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RE: confused Doms - 6/21/2007 7:01:59 AM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		I just got a email from a very confused male dom

"can u dom me"


Diane

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RE: confused Doms - 6/21/2007 9:31:26 AM   
BossyShoeBitch


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ORIGINAL: lippyangelicsub
Am i being to harsh telling him to look else where?
lippy

In a word, NO.


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RE: confused Doms - 6/21/2007 9:46:17 AM   
Trampler


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Status: offline 		In my opinion, A Dom asking to be Dommed is not confused. it is just someone who usually prefers to be dominant, but every now and then wants to surrender.  As for the "Dom" who contacted you, lippyangelicsub, he is just a dork. :)

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RE: confused Doms - 6/21/2007 10:00:39 AM   
Ayanaev717


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Status: offline 		I always listen to what my gut says. There are plenty of wannabes, stalkers, unstable, and simply insane individuals on "collarme in da hood". When you mention he answers e-mails when he wants to and demands to see you and play. That is a huge RED FLAG.  Move on and don't let manipulation convince you that saying no will keep you from meeting the right subbie. You need to be safe. Anyone who demands anything of me or makes me feel uncomfortable in any fashion gets the door.

Always,

Ayanaev

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RE: confused Doms - 6/21/2007 10:19:01 AM   
hakiwowa


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Status: offline 		Click delete and block...the is not worth your effort or concern, and I would suspect unstable if he is demanding as you describe.  Submission is is a gift...it is earned...it's not a right.

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RE: confused Doms - 6/21/2007 10:24:47 AM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		Click on delete and block? Now that will make me have a double orgasm!!!!!!!!!!!



Diane

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RE: confused Doms - 6/21/2007 11:10:16 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Aside from the chuckles being had at the orgasms via the delete button (very funny Diane), the thought occurred to Me that if this confused Dom was in any way authentic in his desire to submit, he'd have had the brains to approach with respect.  Who in their right mind would be interested in engaging with a bottom who didn't know how to act properly?  Of course, he may not be able to command enough respect from his prior submissives to have a good enough example to know what to emulate.

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RE: confused Doms - 6/21/2007 11:14:37 AM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		If he sent a message with more then "can u dom me" I'd think about replying.


Diane

< Message edited by DianeB269 -- 6/21/2007 11:15:47 AM >

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RE: confused Doms - 6/21/2007 12:08:43 PM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		This is the reply i got a few minutes ago after I told him "I don't bottom from the top"


"your fake like all the other losers"



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RE: confused Doms - 6/21/2007 8:14:27 PM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		And yet another confused dom emails me with this 

"such a self centered...egotistical bitch....i am in love........ "

Then blocks me. WTF is up with these little pussy male doms?

Diane

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RE: confused Doms - 6/21/2007 10:18:52 PM   
ocilla


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269 And yet another confused dom emails me with this "such a self centered...egotistical bitch....i am in love........ "Then blocks me. WTF is up with these little pussy male doms?Diane

OMG this is cracking me up! lol. Well, I suppose they are giving you the delete & block opportunity for orgasms and a good laugh for everyone else.  Boys! got their little panties in a wad. Shaking my head and laughing.

< Message edited by ocilla -- 6/21/2007 10:19:45 PM >

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RE: confused Doms - 6/21/2007 10:22:56 PM   
FullfigRIMaam


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Status: offline 		It sounds to me like he is trying to control you, and not very smoothly, and he is most probably hiding something.
You know things aren't right, so use your instinct and good judgement instead of lettitng someone run you just because he's trying to let you think you're running the show by calling you the dominant.   M

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RE: confused Doms - 6/22/2007 6:13:21 AM   
LadyIce


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Status: offline 		I get a lot of email from Doms.  Recently, one Dom told me he would rather be a submissive.
I think many of the people on here change with the weather.

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RE: confused Doms - 6/22/2007 8:43:52 AM   
Trampler


Posts: 580
Joined: 12/31/2006
Status: offline 		Being a switch, the concept of a Dom wanting to submit doesn't bother me.......I have talked to quite a few male Doms who say they would like to switch but rarely meet a woman that they would feel comfortable enough with to do so.  Underneath that confident exterior there is often a little boy who craves the chance to surrender.

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