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Mystique567 -> RE: on your knees? (6/22/2007 4:42:05 PM)

Yep I think the late part would be great, just not so late that she thinks your not gonna show.




MasterFireMaam -> RE: on your knees? (6/22/2007 5:24:38 PM)

Because she takes guidance about clothes doesn't mean she's submissive. Many women are raised that you dress, and sometimes act, in a way that attracts a man if you want to get the man. I was totally like this...and ended up in two marriages where the submissive role did NOT suit me. Had I known then what I know now....

If you want to know if she's kinky, just ask her. The real questions are: What will you do if she is? and What will you do is she isn't?

Master Fire




robertolapiedra -> RE: on your knees? (6/22/2007 5:52:15 PM)

Hello swichtmt. It's wishful thinking.

If you want to drop to your knees you better have a plan B.

Sometimes a joke is just a joke. RL.







PairOfDimes -> RE: on your knees? (6/22/2007 7:23:09 PM)

It sounds like that playful remark could be an easy way for you to lead in to kinky conversation. It's not an automatic "she's kinky! she's sending kinky signals!" alert. It does offer you an opportunity to bring it up relatively smoothly, but it doesn't mean that should you bring it up, she would delightedly express her longstanding involvement in BDSM.

As for acceding to small requests, that's something lots of people do, especially in a new relationship. And by the way, feminism is neither equal to "femdom" nor to any interest in BDSM. Indeed, some strains of feminism regard kinky sex unfavorably.




AquaticSub -> RE: on your knees? (6/22/2007 9:39:00 PM)

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ORIGINAL: switchmt

A girl I just started vanilla dating with told me if I'd be late I'd have to get on my knees...

Now is it just me and my wishful thinking or is she probably kinky or into D/s ?
I'm wondering now.. I give her simple orders (shoes to wear) which she's following well so far..she seems to like it and hasn't complained...



It really could go either way. I'm a sub but once upon a time, I told a man that he would have to get on his knees to get me to go something or other (I can't remember what anymore).




velvetears -> RE: on your knees? (6/22/2007 10:40:22 PM)

Assuming she not kinky - which is more then likely the case, telling you if your late you better fall to your knees is akin to saying - be late and you will have to beg my forgiveness aka - i don't appreciate dates who show up late. Just my own (possibly warped) interpretation [&:]




becca333 -> RE: on your knees? (6/23/2007 2:35:00 AM)

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ORIGINAL: switchmt

...sure I would. Only thing is we are meeting in a public place... makes it difficult to fall on your knees..




Whatever you do, be careful.  She'll think you're proposing, and it's so damn embarrassing when everyone thinks you just got engaged, and you didn't mean to.




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