SLN
Posts: 2
Joined: 6/22/2007 Status: offline
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Hello to all you folks. I am using the nickname SLN here as I have ended up confused. Am I a natural sub with Switch fantasies or am I a Switch with no experience of anything but the most gentle and loving of submission. That explains the S, the LN means Living-Nilla. I am in a committed monogamous relationship with my beloved wife. A few years ago we experimented with submission and bondage, including being tied, using some sensation play (not pain), and me extending the amount I normally serve her to stop arguing with her and accepting her will. It was the time I have felt most right in my entire life. Unfortunately, it was something that freaked her out and so not something I can go back to. Yet I know that her love of me means more to me than me feeling right about myself. Hence I am a sub/Switch-Living-Nilla. I have come here for a relatively obvious reason: to talk among people like me and so have an outlet for those feelings without doing so in any way that would upset or be difficult for my wife. I hope that's an acceptable reason for being here.
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