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Sweet temptations - 6/21/2007 7:11:35 AM   
becca333


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Status: offline 		I have to say...

Even though I have a fantastic Dom and I'm not looking for a partner, I have a sad confession to make.

I've had impure thoughts.  About some of the Doms from this site.

I see their pictures, and read their profiles, and I start to dream.... I read some of their posts and feel a lovely shiver down my spine (and in a few other places).  They're just so darn tempting!  Not that I'd ever do anything about those thoughts - I'm far too happy and fortunate. 

But still...I can dream.

I hang my head in shame.
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RE: Sweet temptations - 6/21/2007 7:30:20 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Can't tell if you mean this to be more cute/funny, or to actually spurn some sort of discussion? 

Of course, I ask why wouldn't you do anything with those thoughts?  Share them with your dom?  Incorporate them into your fantasies and scenes together?

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RE: Sweet temptations - 6/21/2007 7:50:50 AM   
CreativeDominant


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quote:

ORIGINAL: becca333

I have to say...

Even though I have a fantastic Dom and I'm not looking for a partner, I have a sad confession to make.

I've had impure thoughts.  About some of the Doms from this site.

I see their pictures, and read their profiles, and I start to dream.... I read some of their posts and feel a lovely shiver down my spine (and in a few other places).  They're just so darn tempting!  Not that I'd ever do anything about those thoughts - I'm far too happy and fortunate. 

But still...I can dream.

I hang my head in shame.


Assuming that you are serious, then do as LA said.  Sound out with your dominant some of the thoughts you have had about the dominants.  Play with those thoughts in your scenes together or at night, when he has you cuddled up by him.  Let him turn those into a wicked bedtime story. 

I knew from the start that my first submissive had a very wanton nature.  She had been a swinger for a short while before she got into BDSM and she never hid that fact from me.  I made use of that to heighten things between us by asking her about some of her past lovers while I was doing wicked things to her...e.g....I had her bound on her shoulders and knees once and...taking from what she had told me about a former lover...whispered in her ear to "feel" him and me as we both entered her while I put three fingers into her, two upfront and one behind.  The blush that came over her as she pushed back at the fingers at the same time was fantastic and told me that my mindplay was working well.

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RE: Sweet temptations - 6/21/2007 7:51:50 AM   
becca333


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Status: offline 		I'm sorry to meander on, it's late and I'm letting my mind wander before bedtime.  But I really do have lovely daydreams about some of the members here.

And thanks for the suggestion - it'll be a fun scene.

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RE: Sweet temptations - 6/21/2007 8:00:27 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		Oh, yeah, there are some who sound so good from their profiles.  I always wonder what their huge flaw is.  Because everyone is flawed and some worse (much worse) than others.  But it's fun to read profiles and wonder how the person would be in real life.  And of course to think....why does he have to live the entire way across the country.

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RE: Sweet temptations - 6/21/2007 8:03:03 AM   
slave2behis


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Status: offline 		Don't hang your head in shame.. heck I left my former Master because I had impure thoughts.. Let me assure you the grass is NOT any greener.. The men here by and large are hardly worth your trouble. I have always been a slut, mighty proud to be a slut I tell you... the thoughts I have often made my owner happy, for I would tell him them as fantasies.. He allowed me to leave but I am starting to realize that I probably should have stayed.

Oh yes this is my first post and came about because one of the hundreds of men suggested that I post and yours was the first one where I thought I had something to contribute
Marie

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RE: Sweet temptations - 6/21/2007 8:23:10 AM   
vield


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Status: offline 		I gave up the concept of "Impure thoughts'' back when I gave up the catholic thing, and I am recovering from that quite well, thank you!

Happy thoughts work for me, and sharing ideas and thoughts and fantasies with partners can be very good for all involved! Of course one needs open minded honest partners to make it work.

LOL I think we really should incorporate "Sluts 'R' Us" and affilliate it with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom! As dom or as sub, I certainly am ALWAYS a SLUT!


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RE: Sweet temptations - 6/21/2007 8:43:49 AM   
gemy


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Status: offline 		greetings becca :)

in this one's opinion, having erotic thoughts about Others doesn't seem all that, well, unusual.  especially about some of the Doms from here *grinz*  there are more than several Dominants on this site that this girl would love to scene with, or have wild monkey sex with, or be totally dominanted/humiliated/used by, and there is one Gorean Master girl actually approached and almost begged to own her (before she met the Dom that she's with now).

so, she speaks to her Dom of her passions and desires, to use or not as He sees fit.  perhaps when/if the time is right, she will ask her Dom to allow her to follow through with a fantasy if the Dominant from here agrees and wants to.  as W/we are poly and in an open relationship (although this one has rules relative thereto), who knows what the future holds?  but fantasies are fun!  remember, reading from the desert menu is fine, it's whether or not to actually order ~~

best wishes,
gemmie

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RE: Sweet temptations - 6/21/2007 9:14:24 AM   
DaddyUK4baby


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ORIGINAL: slave2behis

The men here by and large are hardly worth your trouble.



Having joined only 4 day's ago. How can you possibly know enough people on Collar Me to make such a sweeping statement???????.
Come back in twelve month's time, having contacted and talked to at least a few Real people. We may take You seriously, Doubt it though.

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RE: Sweet temptations - 6/21/2007 9:36:56 AM   
YourShyPet


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Status: offline 		I must be missing something here.... or maybe I just don't look at enough profiles... because beyond one profile on this site I've yet to run across another that I've seen, and had "impure" aka sexual thoughts about.

kittin

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RE: Sweet temptations - 6/21/2007 9:43:40 AM   
earthycouple


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ORIGINAL: YourShyPet

I must be missing something here.... or maybe I just don't look at enough profiles... because beyond one profile on this site I've yet to run across another that I've seen, and had "impure" aka sexual thoughts about.

kittin


damn...and I thought I was making all the submissives yearn.  Another domly moment shot to hell for me.  I now hang my head in shame. *S*

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RE: Sweet temptations - 6/21/2007 9:51:09 AM   
taintedgypsy


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Status: offline 		hmm I do not spend time looking at profiles but have to admit there have been posts on here by several Doms that have made my blood move a little faster and on a couple of occasions turned my blood up to lava heat level where I have just had to have a sneak peak at their profile and for the most part this has only increased the fantasy currency lol.

I have shared not only these thoughts but some rather wicked ideas on what I thought such meetings might intail ... particularly with one Dom on here whose words sugest a mind of infinite possibilities to torment a girl. hmmmmm

His reaction is usually to add a little extra evil to these thoughts either in a very physical sense or just dirrecting my verbal fantasy along more interesting lines ... He is quite at home with the wonton slut thing and encourages it as suits him too lol.

I definately feel no shame or guilt with these thoughts ... hell no lol

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RE: Sweet temptations - 6/21/2007 9:53:41 AM   
YourShyPet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: earthycouple

quote:

ORIGINAL: YourShyPet

I must be missing something here.... or maybe I just don't look at enough profiles... because beyond one profile on this site I've yet to run across another that I've seen, and had "impure" aka sexual thoughts about.

kittin


damn...and I thought I was making all the submissives yearn.  Another domly moment shot to hell for me.  I now hang my head in shame. *S*


awwwwww I sowwy earthy... it's just me... apparently it's extremely hard to sexually entice me... well atleast thats what I've been told LOL.

kittin

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RE: Sweet temptations - 6/21/2007 10:25:26 AM   
imthatacheyouhav


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Status: offline 		I personally would not voice to my Master IF i ever felt "a lovely shiver" from thinking about another man. I would promptly get my feelings in check, and focus my attention back to my Master......i know, i know.... but its how i personally feel...

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RE: Sweet temptations - 6/21/2007 10:30:08 AM   
lighthearted


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quote:

ORIGINAL: earthycouple

quote:

ORIGINAL: YourShyPet

I must be missing something here.... or maybe I just don't look at enough profiles... because beyond one profile on this site I've yet to run across another that I've seen, and had "impure" aka sexual thoughts about.

kittin


damn...and I thought I was making all the submissives yearn.  Another domly moment shot to hell for me.  I now hang my head in shame. *S*


don't give up hope yet

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RE: Sweet temptations - 6/21/2007 10:44:00 AM   
SirDominic


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Status: offline 		Thoughts are thoughts. Actions are actions. I've never believed there is any harm in thinking about fantasies, or thinking about anything for that matter. As long as you know you have a fantastic Dom and have no interest in a new partner, enjoy those erotic, hot sensations when you see someone who entices you.

Besides, guilt is the most wasted emotion of them all.

Namaste, Sir Dominic

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RE: Sweet temptations - 6/21/2007 10:47:16 AM   
sunfleur


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Status: offline 		oh hell. i LIVE for impure thoughts.. and actions hehehehehe  no shame in it.

sun

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RE: Sweet temptations - 6/21/2007 11:02:39 AM   
slaverosebeauty


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From: Cali
Status: offline 		People have fantasies, its normal. A few men on here, who are good friends, I think about, so, that does NOT mean that I am betraying MJ or our relationship, it just means that I am a healthy female. I know that MJ likes how other women look, He is NORMAL. I have a slight jealously streak, yet, if He wanted to be with someone else, He would be; same with me, if I wanted to be with someone else, I would be.  
 
As for 'impure thoughts' heck, all I think about is 'impure' by vanilla standards. Don't dwell on it, if it starts to becoem more than a fantasy, THEN you have issues, until then, enjoy hte fantasies,, remember, reality is so much sweeter.

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RE: Sweet temptations - 6/21/2007 11:07:04 AM   
meticulousgirl


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Status: offline 		I totally see where your coming from and can relate to it when it comes to one particular fantasy that I have.  Yes i'm Owned but I know that it will only ever be a fantasy.

Mine involves just being loaned out to a particular household, until recently I didn't know who the family was, didn't know their names, but had heard stories of how They treated Their girls and it was always such a turn on.  I've never been a swinger, I've never really been into Poly but this fantasy has peaked my interest and due to that peak and speaking with poly families I somehow found out not only who the Master of that household was but inadvertanly began speaking with Him, Himself.   When I found out I lost my mind, and couldn't get any of the thoughts out of my head.  I mean seriously "this is the man in my fantasies" how do I not keep talking to Him, easily....it's forbidden and I know it, so I didn't have a choice out of respect, and obedience but to stop talking to that One guy who has been on my mind for four years now. 

There's nothing saying you cant fantasize, but it's putting fantasy to reality.  Sometimes a fantasy is better left that, a dream.  I mean what happens if the experience in reality is terrible....your not going to have the fantasy that's been getting you off anymore now will you.

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RE: Sweet temptations - 6/21/2007 2:02:14 PM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		I describe this as I'm taken, but I'm not blind. I know he looks at filthy pictures lol online so he's not blind either.

Basically you look at someone, see that the plumbing is working right and then take it on home to use it where it belongs. Normal human response.

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