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ORIGINAL: spanklette
I always find this article helpful when trying to explain Daddy Doms... http://www.vanilla-not.com/basics/daddydom.html

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ORIGINAL: CuriousLord

-Age-play is a big deal when it comes to discussing D/d relationships. It's a rather touchy subjects. Some Daddies do get off on the idea of a sub being a young child. Many, actually. Hell, I'd imagine it's the majority. This seems to often carry the same shame of kids talking about masturbation in Catholic school.

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ORIGINAL: CuriousLord

Daddy/daughter relationships.. can be so heated.. Those commenting that they're widely varied would seem to be correct.

Daddy/daughter relationships -tend- to be:
-D/s*
Ours is M/s all the way
-More centerred around age-play
From all i hear and taking my relationship into consideration this is the EXCEPTION rather than the norm. Although we engage in occasional age play verbage in Our relationship that is so far from the center.

-use "daughter"/"child"/"immature"/etc. to refer to the sub.
This can be true but you over generalize here. He never refers to me as a child, daughter or immature....He does, and i have heard this refered to more commonly, call me baby girl and baby.


Notes I'll make about the Daddy/daughter relationships:
-These tend to be D/s more than M/s.
Again, our relationship, and i have heard of quite a few more, where they are M/s. It's ALL D/s because one dominates and the other submits but along with that alot that i know about are M/s
* Daddies often dominate more in the way a real parent might- rules, suggestions, punishments.
Again, over generalization. Sure, the way we do it could be common for some and the way you describe could be common for others but to say they tend to be implies that on the larger scale that this is how things are. For instance my Daddy guides me yes, but in helping me grow he doesn't give me rules and very very rarely punishes. He forces me to take responsibility for things and to face things. He also tends to reward rather than punish.

- Some Daddies do get off on the idea of a sub being a young child. Many, actually. Hell, I'd imagine it's the majority. This seems to often carry the same shame of kids talking about masturbation in Catholic school.

LMAO...not trying to be rude here, really, BUT you are way off here. I know alot of Daddies girls and their Daddies aren't into thinking that they're small children. My Daddy sure as hell isn't into that. He is a bit older than me (6 yrs) and much much wiser in life than I am. He is stronger and more able than I am and he is able to guide me and help me grow in the way a parent would but there is not underlying wish for me to be a young child.

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ORIGINAL: goodgirl85


Its more about him being there, supporting, loving, protecting, guiding me along the way of our adventure. The Daddy/daughter roleplay does interest us both, but it is so much more than that. The other night I couldn't sleep. I need to vent a little, and no one was around to listen. It was way to late to call him, as he gets up fairly early in the morning and goes to bed at a semi decent hour. I wrote him an email, and at the end I said I just needed to write, as a release but more importantly need to write to someone. That's what Daddy's are for after all right?

His lil angel

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ORIGINAL: spanklette

I always find this article helpful when trying to explain Daddy Doms... http://www.vanilla-not.com/basics/daddydom.html