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RiotGirl -> TPE, 24/7, live-in, slave (6/8/2005 1:23:47 PM)

Okay so i am into TPE and granted i have guidelines "24/7" i am not a "live in" Meaning well, meaning alot. Obviously i've had a "taste" of it, what it could be like. But essentially knowing what i am headed for, i do not. So what is it like to be a 24/7 live in (clarify - live in as, live together, as we will be both working, though i may or may not be in the future) Besides the working thing, what is it like?

What are the days like, the time like. What does it excatly mean to be a tpe 24/7, live in, slave? What is it like? i'm asking, beyond the basics. Any slaves out there care to re account what their days are like? i'v read a few journals, but or "daily routines" but it leaves much to be desired. = )

Thanks in advance



subcheryl -> RE: TPE, 24/7, live-in, slave (6/8/2005 4:02:42 PM)

RiotGirl, Right at the moment I am not working, but will be soon. For me the TPE between Master and myself is learning about each other. We have been together now for 4 months and each day is a new learning experience. We have our routines for instance, I am the first to wake in the morning, I have never been a late sleeper. So I get up, start Masters and my coffee, we have to have seperate pots as Master likes his so the spoon stands in it. YUKKY! ! ! ! then I take care of the 3 dogs and cat, get banana out of frig for Master, and the phone off of the jack and start the computer up and if I have time take care of some emails, than Master gets up, does his things and computer time. We do shopping and chores that need doing and then he goes to work, then I do house work and make his evening meal and am ready for him in the way he likes when he gets home from work at midnight, we are up for a couple of hrs. In all of this we talk and share and learn about each other. He has little things he does that irk me and am sure there are things I do that irk him, the thing is to talk about them if they are bothersome and get thru them. My biggest hang up is learning to share what I am feeling. We are working on that. Well don't know if this helped, guess biggest thing is to remember that you are two indiviguals learning to live together, each have your way of doing things and learning to do them differently at times can be a rough road than of course your Dom may have different ideas of how things will go and that is where the communication comes in handy. Best wishes. It's an adventure all in itself let alone fitting your style of BDSM into it also. Enjoy the road ahead.



EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: TPE, 24/7, live-in, slave (6/9/2005 5:52:05 AM)

Obviously I'm not "TPE" but that's another thread altogether ;)

It's pretty boring LOL and busy.

I lived with a couple as their slave for a year. I'd get up in the mornings, feed the kitties, clean out litter boxes, clean out ferret boxes, get dressed and out to work before either of them were up.

Then I'd have a full day at work.

Then I'd drive home, usually stopping for errands. My master at the time had many health problems and was pretty much stuck in the house so I'd regularly stop for movies or things he wanted from the store. I'd get home, have some online time until the mistress came home. Then we'd decide on dinner. Both the mistress and the master preferred to cook, so I'd either just clean up and such while they did that or run out for food if we decided to do take out.

Then we'd usually chill out on the couch watching movies, or the crime shows he loved (sometimes very boring for me), eventually I'd get up to go clean cat boxes, take a shower and get ready for the next day.

Pretty boring and normal.

The essence of it for me is simply that you're being "kept" there as errand runner, house girl, maid, whatever use you can be, you will be. All the household chores still have to be completed, but your time is not your own to schedule, your priorities are always set clearly (if there's good communication).



dragonofjapan -> RE: TPE, 24/7, live-in, slave (6/9/2005 10:32:43 AM)

The only 24/7 relationships I have had were live in of the 20 or so only one worked outside the house, the others all worked either as support to me or worked in some capacity as a part of the family business.

True 24/7 is very rare in my book.



RiotGirl -> RE: TPE, 24/7, live-in, slave (6/9/2005 11:35:29 AM)

Heh heh heh,

Well we're not here to DISCUSS what TPE or 24/7 means to everyone. Obviously i could care less what it means to others = ) Whether its polictically correct or not to use the terms. i LIKE the terms, people GENERALLY know what they mean, and thats what matters. i'm NOT gonna put a disclamier at the bottom saying " The terms used in this thread are subject to my definition and they are not for everyone. Nor am i saying that everyone should use them and BLAH blah BLAH, ect ect ect, yadda yadda yadda" HECK no, screw that crap. = )

SO, if yall could LEAVE the terms alone (huh) and focus on the subject matter <grins> sorta of what like Emerald did, though she did tease abit.




perverseangelic -> RE: TPE, 24/7, live-in, slave (6/9/2005 12:23:25 PM)

While I don't use any of the terms you said, I live with my partner and am his all the time.

Like Emerald says, it's often kinda boring.

I get up, pack his lunch when he needs on, have breakfast. Or get up and have breakfast. Take him to school or get taken to school.

Come home, cook dinner if I have time and leave something for him. Do my homework. Go to work. Come home. Fall into bed and fall asleep.

The weekends are really exciting 'cause then I get to clean, do laundry and run errands!

Honestly, though, it's a lot of being around to do the things he needs when he wants to ask me to do them and keeping myself gainfully occupied when he doesn't.



asissyforher -> RE: TPE, 24/7, live-in, slave (6/9/2005 2:32:18 PM)

quote:

Any slaves out there care to re account what their days are like?


RiotGirl;

i was real time 24/7/365, for 15 months, in calif. from 03-04, and i never left the house, on my own, to go to a movie or anything anywhere the entire time i was there. i was in the house/on the property the entire time, unless She wanted me to go to the grocery with Her or some silly thing as such, so not counting routine trips,..i never left the place.
i cleaned from daybreak to past suppertime daily, either inside the house or outside doing the yard areas. i seldom ever had much time to myself, except maybe about 8pm to maybe 10pm for the computer, if i wanted to. i made sure She was comfy at all times, and if anyone ever came over, i made sure they were as relaxed while visiting. i do not actually personally have much grasp of "play" since i am a service slave, and i never engaged in sexual areas. mine is 100% service only. this is the best i can describe to you.
thanks
a sissy



RiotGirl -> RE: TPE, 24/7, live-in, slave (6/9/2005 2:57:07 PM)

Drat the computer. To re count what i've already said.

Thanks for all the replies!! So basically, its just going to be normal life. And to not be nervous. As it will prolly just be alot like living with some one? Course what i was worried about was like being whipped or such every night and being left sleeping tied up and standing to the wall. Or like random spankings, or random whippings, or other things. Or like learning all the things he thinks i need to learn that i havent yet (yeah yeah yeah, i'm thick headed) Not excatly sure what those "things" are or how i'm to learn them... AND i know he's got the hook things into the wall already.. Oh and i know, i will be doing the things that make his life easier, and alot less computer, alot better sleep, alot better eating habits and soon i'll quite smoking. i know i wont be able to get away with the things i can get away with now, as when he's around i rarely get away with anything. (i'm one of those people that if you give an inch, i'll take two miles. i'm also one of those people that if CAN be sneaky, i tend to be) So i know i wont be able to be sneaky or get away with any little miss behavoirs (not that i want to get away with them, its just how i am. i'm great at rationalizing)

i suppose his comment ALONG time ago when we first start talking about living together and i asked him if i should be nervous. His reply was "Remember when you met me and you were nervous, well you should be 10 times that)

and then the comment about truely becomeing fully TPE and getting more so serious about it. (as its really difficult an hour away from each other)

and then of course his comment that i hae alot to learn

and then of course him ALONG time ago thinking i should ask what its like to be a full time slave.

So............ i suppose i'm abit erm, unsure of what to expect! Though i suppose i could have an idea, but the idea leaves me abit nervous, as it is only an idea.. Though and i suppose as pain helps me find my place, i might be in my place alot more and well the getting there.... (oh and i'm also a closet masochist in my body is ready to admit it but i am NOT) (with sadistic tendencies, that i've no problem admitting!!) LOL

but i can completely deal with the thought that its just going to be more like normal life. Heh. course i am completely look forward to it, but i'm also one of those people that gets abit nervous about the "unknown" i tend to like to know excatly whats going to happen, when its going to happen, how and why. Not knowing, leaves me abit nervous! LOL


And as far as my terms. = ) (i love smacking this topic around) i know not everyone agrees, or uses the terms i use, which is fine and dandy, but being the fact that i AM speaking, i AM gonna use them. Ha



asissyforher -> RE: TPE, 24/7, live-in, slave (6/9/2005 3:05:31 PM)

So basically, its just going to be normal life.

yes....
get up, breakfast, do your day's schedules,..supper, clean up, and then see if anyone is too tired to do what..
but yes..24/7 is just living together as much normal as anyone else except you will be d/s and the outside world is vanilla.

good luck.
a sissy boy



babygirl005 -> RE: TPE, 24/7, live-in, slave (6/9/2005 5:19:53 PM)

My Master and I have known each other for 1 year and have been living together since last September. It has been a growing process for both of us. He has been very patient with me. Today we live what you could call 24/7 TPE. I also work full time. He tells me what to eat, he plans my day when I am off from work. I am also here for his pleasure whenever he wants. Sometimes I do the things he wants me to do "kicking and sreaming" so to speak. We both continue to grow in our relationship. When I'm at home he wants me naked with collar and cuffs on, even if he isn't here. Those are just a few of the things. When he wants to spank me, he does. When he wants me tied up he does. It's always up to him and I am to do exactly as he says. But even with that many of our days are just normal run of the mill days. Doing the things that every other couple does. We enjoy just hanging out together, going to the grocery store, etc.

I guess I have been very fortunate. Not only is he a good master, but he is just generally a good person and a good man.



Mercnbeth -> RE: TPE, 24/7, live-in, slave (6/9/2005 5:27:47 PM)

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So basically, its just going to be normal life. And to not be nervous. As it will prolly just be alot like living with some one?


There are a few definitions to consider---what is "normal" for one 24/7, TPE, live-in slave varies greatly with what is "normal" for another. what matters most is that you have a clear picture of that scenario from YOUR Master as to what He will be expecting from you on a daily basis, what His desire for your routine to be. This slave's daily experience is different from the ones expressed here. It is completely up to Master how the day will unfold for this slave, and all possibilities were discussed and agreed upon prior to moving in. For example: One rule this slave agreed to was to be naked, collared, cuffed and chained while alone at Master's house in a manner directed by Him that is to say, this slave is expected to comply with Master's wish for her be wearing any combination of collar, cuffs and chains at any time, while alone or with Him in His house. Some folks interpret it to mean that He demands it at all times. The point is, it is up to His discretion, and considered "normal" for us.

quote:

i'm also one of those people that gets abit nervous about the "unknown" i tend to like to know excatly whats going to happen, when its going to happen, how and why.


Complete, 24/7 100% trust in Master makes it possible for this slave to let go of the fear of the "unknown" and is one of the greatest blessings this slave has had the priviledge of experiencing.




RiotGirl -> RE: TPE, 24/7, live-in, slave (6/9/2005 7:02:14 PM)

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Complete, 24/7 100% trust in Master makes it possible for this slave to let go of the fear of the "unknown" and is one of the greatest blessings this slave has had the priviledge of experiencing.



Ahhh but its not the distrust of the Master, its the distrust of the world. Knowing Master can not control the world (even if he and i so desired) and knowing that. As i trust Him, i just do not trust the world. Like in the begining i would almost have an anxiety attack being restrained. Not that i was worried about Him, trying to explain, that GOD knows what could happen (IE a tree falling through the roof, a stranger bursting through the door, the house catching on fire, being suddenly Robbed at gun point, ect ect ect. Not that any of those are LIKELY to happen, but its not out of the realm of possibility. So knowing that they could happen, and being restrained and KNOWING that if they DID happen, i could not jump up and save myself, left me in a state of panic.

So although i trust him to take good care of me, i do not trust the world to do the same. i trust the world to do unexplainable things, at unexplainable times unexplainably. Therefore i tend to like to be prepared, so my re actions can be already in cemented in my head. Back to the topic, i dont fear the "unknown" of what it might be like, but i havent any reactions planned out, so there fore my security blanket is missing, IE being nervous. But obviously knowing its going to be okay (trust in him), which is why its still going to happen. = )



EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: TPE, 24/7, live-in, slave (6/9/2005 7:29:53 PM)

Well, why don't you know what to expect? I mean obviously you can't predict it ALL, and you will each have to grow into eachother in this new situation.

But you should have a very good idea of what your daily expectations will be, what your routines will be, what his preferences are, what the ground rules are, etc.



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