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scene ideas - 6/21/2007 3:20:14 PM

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Im trying to think of scene type ideas that could be done in a public place that are non sexual. And that arent overly obvious to people around you. Has anyone ever done things in public that werent overly obvious and not sexual that were D/s related?

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RE: scene ideas - 6/21/2007 3:31:42 PM

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You can recreate different myths and legends: andromeda, women sacrificed to dragons and whatnot. Depending on your town, exhibits of different forms of torture?
Edit to add if all you need is D/s, look at Taming of the Shrew, or most legends where a kid or woman is tormented by one in power: hansel and gretal, cinderella, etc.

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RE: scene ideas - 6/21/2007 3:31:55 PM

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There are lots to be done that are not sexual.

Being held by the wrist instead of the hand as he walks so fast that I can only trot behind him is my favourite!

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RE: scene ideas - 6/21/2007 3:36:56 PM

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My favorite thing is to have rope bound around me (chest, arms/legs), but hidden by clothing. That way, he can touch the rope and guide me where he needs to. We know what is happening and the meaning behind it, but to the less attuned eye they are none the wiser.

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RE: scene ideas - 6/21/2007 3:41:07 PM

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Now you've got me thinking... but there are really so many!! Just re-reading it there is a bit of a theme going on...

Someone recently talked about her Dom unexpectedly taking her bag (money, phone etc.) for the night which left her feeling powerless... or you could reverse that and make them responsible for ensuring the safety of all the coats / valuables etc. Then they probably have to stay in the same spot while you go off and deliberately check out the room... you could always chose where they have to sit and monitor it... depends on the location and occasion...
Specifically wearing something to remind you of the other person and your relationship (jewellry, a ribbon, whatever is chosen) maybe something the other person could touch or refer to without alerting others
Having a word or phrase that meant something for the evening and/or the other person then had to do something in particular... it doesn't have to be out of character... could be going to the bathroom...
Sending messages which the other person had to try not to react to... they could be about anything you were into
Being required to act a certain way for the evening knowing there was a treat waiting later if you behaved well
Having to serve the other person all night... ie get drinks, pay for things etc.
Being able to perform whatever tasks / behaviour etc. without anyone noticing or commenting on it
Having to do something specific every time the Dom did something or said a code word... that way the sub has to really stay alert and it's always on their mind... if it's a gesture or something then you can do it across a crowded room and it's just your secret
Maybe they have some kind of task for the evening... counting and keeping track of people... how many people were wearing a red top and when did they arrive or leave... who they talked to or what they drank...

I don't know... anything that keeps the sub reminded of the power dynamic going on the whole night... especially if there's a treat later and especially if they don't get caught!

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RE: scene ideas - 6/21/2007 4:42:37 PM

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Im trying to think of scene type ideas that could be done in a public place that are non sexual. And that arent overly obvious to people around you. Has anyone ever done things in public that werent overly obvious and not sexual that were D/s related?

One night, I had a submissive dress in a very nice short dress and then had her go to the ladies room at the restaurant and take her panties off and give them to me at the table. There was no intention of showing herself off to anyone or to allow me access...it was done because I wanted it done and it reinforced the fact that I could make her do something without any reason other than I controlled her. She kept waiting for me to have her flash or bend over or stay spread or cross her legs slowly in front of someone...and none of that happened til we were home. Then, it happened for me.

The idea that faith mentioned is also one I have used...gripping a submissive by the wrist and moving as fast as possible with no way for her to slow down. Especially effective with the same submissive noted above who had a bad habit of not beginning to get ready in time and so, if we had been made to be late due to her not being prepared or giving herself enough time to be prepared, then I did my best to ensure that we would be in a hurry to get there once we were going.

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RE: scene ideas - 6/21/2007 6:02:05 PM

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My Master has a small remote controlled vibrator which he slips into a condom and I insert. It has a range of a couple of hundred metres and works through walls! He calls it the Door Bell. He turns it on unexpectedly to distract me when I am talking to someone, or sends me to order at the bar and then turns it on so I have to trot back and find out what he wants. It's a summons to leave what I'm doing and return to him when we're at a party. And if he forgets to turn it off again....mmmmm.....LOL
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RE: scene ideas - 6/21/2007 6:12:23 PM

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My Dominant leads me around by my hair while we're out. No one notices. Strangers don't pay attention to what we are doing and they probably wouldn't care if they did notice. You could say "You're not allowed to make eye contact with anyone except me tonight." If you like humiliation, you could put a spin on that as well. It makes for an interesting situation when you have a waitress who is hell bent on making eye contact with you. Or you purchase something and the cashier wants to look you in the eye to tell you have to have a nice day.

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RE: scene ideas - 6/21/2007 6:21:26 PM

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LOL LadyHeart ... on your recommendation some years ago, Master bought one of those wondrous items also! One of my favourite dinners out was a smorgasbord ... W/we were sitting at a table close to the spread so Master could see the food. i was to fetch His meal for Him ... when i stopped in front of a dish, He "buzzed" me if He wanted it, not if He didn't! It sure made serving Him a whole lot of fun! Though He did surprise the heck out of me when He buzzed me when i was in the loo!

Other fun things ... as a Domme, I like to do the ordering for a male sub. One time long ago in Melbourne, I had 2 male subs with Me ... and oh dear, it really threw one young male waiter off his stride when I was doing ALL the talking for all 3 of U/us LOL! He kept trying to absolutely no avail to get one of the boys to speak up ... beyond asking them what they wanted, did they want cream or icecream with their cakes, he kept asking them if the food was good ... and I kept answering. It was hilarious! When W/we left, W/we got to the till and he was there to take the money. He looked at Me and said, "I guess you're paying then" at which I threw him entirely by saying "Actually, no, they are!" W/we got outside and the 3 of U/us collapsed laughing, W/we'd all enjoyed it immensely.

Another fun one was Valentine's Day, out to dinner in a nice restaurant with My CD now-ex-hubby ... W/we exchanged presents. I told him he'd better go to the men's room to open his and I wanted him to put them on. he disappeared ... and didn't return for AGES! I'd given him his first pair of crotchless panties and he couldn't work out how to put them on LOL! When I checked when W/we got home ... he'd got them wrong.

I liked many of the suggestions yrstocollar made, have used some of those in the past too.

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RE: scene ideas - 6/21/2007 6:22:04 PM

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he could make you dance

he could make you shave his face

he could order everything you eat at the restraunt

he could make you clean the public bathrooms

he could make you sing

he could make you shop in the vegtable ilse with full knowledge that all the things you buy will be used in play at some point

he could stand outside the dressing room door at victoria secret with item after item to try for him, and each time you had to curtsie

he could make you walk with out touching the heels to the ground in flat shoes to give tha appearance of high heels, and you could get a punnishment for anytime the heels touched

he could lead you in the the beuty parlor and pick out a style and have them do it

he could tie a little bell on your gstring

he could lead you by the wrist like a child then by the hand as an adult

he could forbid a certain word or words....such as is, no, and, but.

if you live in the city you could be made to do a marilyn monroe over the air vents

he could make you excuse yourself to insert several ice cubes that would melt as you were walking

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RE: scene ideas - 6/21/2007 6:30:21 PM

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Here is My fav thing I've done to a sassy submissive---when we arrived at lunch--I sat in the hot sun, ordered a drink, when the sub arrived--I gave him an envelope---in which there were 12 plastic clothespins--with instructions in where to place them, He was to bring Me his underwear and have the clothes pins in place, I made him sit there--through lunch in the heat, it was marvelous---at dessert, I told him to go remove them--and return--heh heh heh, it was great! And not a bit sexual--------------------LOL I brought him under control, better than any Pro he ever had.

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RE: scene ideas - 6/21/2007 8:09:34 PM

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I like to punish the back of her hand before going out, get it nice and tender yet unmarked.
then the lightest touch as reminder thru the evening.

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RE: scene ideas - 6/22/2007 7:30:18 AM

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i like apache dancing. It's nicely aggressive, but semi-acceptable in a vanilla venue. People will stare and comment on the two of you having it out but no one will intervene, although ... I would dearly love to administer an impromptu spanking to an errant or difficult slave in front of an unsuspecting public.

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