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introducing myself/and looking for help - 6/9/2005 1:15:23 PM

lonelysub82881

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will hi every body i'm just a 24 old sub from minnesota trying to find my place in life. I always want to be in a 24/7 relationship with a mistress to serounder my mind body and soul to reach the hights point in being 110% submissive. I have been in the bdsm for about 2 years and don't have the full excperince i want, and need. But i'm also have problems in finding a mistress who will work with me. A lot of people now a days always thinks your a player or somthing along those lines just because of other people that have written in the past has done that to them and i'm not that type of person this is my lifestyle and i want to live that lifestyle
if any one out there has any insite please let me now thanks for your time lonelysub82881

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RE: introducing myself/and looking for help - 6/9/2005 2:43:07 PM

onceburned

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Welcome to Collarme! Its always nice when a new member from the midwest shows up. Kink isn't just on the coast.

My first advice is to put a bit more work into your profile. It is the first impression that others will have of you so you want to make sure that it shines. Pay special attention to spelling and to punctuation (you currently do not have any). Talk more about yourself. Mention what makes you, you. Talk a bit of your experiences, your values, the non-sexual activities that you enjoy.

Second, get involved in your local BDSM group. TIES-BDSM.org has a list of Minnesota groups, including one for younger persons. You might particularely be interested in the group Social Kinky Youth in Minnesota.

Third, you might want to participate in the discussions we have in the forums. Its a great way of learning a few things, and making friends as well.

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RE: introducing myself/and looking for help - 6/9/2005 10:23:05 PM

PerfectToy

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Hey, welcome to the site, lonelysub! I'm also a young submissive living in Minnesota, and I can sympathize with the hurdles that come with trying to make it in the scene. I'm 22, and I'm just starting to dip my toes into real life BDSM. I'm kind of looking for advice on how to meet other kinksters, for friendship or play, and I was wondering what you did when you were just starting off. I'm going to check out the group that once burned mentioned. Anyway, good luck in your search.

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