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Coming here to get grounded? - 6/20/2007 3:48:48 PM   
santasub


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Status: offline 		Hi all. I'm an uncollared subbie and presently living (totally by choice) in very rural Portugal. As a result I'm spending a lot of time on both work and social (vanilla) chat sites although I am practising my Portuguese language via CD's and lessons!

Sometimes however I find the vanilla chatter and nonsense overwhelming and just need to come back to c.chat for a while to remind myself of the 'real' world for a while. Despite being totally out of the physical scene it is huge comfort to connect (even as a reader!) to a lifestyle that I know, love and feel secure in.

Not necessarily looking for advice, just understanding.

sarah
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RE: Coming here to get grounded? - 6/20/2007 5:28:34 PM   
maybemaybenot


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Status: offline 		Welcome to you, santasub ! Hope you enjoy your time here.

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RE: Coming here to get grounded? - 6/20/2007 5:58:21 PM   
crouchingtigress


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From: Maui
Status: offline 		glad we can help!

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RE: Coming here to get grounded? - 6/20/2007 6:05:10 PM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		No fucking sympathy from me you "bitch"...living in rural Portugal?  I am SO totally jealous!  That is one of the places I truly lust after as a place to go.  How is it, tell us about the food, the tastes and smells!

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RE: Coming here to get grounded? - 6/20/2007 6:19:34 PM   
michaelOfGeorgia


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Status: offline 		i could not live in the boonies...sooooooooooo boring

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RE: Coming here to get grounded? - 6/20/2007 6:23:00 PM   
GeekyGirl


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Status: offline 		I live in rural texas, and it is very hard for me to have time to drive into lifestyle oriented real world events...so I totally understand where you are coming from!

I wouldn't trade my country life for anything...but thank gods for the internet!


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RE: Coming here to get grounded? - 6/20/2007 6:25:10 PM   
SlaveBlutarsky


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Status: offline 		Hmmm. Coming here to get grounded, as in collarme? Interesting.

Certainly glad something gets you grounded. It must be amazing to immerse yourself in a totally different world like that. I'd have to have something to bring me back as well. I just don't know if it's this place


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RE: Coming here to get grounded? - 6/20/2007 7:31:07 PM   
ExSteelAgain


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Status: offline 		Lisbon, Porto? They can't be that far from you.

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RE: Coming here to get grounded? - 6/20/2007 11:29:02 PM   
Texy


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Status: offline 		I'd use whatever I could that would keep me grounded! Grounded is just a good space to be.

Welcome and a big Howdy from Texas,

gayle

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RE: Coming here to get grounded? - 6/21/2007 12:51:59 AM   
yrstocollar


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Status: offline 		Good luck to you! I'm doing the same thing... living in small-town Norway... not really THAT small but compared to what I'm used to... anyway... CM really helps me stay grounded too.

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RE: Coming here to get grounded? - 6/21/2007 3:01:56 AM   
pandoravampire


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Status: offline 		im travelling around a bit at the moment, my friends who would understand, are thousands of miles away right now. Email is a god send also. And collarme, is a very poor substitute for real life, but yes, grounded is a good word. Sometimes it feels like a favourite club, at others a vipers nest. Just like real life lol.
You are very welcome. Take the weight off, relax. I can feed some of my need by being here too.
For when times is ard! in nilla world.
pandoravampire

< Message edited by pandoravampire -- 6/21/2007 3:04:07 AM >

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RE: Coming here to get grounded? - 6/21/2007 6:25:30 AM   
becca333


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Status: offline 		Interacting with like-minded people can keep a special part of your psyche alive.  And this place is really educational, too. 

So.... tell us about Portugal - what's it like there?  Apart from the lack of action.

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RE: Coming here to get grounded? - 6/21/2007 6:34:39 AM   
thetammyjo


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quote:

ORIGINAL: santasub

Hi all. I'm an uncollared subbie and presently living (totally by choice) in very rural Portugal. As a result I'm spending a lot of time on both work and social (vanilla) chat sites although I am practising my Portuguese language via CD's and lessons!

Sometimes however I find the vanilla chatter and nonsense overwhelming and just need to come back to c.chat for a while to remind myself of the 'real' world for a while. Despite being totally out of the physical scene it is huge comfort to connect (even as a reader!) to a lifestyle that I know, love and feel secure in.

Not necessarily looking for advice, just understanding.

sarah


I completely understand, sarah.

I came to CM after a year plus of no longer having a very close local community. This place does not (and can not in my opinion) replace a meatlife community but it is at least a place to learn and share and talk about things that some of my vanilla friends might not understand.

Though my vanilla friends are a very intelligent, open-minded, and cool bunch of people. Far more accepting of my owning Fox as a slave than some folks in the kink community were.

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