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RE: Cumming punishment? - 6/25/2007 8:38:13 AM

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I am much more likely to be punished for cumming.

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RE: Cumming punishment? - 6/25/2007 1:06:57 PM

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Have to agree with the masses here. I am for more lkely to cum when it has been forbidden and get into trouble that way.

As for the masterbating comment... hmmmmm.... I am very self conscious but being ordered to play with myself for his pleasure would get me horny before I even got started.... I just long him to give me my commands with no choice or mercy (no I wouldnt jump off a cliff if he told me too... I am somewhat rational lol)

Punishment for cumming when I shouldnt is generally a ban on cumming or self pleasure in general (hard for a little nympho like me). Sometimes he has banned me from cumming and then deliberately started to get me going for the sake of a little torture.... he knows I like a challenge & hate to fail.... he is good to me.....

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RE: Cumming punishment? - 6/26/2007 3:54:06 PM

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I used to have a great deal of difficulty reaching orgasm, but eventally it would come.. (hehe) now.. I can't unless I hear Masters voice tell me I can.

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RE: Cumming punishment? - 6/26/2007 3:59:47 PM

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Used to have a Dom who wanted me to cum through pain alone, and I just couldnt, and He'd keep hitting me till i did, in the end I faked it....suffice to say now an ex Dom

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RE: Cumming punishment? - 6/26/2007 4:06:05 PM

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Well, if he (or she) punishes for not cumming, he's probably mean and bitter in other ways, too.

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RE: Cumming punishment? - 6/26/2007 7:13:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: becca333
I've been told that if you go into subspace you won't reach orgasm - apparently the arousal starts the same for both, then you either head towards one or the other. Different chemicals/hormones are released that mean you get one or the other, but not both. And since I hit subspace pretty fast most times, I don't get the big O. Doesn't bother me, I'm on my own happy cloud.

That's a very large myth. It's more than possible to orgasm in subspace.

As for punishing for not orgasming- I will need to be convinced as to why someone would think this is a good idea and will make things more secure in the relationship.

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RE: Cumming punishment? - 6/26/2007 7:21:43 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

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ORIGINAL: becca333
I've been told that if you go into subspace you won't reach orgasm - apparently the arousal starts the same for both, then you either head towards one or the other. Different chemicals/hormones are released that mean you get one or the other, but not both. And since I hit subspace pretty fast most times, I don't get the big O. Doesn't bother me, I'm on my own happy cloud.

That's a very large myth. It's more than possible to orgasm in subspace.

Yup, no way is that true. I have tons of orgasms in subspace...I even orgasm from things that would not produce such a result otherwise like touching my cheek, or running your hand down my back.

As for being punished for not orgasming, I think that could be counterproductive...especially for women who have a difficult time reaching orgasm to begin with.

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RE: Cumming punishment? - 6/26/2007 7:30:24 PM

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Good evening,
i was wondering what kind of punishments you've recieved for not cumming when being told that you have to.
Thank you

I get "punished" during a scene if I cum without being told to. However, it is impossible for me to bring myself to orgasm, so Valyraen is directly responsible for all my orgasms. Therefore, I am never actually punished.

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RE: Cumming punishment? - 6/26/2007 7:51:07 PM

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We've got a good group here.
So far tonight I've seen three ridiculous scenarios thoroughly cross-examined, dissected, and inevitably quashed.

Keep up the good work, everyone. :)

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RE: Cumming punishment? - 6/26/2007 8:16:38 PM

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To the OP..punished for NOT cumming!..good way to ensure one will NEVER cum...good way to ensure continual punishment...good way to ensure submissive will feel a failure...good way to cover up laziness on Dominants part...Tempting

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RE: Cumming punishment? - 6/26/2007 8:59:37 PM

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: grlneedstolearn

Good evening,
i was wondering what kind of punishments you've recieved for not cumming when being told that you have to.
Thank you

I get "punished" during a scene if I cum without being told to. However, it is impossible for me to bring myself to orgasm, so Valyraen is directly responsible for all my orgasms. Therefore, I am never actually punished.

Because I misread the OP (Bad, bad me....): To punish me for not coming would like punishing a cow for not laying eggs. Since, like I said, I can't bring myself to orgasm, if I'm not orgasming it's because Valyraen hasn't done what is needed to get me there.

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