing my ass, only a little sensation. A strong bite that leaves teeth marks and strong pinch, then I can tell he's there. Anyone else experience this?

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RE: Thick Skin, Less Pain - 6/6/2005 5:03:19 PM

fourpeas

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I don't know. I do see what you mean however about being grabbed firmly. Sometimes I get a little scared by that but I definitely prefer being grabbed firmly and kissed hard. Etc., etc. I am not a masochist but I definitely enjoy firmness. I like being grabbed and on that threshold despite the fact that I don't identify as masochistic. To me it's also evidence of desire...

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RE: Thick Skin, Less Pain - 6/6/2005 5:18:41 PM

Davesgirl

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I have similar issues, but its with my breasts. Light kisses on the nipples....barely feel it at all. But if he bites down with his teeth...oh boy do i feel that.! Dont know why it is, really, because it gets frustrating fro me when he is being soft and gentle...And I cant even feel it!

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RE: Thick Skin, Less Pain - 6/6/2005 6:24:18 PM

latour4

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This is such a relief to read! I get a little embarrassed with having to ask some sweet lil' sub to bite or suck harder! And because I like it that way, I tend to scare the recipient off when I am the one working. I also like my clit pinched while f$%*ing....it'll make me get there in no time!

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RE: Thick Skin, Less Pain - 6/7/2005 12:36:14 PM

Mia1978

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Oh I know! If he's tender I can't tell he's even there. He used to feel uncomfortable because he thought he was being too rough, but now he's understanding. lOl - when he bites me I have to say, "I can't feel that...still can't feel it...I can feel a little pressure now...Aw YES! Now I can feel that!!" He pulls off and has to examine to see if I'm bleeding. He's SO surprised when I'm not. If the teeth marks last at least 20 min he knows he did it right! :)

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RE: Thick Skin, Less Pain - 6/7/2005 12:53:29 PM

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I also like firmness if it gets to rough i get nervous. I don;t like too much roughness on my nipples they are senestive to the lightedt touch but i do like them sucked hard. I however dpn't like teeth marks if i was bitten that ard it would hurt me.

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