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Moving in - 6/8/2005 9:34:42 AM   
RiotGirl


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Status: offline 		Can we all just gather and do a collect of Wooooooooooooooo Hoooooooooooo, Woo Hoo, Woo Hoo? Cmon, lets try it gether and then after we must giggle like a school girl. (go on try it, its fun) AND if you're REALLY excited, find the nearest person, grab both their hands, hop up and down and turn in a circle (the happy dance) i'm about to go do that myself = )

i swear one thing can colour so many other things. Out of all the million worries i have, some large, some small, i'm just like F it. Who cares, cossssssssssss he has set a day, for us to move intogether. (Happy dance) the weekend of the 17th. i will be living with him (happy dance) (giggle) (wooo hooo) (happy dance) (giggle) (wooo hooo)

Ok besides the fact i'm aboslutely thrilled and been waiting and wanting for nigh on god knows how long, and its like just another step in completeing MY dream. (ya know the song, first comes love, then marriage, then the baby) Okay so i found the man, the love has been established, now the more serious commitment (moving in), then marriage and one day kids. Moving intogether is SUCH a step in commitment to me. Because words to me are practically meaningless. BUT re arranging your life, changing your life, and well can we just say ECT on what excatly moving intogether means as a commitment) So i'm thrilled! (happy dance) (giggle) (wooo hooo)

Okay, now other then needing to post my little thrilled self on collarme. i've questions, as well i am slightly nervous. i went searching for a TPE relationship long time ago, found one, but being so far apart, the TPE was only like half there. NOW lving together, well as he's told me, its going to go full blown TPE. Yuppers i'm excited, and yuppers i'm nervous.

So what like SHOULD I KNOW? ANY advice? i mean like what should i expect. (which of course, i'm asking for information i havent already figured out) wooooooooooooooooooooo. Which i suppose i've figured out quite abit on my own. How about, anyone else want to go and share their "moving in" stories with me? i mean i know its gonna be like when we are together for the weekend or so, and maybe abit more indepth.

Ooooooooo so moving in stories, advice, anything others think is "good to know"????

Excited and thrilled in Kissimmee (where everyone learns the language of mooooooo)

(happy dance) (giggle) (wooo hooo)
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RE: Moving in - 6/8/2005 9:36:46 AM   
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So what like SHOULD I KNOW? ANY advice? i mean like what should i expect. (which of course, i'm asking for information i havent already figured out) wooooooooooooooooooooo.


With enthusiasm like that what could go wrong? Yeah, I know things can but why worry about it now?

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RE: Moving in - 6/8/2005 9:40:54 AM   
EmeraldSlave2


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Status: offline 		Who is responsible for what bills?

Who is responsible for what chores?

It's going to be like the weekends....except now you have to deal with eachother every day, the good and the bad, it won't be as frenzied intense as you had to squash it all in a short time. It won't be "vacations from reality" together, it will be dealing with it regularly. How are your sleeping patterns the same? How are your eating times? Conflicts in preferred tv shows? How much computer time is too much?

But enjoy, it is a big step.

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RE: Moving in - 6/8/2005 1:16:07 PM   
RiotGirl


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Status: offline 		Heh, i tend to worry about EVERYTHING. Always been like that. = ) At one point today i worried about the ice cream man, cos we could hear it, but it wasnt coming around. i worried about my daughters disapointment after sitting by the window for ages waiting for it to come down our street. <grins> Life isnt one of those things that goes the way its planned. Anything and everything can happen, with out a moments notice, just because.

Thanks for the things to keep in mind (like not worry). Yeah! i'm excited that its not going to be "vacationing from reality" anymore. God its so depressing stepping back into reality! LOL. So now it will BE reality. Just to answer your questions, though i know its not needed. Bills are 50/50. Chores i havent a clue and dont really care. LOL i tend to take the full responsiblity of them as it is, so continueing doing so or having help isnt too biggie. Sleeping schedules tend to be the same, though i am sure mine will change when he is here. As they tend to do. Instead of staying up half the night, i will be sleeping like i should be. Eating, i hardly eat (he eats well) so i suppose i'll be eating more healthily. (food bah) Could careless about TV and as for the computer. Hmmmmm. We each have our own, so that wont be a conflict, but what i have noticed is that when we are together, the computer tends to become off limits to me. i've sort of already thought of those. Though i know there are other things i am missing in my thinking. Like too much time and not enough time.

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RE: Moving in - 6/8/2005 1:32:36 PM   
SirKenin


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Status: offline 		(Almost) everything you thought you knew about him, you do not. (Almost) every way He has portrayed Himself to be, He is not. (Almost) everything you invisioned life will be, it will not be. This event will turn your life upside down. you are going to realize that what you thought you knew, you did not know at all. The fun little daydreams give way to the stark realities.

It is quite exciting really. I can tell you that it has turned into a very happy time in My life, and time for U/us to celebrate (party this weekend).

The trick is, as far as I am concerned, that you MUST love the other person for who T/they are. If you do not it is only a matter of time before you are dead in the water.

I am VERY happy for you. Really excited. Such great news so soon after talking about it in another thread.... I wonder if it is true that good things come in threes, and what is that third thing.

< Message edited by SirKenin -- 6/8/2005 1:33:33 PM >

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RE: Moving in - 6/8/2005 5:35:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		big hugs....I hope that all that what it seems to be is what it is tyo be, in otherwords I agree with Es and Sir K....all that being said best of luck....hope it works out well for you, you are most deseving....
best Sputnik

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RE: Moving in - 6/8/2005 7:42:10 PM   
RiotGirl


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Status: offline 		Thanks for the advice everyone! Doubt there's much he can do that will suprise me. i'm pretty good at studying people. Think i have a pretty good feel for who he is, even all the things he doesnt want me to know about him. Luckily for us, the love has been well established, and tried, over and over again. Though i swore at the age of 21 NEVER to live with a significant other again (as well as a whole list of things). i have actually lived with quite a few boyfriends. Seems the best way to end a relationship. 4 to be excat. So i know the reality of living with a s/o, i suppose i was more thinking about the reality of living D/s full time.

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RE: Moving in - 6/8/2005 8:21:05 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Dear RiotGirl,

Sorry to weigh in so late on this...........Bless You and Yours...

If you remember me from any of message posts.

1) For Christ's sake don't pee in public..........LOL.

2) Be slow to anger and resentment.

3) If you don't understand, it is not always incumbent upon Master to know intuitively, communication is a two-way street.

4) Sometimes, dark things have to be pushed off for a moment. In the expanse of unfolding time, and ponderance.........things may glitter in different fashion. Passion and 'fit' begins here and ends here.

5) Do your best.

6) Dwell on toleration for the greater good.

7) Be well, be happy, be satisfied, be loved............

XO,
ALL health, wealth, happiness and love....to You And Yours,

Ron
these are in no particular order, you know.........You will do well, Pilgrim.



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RE: Moving in - 6/8/2005 9:30:51 PM   
Lepidoptera


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Status: offline 		And that's why I will never live with anyone who doesn't spend as much time on the computer as I do. When I was living with my former Master and Mistress, each of us had our own computer, and we sat there, all three of us in a row, all the time.

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RE: Moving in - 6/8/2005 9:40:46 PM   
BlkTallFullfig


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Status: offline 		Congrats Riotgirl...
Wish you lots of peace, love and good health. M

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RE: Moving in - 6/8/2005 11:03:16 PM   
proudsub


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Status: offline 		Congrats RiotGirl!! How very exciting.

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RE: Moving in - 6/9/2005 1:31:15 AM   
darkinshadows


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Congratulations Riot !

Living the life is just like living any life - it takes patience, time and alot of effort. What should you know - expect? Know that its life - natural and completely normal. No one can tell you what it will be like - thats between you and He - but it will always be special.

Peace and Love

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RE: Moving in - 6/9/2005 5:08:08 AM   
GreyStorm


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Status: offline 		Just make sure the ground rules are set before moving in......will the toliet seat be kept in an upright position or down, all the time? And when there are only 2 sheets of toilet paper on the roll, it gets changed for the next user.

Other than that, enjoy and congrats.

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RE: Moving in - 6/9/2005 12:09:11 PM   
RiotGirl


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Status: offline 		Wooo Hoooooooooooooo!! Thanks everyone. i'm hardly excited. Hehehehhe, okay i lie. i'm like ULTRA completely feastively excited! Thanks for all the Good wishes!!!! Thanks for all the good advice! And i will try to remember that its just like life. Heh and even if its not going to be like all the other live together situations, atleast i can think so which will kill the nerves! i SWEAR men are like the dirtiest creatures i've ever lived with and they cant even like comprehend the things ya just dont do. Needless to say i've had a few undesirable situations. BUT well wooooooooooooo! i expect it to be different.

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RE: Moving in - 6/9/2005 9:48:52 PM   
proudsub


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And when there are only 2 sheets of toilet paper on the roll, it gets changed for the next user.


And for God's sake learn if he likes it to unroll from the top or the bottom. I got yelled at about that just a few days ago, you'd think after 37 years of marriage i could get that one right.

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RE: Moving in - 6/10/2005 7:51:04 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: proudsub

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And when there are only 2 sheets of toilet paper on the roll, it gets changed for the next user.


And for God's sake learn if he likes it to unroll from the top or the bottom. I got yelled at about that just a few days ago, you'd think after 37 years of marriage i could get that one right.




LOL, Riotgirl, just an example of the little things that you learn to do or at least ignore if it is just an irk, for example I am the one that likes it on the dispenser a certain way, over the top, now Master just sits the roll either on the floor below the dispenser or on the used empty roll. Now that irks me to no end, but we bite our tongue, take the roll holder out and place the roll on it and throw out the used tube in the garbage can, sitting almost below it and go about our other chores,and be thankful he at least thought to get another one out, LOL, anothers words don't sweat the small stuff and work on the important big stuff, the world won't come to an end if the toilet paper isn't done the right way, though it may become uncomfortable for awhile, but the communication and relationship you build together can last a lifetime, good luck and best wishes, it's an exciting road you are on.

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RE: Moving in - 6/11/2005 7:37:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		Oh, God......I cannot believe no one has told you about the safe, sane and consentual part..............

At nite, do not sit on the toilet without checking the seat first.
This, at the very least could cause serious emotional issues if not injury..........

LMAO,
Ron

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RE: Moving in - 6/11/2005 9:34:02 AM   
GreyStorm


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Status: offline 		Oh yeah, one more thing, it is a known fact, men have poor aim. Be prepared for it. Know it. Learn it. Accept it.



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RE: Moving in - 6/11/2005 10:58:44 AM   
RiotGirl


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Status: offline 		LOL you two are great! Thanks for the laugh guys. i'll be sure to take EVERY precaution when entering the bathroom = )

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RE: Moving in - 6/11/2005 11:04:58 AM   
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ORIGINAL: GreyStorm
Oh yeah, one more thing, it is a known fact, men have poor aim. Be prepared for it. Know it. Learn it. Accept it.

I was discussing this very thing with my male roomate! Yuck! I was going to swear off males as roomates right here and than started wondering where I would make my subbie pee? I mean outside in a cage at 3am might be a little harsh... Whaddya think? M

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