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Are there any other mean and evil Mistresses out there? - 6/22/2007 8:45:37 PM

justMistress

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Hi~ I recently joined a "non pro mistress" yahoo group. I was really excited to see so many non pro's networking. After about a week of reading and posting All they talk about is this honorable bs about what they think a Domme should be. I want to talk about ball busting and mock castration. I love inflation (with food coloring) and dilation. I take great pride in torture and humiliating the subs. When did becoming a Domme mean this moral majority ideal would divide us?

Are there any mean and evil Domme groups or message boards? I want to be with my own kind. Does that make me a bad Domme?

I am confused

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RE: Are there any other mean and evil Mistresses out th... - 6/22/2007 9:15:05 PM

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There's an adage that if you break your toys, you can't play with them any more. Also if you break your toys and they're human toys, you tend to fuck up things for the rest of us when the consequences make the morning news.

There's mean and evil, and there's radically unsafe. Infusion or scrotal inflation with a non sterile substance falls under the category of radically unsafe, to the point that your sub will end up in the hospital and you will end up in jail. I'd even say that if you're both fully cognizant of the consequences that would still be nobody's business but yours, but the reality is that the entire community gets impacted when people do stuff that stupid and it gets laughed at in public.

Do whatever the fuck you want to consenting adults, but if you don't know how to do edge play without putting someone in the hospital and making the entire BDSM community a laughingstock on Yahoo's News of the Weird, you have no business going there.

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RE: Are there any other mean and evil Mistresses out th... - 6/22/2007 9:35:10 PM

chiaThePet

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There you go.

Now all the Dommes know where to forward those castration emails.

Cut! That's a wrap.

Respectfully, chia* (the pet)

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RE: Are there any other mean and evil Mistresses out th... - 6/23/2007 6:54:47 AM

thetammyjo

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Oh, I'm very evil and mean.

I play only how I want, when I went, and for as long as I want.

How evil and mean is that?

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RE: Are there any other mean and evil Mistresses out th... - 6/23/2007 7:20:06 AM

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judging by the replies on that list, there are plenty of honorable ladies with evil, wicked, mean & nasty tastes

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RE: Are there any other mean and evil Mistresses out th... - 6/23/2007 9:34:52 AM

justMistress

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I will then most graciously drop off of this board. I have been playing for over 10 years and have yet to have any kind illness or injury to come to anyone of my slaves. Mock castration is just that a fantasy. Inflation with steril IV water and a dash of food coloring is delightful. Dilation involves steril sounds, steril latex gloves and antibactirial ointment just like the Doctor does it. And ball busting is only what it appears to be when administered properly and is a huge turn on to those subs who love it.

Sincerely thank you for you responses

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RE: Are there any other mean and evil Mistresses out th... - 6/23/2007 9:46:16 AM

Bonafied

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Infusion has been a part of slavery for me in excess of 22 years. In fact infusing the breasts and balls of a masculine muscular highly cut and defined bodybuilder has offered many hours of pleasure to the woman I was with and a host of her friends too.
Do not allow the arrogance and ignorance of those responding to your query to effect you.
Roberto

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RE: Are there any other mean and evil Mistresses out th... - 6/23/2007 9:54:50 AM

MstrssPassion

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whoa.... I don't think anyone suggested you leave.

I know I didn't

My comment was about the other group you spoke of where I too am a member (though not an active poster). There were several women who spoke up about their "evil tendencies".

As for these boards here on CM... well a fair amount of tact & precise commentary would be needed because so many readers would not "know" about the specific precautions that go along with these riskier styles that you wish to discuss... many will take subjects quite literally & act upon them just because they read it here. I don't think any of us care to be the influence of someone improperly acting out scenarios we vaguely describe because they never considered the many layers of safety & skill we apply to these activities. Often these finer details are may have left out while talking about riskier activities because to mention ever detail can create a very wordy post.

There is also another side to talking about many of the hardcore activities per se... they tend to become troll fodder. Ever hear the expression: "Don't feed the monkeys" ? Every time subjects take on a colorful trend, things tend to get completely out of hand.

Before you leave... take some time to browse the boards & see if there are points of interest.... I'm sure you too are a diversified woman & as such you could find various threads of interest.

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RE: Are there any other mean and evil Mistresses out th... - 6/23/2007 11:24:05 AM

Najakcharmer

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quote:

ORIGINAL: justMistress
I will then most graciously drop off of this board. I have been playing for over 10 years and have yet to have any kind illness or injury to come to anyone of my slaves. Mock castration is just that a fantasy. Inflation with steril IV water and a dash of food coloring is delightful.

You didn't mention the sterile water to start with, just the food coloring.

Ever try taking a bacterial count on the stuff? It's organic, it's stored and shipped at room temperatures, and it's not suitable for intracompartmental injection. There are some injectable drug analogues I can think of that are of similar organic composition to food coloring which are shipped refrigerated in sealed vials and considered nonsterile/unusable after the first time the container is breached, even with a sterile needle.

This is not to say that a breached vial of Propofol - or a bottle of food coloring - is always bacterially contaminated. It might not be. But there's a decent chance that there's some degree of bacterial growth there, and in the right (wrong) circumstances you can get pretty heavy overgrowth, with horrendous consequences on injection.

Nobody here has a problem with edge play if it's done safely. "Safely" being defined as your antics not making headlines when you put somebody in the hospital. What two or more consenting adults want to do together, extreme medical play, body modification, whatever, that's fine. But injecting non sterile substances into the human bod is likely to cause consequences that can reflect on not just you, but everyone involved in BDSM, when your stunt makes the six o'clock news.

Sterile and nontoxic injectable dyes are available from both human and veterinary medical supply. If you like pretty colors, use them. Injecting nonsterile substances, even intracompartmentally, is extremely irresponsible.

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RE: Are there any other mean and evil Mistresses out th... - 6/23/2007 11:27:44 AM

Trampler

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I had gotten a request to join a yahoo group like that. I had felt that A.) By reading and posting on here I felt it was enough to satisfy my curiousity about different topics, B.) I belong to waaaaaaayyy to many yahoo groups as it is! C.) I have been concidering going Pro.

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RE: Are there any other mean and evil Mistresses out th... - 6/23/2007 1:15:28 PM

justMistress

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Mistress Passion~ I was not referring to your post. Why are you not posting on the other group? just curious I was hoping to get more interesting posts about subject and technique etc. BTW you are really hot!! I emailed you a short while ago.

Hi Trampler~ thanks for the comment! I was hoping to find a group that I liked best so I have been looking around. I hear you about too many groups thing. Going pro is both good and bad. Though I loved every moment it is very exhausting. Remember he who has the $$ is really the Domme. I was too Domme to be a pro domme does that make sense? feel free to contact me on the side if you have questions

Tammy Jo~ I am with you on the doing what I want when I want for as long as I want!

Dear Najakcharmer~ Sorry I lashed out but I felt attacked. You can get echoli from a spinach salad.

Roberto~ yes it is really fun!! I once did a breast inflation on a girlfriend of mine from a B to a D. She loved it until. Also giving guys man breast is really hot!

Turns out the Dommes on the other board are ok with my crash and trash talk. I am happy to be among my own kind

Cheers~

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RE: Are there any other mean and evil Mistresses out th... - 6/23/2007 10:42:07 PM

MsCfromMelbourne

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Hi

1    I have found that if you ask question like "Anyone got some tips for me how to do great CBT without damaging the C&B?" you will get inundated with useful (and not so useful!) replies

2    Every board has new (and not so new) members who practice BDSM without any B&D or S&M. True!!!!

3    Eventually these poor people realise that BDSM is about so,so much more than domination. But if online BDSM is all you have, what else can you contribute? All they can talk about is rules and protocols and what good Dominants should be, because they have no real life experience.

4    "Mean" and "evil" are value laden terms which some people (wrongly) interpret as meaning you do not get consent or care about the welfare of the other person.

5    Other ways to describe your kinks without frightening the locals are edge play, extreme role play, medical play...you get the drift.

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RE: Are there any other mean and evil Mistresses out th... - 6/24/2007 12:54:36 AM

SDFemDom4cuck

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quote:

ORIGINAL: justMistress

Hi~ I recently joined a "non pro mistress" yahoo group. I was really excited to see so many non pro's networking. After about a week of reading and posting All they talk about is this honorable bs about what they think a Domme should be. I want to talk about ball busting and mock castration. I love inflation (with food coloring) and dilation. I take great pride in torture and humiliating the subs. When did becoming a Domme mean this moral majority ideal would divide us?

Are there any mean and evil Domme groups or message boards? I want to be with my own kind. Does that make me a bad Domme?

I am confused

Who Me? Nawwww I'm just as sweet as pie and not in any way evil. Or a sadistic bitch. Nope not at all.*

Welcome to the boards

* to be read with full sarcastic inflection

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RE: Are there any other mean and evil Mistresses out th... - 6/24/2007 6:40:32 AM

LaTigresse

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using fast reply****

I am menopausal. aka meanopausal. Mean and evil is a good day.

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RE: Are there any other mean and evil Mistresses out th... - 6/24/2007 7:13:01 AM

thetammyjo

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quote:

ORIGINAL: justMistress

I will then most graciously drop off of this board. I have been playing for over 10 years and have yet to have any kind illness or injury to come to anyone of my slaves. Mock castration is just that a fantasy. Inflation with steril IV water and a dash of food coloring is delightful. Dilation involves steril sounds, steril latex gloves and antibactirial ointment just like the Doctor does it. And ball busting is only what it appears to be when administered properly and is a huge turn on to those subs who love it.

Sincerely thank you for you responses

While I don't do any of those things myself (not interested in them frankly) I don't see them as innately more risky than knife play or breath control (both of which I do).

I don't see either group of activities as mean or evil either. They are just activities and I think only the motivation and issue of consent (lack of) makes something mean or evil.

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RE: Are there any other mean and evil Mistresses out th... - 6/24/2007 7:21:44 AM

PsyVamp

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I don't play the way you play but my sub still calls me mean and evil... (insert evil laugh). My usual reply is that I am pure as the driven snow.
Mean and evil is subject to the experiences of the people on the receiving end.
To some I may be tame and to others I may be over the edge.

Welcome to the boards...
Psy

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RE: Are there any other mean and evil Mistresses out th... - 6/24/2007 7:43:26 AM

KaramelGoddess

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Just to add... there are all sorts of ways to be mean and evil, not just CBT. My boy absolutely hates it (and feels put in his place) when I simply ignore the hell out of him for a while.

Good luck and welcome to the forums.
~Kara

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