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RE: CBT - 7/4/2007 4:26:10 PM   
LycraSteve


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Status: offline 		I'm supprised no one has mentioned ball stretching or ball crushing, both fun activities. Clothes pegs/pins on balls and head of the cock, especially foreskin (though I assume its only us europeans that have covered wagons? ;) not forgetting base of the cock and midway (between legs) near to male G spot area, is always good.

For some excellent pain I can recommend Forceps (normally used on nipples) and these can be locked in place.

and as an alternative to a ball crusher an adjustable clamp (from diy/ hardware store) is excellent.

Did anyone mention the fun to be had using electro, on cock and balls, whilst pleasurable, it is very intense, not forgetting you can get an electro CBT board which are very fun.

I've treated many a male sun to this fun, alway with their cocks tied up with heavy rope- not thin.

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RE: CBT - 7/4/2007 8:19:04 PM   
tag8833


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Status: offline 		Something that works on most guys, is to take a brush with fairly soft bristles, and run it from side to side across the tip of the penis while you hold the shaft in place.  Don't use a stiff bristled brush or you will just tear up the head.  It may not seem like that would be that painful, but many cocks are incredibly sensitive to something like that.  Try it and see if your sub doesn't squirm.  Do it fast and it can build up alot of heat, and cause some minor abrasions (like rope burns).  If the penis is slightly wet, it is even more sensitive to this.  If you do this after an orgasm, I can’t imagine a guy taking it without safe wording.

Another thing that is useful is a tie (as in shirt and tie).  You can tie this around the balls, and the lead a guy around by it.  There is no pinching, or risk of cutting.  There is no risk of a ball twisting and being injured.  Just a solid pull on the testicles.  Use it to hold a guy’s testicles in place as you slap them.  Hang weights from it.  I have found it to be more effective than parachutes. My #1 all time session involved being led around by a tie tied to my balls while blindfolded. 

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RE: CBT - 7/4/2007 9:19:48 PM   
LadyHugs


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Status: offline 		Dear tag8833, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
In using an old time baby hair brush, it is very soft or painting brushes.  I often use my gloves--I wear lace, velvet, satin and cotton gloves--the lace does have texture that is rough around the urethra and can give enough sensation around the  entire genital area.
 
Leather gloves, driving (horse) gloves, hunting and dressage gloves have texture as well to handle the genital area, to which can be ready as soon as the hand is free of other items...such as whips, canes and other torture devices.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
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RE: CBT - 7/4/2007 10:26:28 PM   
tag8833


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In using an old time baby hair brush, it is very soft or painting brushes. 

Harder bristles than a paint brush are ok.  The consistency of a worn out tooth brush is about right.  Just not like a wire brush.  I think the key to maximizing sensation (for me).  Is using something with bristles and going side to side so that the bristles touch the area just inside the penis.  That is where the hyper sensitivity lies. 

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RE: CBT - 7/6/2007 8:57:44 AM   
MsEmily


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Status: offline 		There's so many ways to torture cocs and balls, usually I would start by tying it up, making sure that it's all separated and sectioned.

I lke using cigarettes to tease, make sure they can feel the heat. maybe some candle wax so it can well up in the cord that sectioning off his penis. then I'd use the blunt end of a scalpul to scrape the wax off, and maybe carefully remove the cord.

from there, I would clean and prep it, and prepare it to be invaded by some sounds, possibly even electrical devices (i.e. P.E.S) nothing is as affective as electricity, to make someone feel vulnerable. it's dangerious and well pretty expensive, so do your research. but boy is it fun!

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RE: CBT - 7/6/2007 12:54:02 PM   
goddessAVA


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Status: offline 		Listen to Lady Heart-you want to start SLOW.  I find that men have VERY different pain tolerances in that area.  My personal boy will lean into the bottom of my boot so hard I cannot imagine how his balls don't pop! 

I like Mistress Karin Von Crofts cbt videos, she is a master.  Do not be to afraid, they can take more in that area then you think, just watch hard blows and VERY tight bondage-check the balls color and temp. frequently.  My favorite teather is leather string that I wet, it tightens as it drys!

I also learn from the boys who love cbt-talk to your botton the whole time, feedback is good until you learn his thresholds, then the fun begins-electro, sounds, play piercing................btw-icy hot is a naughty trick!

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RE: CBT - 7/7/2007 10:55:34 PM   
AcademyForSlaves


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Status: offline 		I know a Mistress who hammered a nail thru a guy's penis because he was into that kind of thing. Owwie.

I've given a guy blue balls before because I made him stay chastized too long. Oops!! hee hee

The HeadMistress of the Academy kicked a guy in the balls until he couldn't take any more. She's one tough Lady. She's even burned a guy's penis with his cigarette. Ooo that's gotta hurt!! She took pics of it too.

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RE: CBT - 7/7/2007 11:37:03 PM   
MisPandora


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LOL suddenly im voting for the alcohol !

A freshly-cut lemon will get their attention as well.

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RE: CBT - 7/7/2007 11:45:18 PM   
MisPandora


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ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne

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Also got to break in my Wurtenberg Wheel on his exposed balls. Now THAT was fun!


Oh!! I forgot how much fun wheel is on a scrotum tied up tight!!  I have watched total painpigs scream their lungs out.......


Be careful with a wheel or similar sharp object around their gonads ESPECIALLY when they're bound and trapped full of blood.  I've seen on more than one occasion a wheel poking a little hole in a surface vessel, causing a bleeder.

For your ties, I have found that round, soft and well-washed new bootlacing works well, as does well conditioned 4mm hemp rope.  Neither is thin enough to cut into the flesh, but not too thick as to be difficult to work with.

As far as things to do with Cs and B's?
ice/heat
wax
shibari (just how much cord can you wrap around all of his junk?)
pressure (a pediatric blood pressure cuff can be fun)
clamps, clips
suction/cupping/pumps
crops and canes
electro
trampling
crusher (humbler device)
abrasion (sand paper, hairbrush)
vibrators
drawing on them with a permanent marker can be rather embarassing
play "whack the noodle" with one of those foam pool noodles.  It's quite the impact, but won't cause much tissue damage or rupture.  More noise and fright than anything.

Amusing: I've had a guy masturbate with an organic icy hot-type compound until I was crying with laughter on the floor at his whining and protesting.

More advanced:
sutures (I've sewn the C to the Bs, just know that cocks bleed like a stuck pig)
sounds
catheters and bladder irrigation
needles
scotal infusion

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RE: CBT - 7/8/2007 12:02:39 AM   
MsCfromMelbourne


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Status: offline 		Thank you for that comprehensive list and all the other fabulous suggestions in this thread

My eyes have been watering.........with laughter :)

Thanks ladies :)


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RE: CBT - 7/8/2007 5:00:26 AM   
Politesub53


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ORIGINAL: AcademyForSlaves

I know a Mistress who hammered a nail thru a guy's penis because he was into that kind of thing. Owwie.

I've given a guy blue balls before because I made him stay chastized too long. Oops!! hee hee

The HeadMistress of the Academy kicked a guy in the balls until he couldn't take any more. She's one tough Lady. She's even burned a guy's penis with his cigarette. Ooo that's gotta hurt!! She took pics of it too.


All of this is very dangerous, anyone hammering a nail through a penis better be close to the ER. An erect penis is filled with blood under pressure so go figure just how dangerous this is.

i have heard of the skin being nailed when flacid. Kicks to the genitals, burns on the skin can do serious damage. Then again i do have to wonder at the user name.

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RE: CBT - 7/8/2007 4:33:10 PM   
pixelslave


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ORIGINAL: MisPandora
play "whack the noodle" with one of those foam pool noodles.  It's quite the impact, but won't cause much tissue damage or rupture.  More noise and fright than anything.


ROTFLMAO!  After watching my um's learn to swim with these "limp noodles" and having fights with them in the pool, it's nearly impossible for me to envision being tormented by Majik with one of these!  I doubt I'd be able to quit laughing unless I was totally bound & gagged (even then I bet I'd still be snickering)! 
 
Sorry, but I just can't envision them causing me hardly any discomfort at all.
 
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RE: CBT - 7/8/2007 4:44:57 PM   
Majik


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ORIGINAL: MisPandora
play "whack the noodle" with one of those foam pool noodles.  It's quite the impact, but won't cause much tissue damage or rupture.  More noise and fright than anything.


ROTFLMAO!  After watching my um's learn to swim with these "limp noodles" and having fights with them in the pool, it's nearly impossible for me to envision being tormented by Majik with one of these!  I doubt I'd be able to quit laughing unless I was totally bound & gagged (even then I bet I'd still be snickering)! 
 
Sorry, but I just can't envision them causing me hardly any discomfort at all.
 
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Something tells me your going to regret making this post. I'm on my way to wally world to find a 'limp noodle'.


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RE: CBT - 10/23/2007 4:59:36 AM   
closer


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On one occasion, his Mistress was experimenting to find out how many pegs she could attach to his scrotum. She got up to 100 and was aiming for more. He was solid pegs, unbelievable, but eye watering stuff. 




My personal record is 80...........and only because the Lady i was playing with ran out of pegs. And 'eyewatering' is the word. *smiles*

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RE: CBT - 11/25/2007 9:49:40 PM   
SeraphinaKrow


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I love making a hedgehog with pegs on my boys balls   I think what alarmed me most the first time was not realising that pegs hurt twice once going on and once coming off !!! lol I think i put about 8 on each ball ha ha ha





I totally enjoy that as well... if you position them right you can just run your fingers through the pegs or clothespins and watch em squirm. I get extremely excited smacking the cock with my crop as I'm flicking the clothespins with my other hand... ohh to watch em scream and squirm...

First really small taps, and let them intensify as the sub gets used to the smacking, then abruptly stopping and catching them by surprise with one big WHOMP on the cock... I'm getting wet just thinking about it....


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RE: CBT - 7/25/2008 5:53:09 PM   
BENDMEOVERsub


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Status: offline 		i want to teather my man's cock and balls tonight then fuck him with a strap on while using my nails on his engorged head.  are there any good sites to show me how to tie up his balls with instructions and or illustrations.

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RE: CBT - 7/25/2008 7:05:52 PM   
Reigna


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ORIGINAL: tag8833
Something that works on most guys, is to take a brush with fairly soft bristles, and run it from side to side across the tip of the penis while you hold the shaft in place.


A mushroom brush is oddly appropriate.

quote:

Another thing that is useful is a tie (as in shirt and tie).  You can tie this around the balls, and ...  Hang weights from it.  I have found it to be more effective than parachutes. My #1 all time session involved being led around by a tie tied to my balls while blindfolded.


Mmmm, nice. Consider it stolen.

By the way, does anyone know where a person can pick up one of those old-fashioned, non-humane metal twitches? The kind that fastens to the horse's lip with a screw clamp? Animal lovers, fear not. I won't be using it on a horse.

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RE: CBT - 7/25/2008 8:25:48 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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As a male slave i have often been punished by having as many as 20 clothespins on my cock and balls. One Woman removed them by knocking them off one by one using her riding crop.


You call that punishment?  I call that fun!

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RE: CBT - 7/26/2008 1:12:49 AM   
joyinslavery


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Status: offline 		Yes, Computer Based Training is indeed an ideal way of achieving effiicient, desired results.

Not sure why people engaged in this type of training seem to find it so funny (???). 

Have fun. 

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RE: CBT - 7/26/2008 1:14:34 AM   
joyinslavery


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ORIGINAL: BENDMEOVERsub

i want to teather my man's cock and balls tonight then fuck him with a strap on while using my nails on his engorged head.  are there any good sites to show me how to tie up his balls with instructions and or illustrations.




Off the top of my head I can't think of any but let me Google that and I'll get back with you.

Have fun.



Edited to captitalize "Google" (those f***ers).   

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