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grlneedstolearn -> Cumming punishment? (6/24/2007 6:05:36 PM)

Good evening,
   i was wondering what kind of punishments you've recieved for not cumming when being told that you have to.
    Thank you



slaveluci -> RE: Cumming punishment? (6/24/2007 6:14:07 PM)

I have never had that particular problem[;)].  I would come closer to having the opposite problem (cumming when not allowed to), though I haven't done that either.....yet.....slave luci 



countrygirl69 -> RE: Cumming punishment? (6/24/2007 6:43:50 PM)

i too m like slaveluci i would more likely be punished for cumming when told not to .but i do wonder what that punishment would be



sweetnurseBBW -> RE: Cumming punishment? (6/24/2007 6:59:46 PM)

I would have the opposite problem and have not been let orgasm for a while or something along those lines.



frazzle40 -> RE: Cumming punishment? (6/24/2007 7:39:30 PM)

Not always your fault.     Unless trained to cum on command, Sub/slave doesnt mean we can get there just because told too.          Some stimulation might be in order.        Dont know circumstances, you didnt say.           

Yet again it all comes back to talking to each other.



slaveish -> RE: Cumming punishment? (6/24/2007 7:43:29 PM)

~chuckle~

Anatomy / physiology / psychology / sexuality classes. For him.

I'm probably getting ready to open up a big fat can of blood worms here, but someone who would punish you for being unable to achieve an orgams on his say-so would be welcoming a large lot of faking it.



SimplyMichael -> RE: Cumming punishment? (6/24/2007 8:12:55 PM)

Only a fucking idiot would punish a woman for not cumming.  Even men can have trouble cumming. 



improperattire -> RE: Cumming punishment? (6/24/2007 8:33:43 PM)

Gosh, I think I punish myself enough for not cumming! I couldn't imagine being punished for not getting there. I'm trying not to put so much pressure on myself to get a vaginal O, but I REALLY want one. I've "cum" so stinking close. Dammit. I get crazywet, too. It's all in the mind.



maybemaybenot -> RE: Cumming punishment? (6/24/2007 8:34:15 PM)

I have had times I can't cum, and I would betcha almost every single female and a percentage of males have had the same thing happen at some time in their life Punishishing me for not cumming would be the same as punishing me for not having a BM every day.
I'm sure this will be met with chagrin, but if avoiding punishment were contigent on me orgasming, I would be the best faker in the world, but more likely to take a permanant walk.

                                  mbmbn



BossyShoeBitch -> RE: Cumming punishment? (6/24/2007 9:01:13 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: maybemaybenot

I have had times I can't cum, and I would betcha almost every single female and a percentage of males have had the same thing happen at some time in their life Punishishing me for not cumming would be the same as punishing me for not having a BM every day.
I'm sure this will be met with chagrin, but if avoiding punishment were contigent on me orgasming, I would be the best faker in the world, ...
                                 mbmbn


Ditto.



BossyShoeBitch -> RE: Cumming punishment? (6/24/2007 9:02:33 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: grlneedstolearn

Good evening,
  i was wondering what kind of punishments you've recieved for not cumming when being told that you have to.
   Thank you

Are you fucking kidding me?



becca333 -> RE: Cumming punishment? (6/25/2007 2:58:10 AM)

I've been told that if you go into subspace you won't reach orgasm - apparently the arousal starts the same for both, then you either head towards one or the other.  Different chemicals/hormones are released that mean you get one or the other, but not both.  And since I hit subspace pretty fast most times, I don't get the big O.  Doesn't bother me, I'm on my own happy cloud.



Celeste43 -> RE: Cumming punishment? (6/25/2007 3:16:05 AM)

The punishment for him punishing me for not cumming would be watching me say bye bye.

I'm not a trained seal. It isn't like flipping a light switch on. And I probably would do an obviously bad job of faking it just so he could see how little respect I had for him at that moment.



octavia -> RE: Cumming punishment? (6/25/2007 7:18:36 AM)

The only advantage I can see to being "punished" for not reaching orgasm would be that  still during play,  it  might help me get there.  You know, one of the many rediculous things I love to be "punished" for. [:D]
Actual punishment for not cumming? 
Seriously.



littleone35 -> RE: Cumming punishment? (6/25/2007 7:38:37 AM)

That is not a problem for me Master would never puiunish me for something so trivial.  Punishment is for serious infractions.  Sometimes if i have trouble cumming (not that often) Master would just keep going until i did.  Punish me for not cumming on command,in our relationship aint gonna happen.

Matt's littleone



bladedom -> RE: Cumming punishment? (6/25/2007 7:43:03 AM)

Nothing I'd punish for, unless you are talking about not masturbating when ordered to in ehcih case I'd punish for disobedience.

As a sadist I may withhold orgasm as a means of torture, but I've been around enough women to know that not everyone can get off easilly. I find it builds more devotion to offer as much time as a slut needs to come, to let her use as many toys and lube or whatever that she needs.

If a slave truly knows that you will give her as much time as required to reach orgasm then there is much less pressure on her to get there. If it takes you an hour to get off I can tell you I won't give that reward every time we play, but often enough that you find sex pleasurable.




ownedgirlie -> RE: Cumming punishment? (6/25/2007 7:47:20 AM)

My Master's goal was always to develop my orgasm to be stronger and more powerful, not to scare it out of me. 



YourShyPet -> RE: Cumming punishment? (6/25/2007 7:55:29 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: grlneedstolearn

Good evening,
  i was wondering what kind of punishments you've recieved for not cumming when being told that you have to.
   Thank you



<shakes her head>..... I don't get it.



Celeste43 -> RE: Cumming punishment? (6/25/2007 8:18:21 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: bladedom

Nothing I'd punish for, unless you are talking about not masturbating when ordered to in ehcih case I'd punish for disobedience.



Punish for masturbating without reaching orgasm? Or punishment for not touching herself when she was totally nonaroused and the touching made her even less aroused and more sore? Because ordering her to masturbate doesn't mean she would enjoy it, indeed it could cause her to enjoy it less depending on how she felt at the time. Remember folks, the most important sex organ is the brain.



crouchingtigress -> RE: Cumming punishment? (6/25/2007 8:24:17 AM)

 

adding presure, disappointment, fear, and self worth issues to something that is meant to deepen intimacy and trust, is not good science.



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