What are u looking for in a Dom/me

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winterlight -> What are u looking for in a Dom/me (6/23/2007 8:56:15 PM)
What qualities are u looking for in a Dom/me. What in your eyes makes that Person special?

MBETWO -> RE: What are u looking for in a Dom/me (6/23/2007 9:45:42 PM)
Not looking, but the best quality in a dom is confidence without arrogance.

LadyPaige -> RE: What are u looking for in a Dom/me (6/24/2007 12:17:47 AM)
I look for someone who shares my interests before meeting. During a meeting I look to see if he matches his picture (if he doesn't, what else did he misrepresent) and if he expects me to be safe rather than expecting me to go directly to a motel and let him restrain and gag me. I look for an air of confidence without obnoxiousnous. I look for intelligence, a sense of humor, and a desire to get to know me. What I look at physically is his mouth.

stella40 -> RE: What are u looking for in a Dom/me (6/24/2007 12:20:09 AM)
The exact same qualities you would hope to find in any female friend.

gadkinsunited -> RE: What are u looking for in a Dom/me (6/24/2007 12:55:59 AM)
For me, I look for their ability to key into my fetishes. Granted, I should probably go with something honorable like "I want them to be smart and loving and wonderful," but at this point... "likes giving kinky handjobs" wins since I'm shallow. :)

RufusCrowder -> RE: What are u looking for in a Dom/me (6/27/2007 3:24:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MBETWO Not looking, but the best quality in a dom is confidence without arrogance. agreed. Confidence is amazing. and also one that bend a little and not be on 'I AM ALL COMPASSING DOM! HEAR ME ROAR!' all the time. someone who will treat you like a human [strange but true!]

WhiplashSmile -> RE: What are u looking for in a Dom/me (6/27/2007 3:38:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: winterlight What qualities are u looking for in a Dom/me. What in your eyes makes that Person special? Beautiful, witty, smart ass sense of humor, assertive and somebody that plays well with a Dom too. ;^) similar interests and ability to figure things out and work on the relationship itself. Dom couples ain't the same as D/s...

Dini -> RE: What are u looking for in a Dom/me (6/27/2007 4:26:30 AM)
I cant say there is anything specific.. to me it is about that chemistry and connection...

beargonewild -> RE: What are u looking for in a Dom/me (6/27/2007 5:35:26 AM)
The qualities which I'm looking for are would be a blend of many different qualities, Honesty, Intergrity, Humor, Strictness, Shared interests and kinks, Sense of adventure, Stability and compatibility. I could list more but these I rank the most important for what I'm looking for.

bliss1 -> RE: What are u looking for in a Dom/me (6/27/2007 1:04:13 PM)
Some who can laugh at life - even when mishapes happen in bed.

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