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domiguy -> RE: Closet BDSM Precautions (6/25/2007 1:46:39 PM)
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ORIGINAL: slaverosebeauty
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ORIGINAL: LadyPaige
I was reading some posts and it made me wonder. For those of you who, like me, have not come out of the BDSM closet to our families, what precautions have you taken?
My mother, my sister and a decent number of my friends know {including those I model with}, yet, the majority of the people in my life co-workers and the rest of my family are oblivious, I work my ass off to keep it that way.
On myspace I have 'vanilla' page wher I have pics of my son, my real {gasp} name, its marked as 'private,' the pics on there are ones that I have taken and are NOT my modeling or lifestyle pics. I will have another page up on myspace by the end of the week with NO connection to that one that will be for hte modeling I am doing. I keep my mouth shut at most family events when peopel make comments about my bruises {I am kinda a klutz, so thats what everyone atributes my bruises on my legs too}. Its not that hard, I just remember who's company I am in and what they know and are able to handle.
I have different email accounts for work/family/friends who don't know. I still email people like MJ from my private account, I'm just carefull that when I give that account to them that they remember, I MAY and probably will open any email there at work, so if its not work or vanilla safe, they need to mark it in the subject line "NVS" [not vanilla safe] or "NWPS" [not work place safe], then I won't open those until the evening.
I keep my toys and books in a suitecase, locked, and only I have the keys that I carry with me almost all the time.
I use passwords on my comp and I am very carefull as to how I label things on my comp so when a family member has to use my comp for whatever reason, they don't find or see anything incriminating.
Simple little things, its not a big deal.
In all seriousness, since you place value on your own privacy, why does it appear you put so little value on the privacy of others.....I have seen several posts that have alluded to the fact that you have "outed" people that you considered to be "trolls" in your profile on another site.
If this is true it seems to be shameful...If this is not the case then it would seem that this is a great place to address such misconceptions that people have about you.
You speak of "modeling" quite often in your posts....Was curious as to what your definition of modeling is?
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