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WARNING about meeting someone online.. STORY - 6/22/2007 7:59:12 PM   
slaverosebeauty


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I was sent this and thought I woudl share it, I have heard similar stories for years, and its VERY plausable. It would not surprise me if it was 100% true.






A modern day fairy tale about meeting D/s partners online

Once upon a time there was a Dom who had been without a sub for six months, so he was looking online for a new girl, when a woman that was very attentive approached him, she could just tell from all of their online conversations that he was the perfect Master for her. She worked at an insurance company, and lived in a town about 50 miles from him. They talked online for a while, sharing a great deal of personal information. The sub suggested several times that she wanted to meet, even questioning if the Dom was “real”, because he wasn’t pushing for a quick first meeting.

Finally, the sub said she was going on vacation for the next two weeks, and would be sent to another state for training for several months immediately afterward, so the Dom agreed to meet her the next weekend, for a vanilla meeting. The sub had a problem though her car was in the shop, so could he come and pick her up? The Dom agreed to pick her up at her home and take her back to the city he lived in, because she “lived in a small town, and there was nothing to do there”. When he arrived in her small town, he called her cell phone, as they had agreed, and she said she wasn’t home, she was at the local library, returning some books, and could he pick her up there? The Dom agreed, and so he picked her up in front of the library.

On the way back to the city the Dom lived in, the sub began telling the Dom how very perfect he was for her, that she had already made up her mind, she wished to serve him. The Dom was flattered, and was interested, so they began talking in depth about a long-term relationship. The sub was very excited, telling him of all the ways she would please him. When they arrived back in the Dom’s city, the sub asked to go to his home, so she could “change clothes”. So the Dom took the sub to his home, and instead of changing clothing, she disrobed and offered herself on her knees to the Dom. The Dom accepted the sub’s service, and they were sexually intimate.

Afterwards, the sub asked the Dom to go to the store for her, because she needed some feminine products. The Dom went to the local grocery store, and stopped by to pick up some take-out food on the way back, leaving the sub at his home. When he returned, the sub told him that she had to make her safe call, which she did in another room.

Our Story takes a Scary Turn of Events

Within 15 minutes, there was a knock on the door. It was the police, asking if the sub was there. The Dom replied that she was, and went back to get her from the kitchen. She went outside to speak with the police, the Dom staying inside. Then the police knocked on the door again, and handcuffed and arrested the Dom. The Dom was charged with kidnapping, rape, and assault. He was taken to jail that night.

The sub had told the police officers that she was being held against her will, and that the Dom had raped her. She told the police that she had agreed to go on a “date” with the Dom, nothing more. She didn’t mention that the meeting was D/s related, nor that she was there of her own volition.

The bail for the Dom was set at almost a half million dollars, so he was stuck in jail. The sub was taken to the hospital, and had a rape kit run, to prove that intercourse had happened.

And now…for the rest of the story…

The sub was taken back to the Dom’s home, where she was allowed to retrieve her belongings, and then she disappeared. The Dom hired an attorney, who subsequently found out that the sub didn’t live in her small town at all. The sub was not an employee of any insurance company, and she had no any visible means of support. The sub didn’t own a vehicle at all.

A check of her record revealed she had been arrested multiple times for forging checks, and committing fraud, she had even spent time in prison for it. The specific frauds had to do with being intimate with men, then attempting to extort money from them, with the threat of claiming rape against them. Once she would threaten the men, most would give her cash to make her go away.

In this case however, the sub had been alone in the Dom’s home, and had discovered that he had several thousand dollars in cash in his bedroom. She took the money, and knowing that she had to make her escape without the Dom pursuing her, she called the police and claimed she was being held against her will and that she had been raped.

Fortunately, the Dom had the foresight to keep a record of all of the online chats and was able to provide them to the police. Ultimately, all of the charges were dropped, but the Dom lost the money he had at his home in cash, he had to pay thousands of dollars to his attorneys, he was in jail for a month, and he suffered permanent damage to his business…because of course his customers found out what he was charged with, and many thought “where there’s smoke, there’s fire”…and wouldn’t do business with him anymore. All told, his losses were to his reputation in the city he lives in, and about 50 thousand dollars.

So now the Dom no longer looks for a sub, either online or offline…and he has no trust at all for anyone in the world. The supposed sub got away free and clear, because it is his word against hers that the money she stole even existed…So, with no proof there is nothing he can do…and though SHE had no proof, he spent a month in jail.

Every Fairy tale must have a Moral

It is a common belief amongst lifestyle folk that it is the woman, the sub that is most at risk when meeting a male Dom. There is the fear of rape, or of abuse, we’ve all heard the story of the sub that went to meet a man she didn’t know well, and ended up in the hospital.

But men are just as much at risk, they are just as susceptible to being used and abused as are women….just in a very different way. Not only by a predatory female submissive, but also by the legal system.

So the moral of this story is, it doesn’t matter if you are male or female, Dom or sub, don’t ever underestimate the fact that predators DO exist out there, and they aren’t all men…

oh, and one more thing, this story is actually factual…no fairy tale at all.


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RE: WARNING about meeting someone online.. STORY - 6/22/2007 8:07:51 PM   
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I went out with a sub....She drugged my drink....When I woke up I was missing seventeen bucks....and a kidney.....I also believe she might have taken some cock shots of the domidong.....Aside from the missing money, kidney and the taking of the pics....It was a pretty good date...I would probably go out with her again if she would be willing to apologize and promise not to tell my friends what actually happened.

This is a true story...Not a fairy tale.

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RE: WARNING about meeting someone online.. STORY - 6/22/2007 8:08:01 PM   
Sub03


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Not to divulge too much about my personal life and my Masters personal life but something along the lines of this story happened to him. And because of it he has lost alooot of money, is still in jail because of it, leaving me and him to try and work out our relationship away from each other. And the so called "victim" of his is running around free to cause more problems with some other poor unsuspecting person. Females arent the only ones who have to watch out, there are women out there that are just as bad as any male predator.

Whether I believe this story to be true or not?? Who knows, probablly not, but the risk is still there.

< Message edited by Sub03 -- 6/22/2007 8:13:48 PM >


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RE: WARNING about meeting someone online.. STORY - 6/22/2007 8:08:04 PM   
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You mean you think that a sub could sweetly slime her way into a Dom's life and then make up a bunch of shit about him to get him in all kinds of trouble and maybe even destroy him? Interesting....

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RE: WARNING about meeting someone online.. STORY - 6/22/2007 8:11:09 PM   
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Damn.  My cover's blown.
Ixnay on the torysay.

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RE: WARNING about meeting someone online.. STORY - 6/22/2007 8:11:22 PM   
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Does not surprise me in the slightest. Submissives/slaves do not have a market on being victims.  The risk is just as great for Doms/Masters.

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RE: WARNING about meeting someone online.. STORY - 6/22/2007 8:12:28 PM   
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And I never thanked you for taking my sister out that night, did I?

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RE: WARNING about meeting someone online.. STORY - 6/22/2007 8:32:59 PM   
domiguy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: bandit25

And I never thanked you for taking my sister out that night, did I?


No you never really did....I remember going in and out of consciousness.....And she would say things like, "Seventeen bucks? ...You are soooo fucking cheap!" I remember her also saying, "Hey prick, guess what? (in a sing-song type of crazy voice)  I'm stealing your kidney!!!"   All I can recall slurring over and over is, "You are so fucking hot!....You are so fucking hot!!....You are so fucking hot!!!"

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RE: WARNING about meeting someone online.. STORY - 6/22/2007 8:35:51 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy
All I can recall slurring over and over is, "You are so fucking hot!....You are so fucking hot!!....You are so fucking hot!!!"


It was probably just because you were sitting in a tub full of ice.

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RE: WARNING about meeting someone online.. STORY - 6/22/2007 8:36:07 PM   
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Funny, she had a much easier time selling your kidney than she did shots of the domidong.  Why do you suppose that is?

Oh, and she said she'd love to go out with you again.  You DO still have that other kidney, don't you?

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RE: WARNING about meeting someone online.. STORY - 6/22/2007 8:40:11 PM   
mistoferin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: bandit25
Funny, she had a much easier time selling your kidney than she did shots of the domidong.  Why do you suppose that is?


I'll trade you one Pee Wee Herman for a domidong.

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RE: WARNING about meeting someone online.. STORY - 6/22/2007 8:41:23 PM   
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I'll talk to my sister...I'm sure she can hook you up.

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RE: WARNING about meeting someone online.. STORY - 6/22/2007 8:42:25 PM   
mistoferin


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Kewl!

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RE: WARNING about meeting someone online.. STORY - 6/22/2007 8:44:06 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mistoferin

quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy
All I can recall slurring over and over is, "You are so fucking hot!....You are so fucking hot!!....You are so fucking hot!!!"


It was probably just because you were sitting in a tub full of ice.


Did I tell you about my story?  I did wake up in the bathtub and it was full of ice...She also wrote on the mirror that she was hiv positive...We didn't have sex...So I just thought she was embarassed and being an honest person,  she didn't know how else to tell me....She actually was kind of a swell chick.  We took photos in one of those booths....It was romantic.

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RE: WARNING about meeting someone online.. STORY - 6/22/2007 8:46:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: bandit25

Funny, she had a much easier time selling your kidney than she did shots of the domidong.  Why do you suppose that is?

Oh, and she said she'd love to go out with you again.  You DO still have that other kidney, don't you?


From what I understand is that my kidney can fit into about anyone....The domidong is another matter...I think most women would be intimidated by even a photo

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RE: WARNING about meeting someone online.. STORY - 6/22/2007 8:47:07 PM   
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Nope, you didn't t....oh shit....I know NOTHING!

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RE: WARNING about meeting someone online.. STORY - 6/22/2007 8:48:36 PM   
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All of which proves:  get a good bullshit detector and make sure it works.  Whether you are a sub or a Dom.  And BTW, do I have to say that the "sub" in the story was no sub, she was a thief, a conniver, a prostitute and a pimp.

So sayeth my  bullshit detector.

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RE: WARNING about meeting someone online.. STORY - 6/22/2007 8:52:03 PM   
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On the theme of women not being the only victims: I met a sub last week who was very wary of my husband being present for our initial discussions. He explained that he had previously met a "nice couple" who told him that she was the Domme and the husband was only there for back up. They agreed to play, she tied him up, and the husband promptly appeared, took off his belt, and hit him so hard that he had bruises that didn't fade for a fortnight (he is not a heavy pain player). Needless to say, he was too embarrassed and the consequences would have been too far reaching for him to complain to the Police. Submissives are very vulnerable, whether male or female, and as the OP points out, Dominants can be at risk as well (hence, the presence of my husband)
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RE: WARNING about meeting someone online.. STORY - 6/22/2007 8:56:18 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Firebirdseeking

All of which proves:  get a good bullshit detector and make sure it works.  Whether you are a sub or a Dom.  And BTW, do I have to say that the "sub" in the story was no sub, she was a thief, a conniver, a prostitute and a pimp.

So sayeth my  bullshit detector.



My bullshit detector sayeth that your bullshit detector is about two clicks off (although it did pick up on conniver, so maybe it could be fine tuned).

And how can one be both a prostitute and a pimp?

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RE: WARNING about meeting someone online.. STORY - 6/22/2007 9:15:51 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mistoferin
You mean you think that a sub could sweetly slime her way into a Dom's life and then make up a bunch of shit about him to get him in all kinds of trouble and maybe even destroy him? Interesting....

Indeed..........luci

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