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this is not the way to acted - 6/10/2005 10:34:02 AM

nighthawk99200

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just wanted to let eeryone know i am new to this site and i have messed up i message someone and there dom got pissed when she did not even have that on her profile. just want to see what everyone thinks am i in the wrong hear?

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RE: this is not the way to acted - 6/10/2005 10:37:22 AM

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I wouldn't worry about it. Unless its in their profile, there is no way of knowing what protocol, if any, someone uses. Then again, if the profile stated she was owned, and you wrote her asking her to serve you...that's another story.

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RE: this is not the way to acted - 6/10/2005 10:38:04 AM

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If she is not to be messaged without the permission of her PYL, then that needs to be on her profile. I would say that if it truly wasn't on her profile (and I hope that you read the full profile, and not just what shows up on the default screen) then you should send a message to her dominant stating that you are sorry to have messaged her when she is already owned, but that since it wasn't on her profile, that you didn't know it was inappropriate.

Or just block the ass ... that works too LOL

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RE: this is not the way to acted - 6/10/2005 12:04:11 PM

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I wouldn't worry about it one bit. I get people who go off on me because I haven't contacted them in a timely manner, and they've never contacted me in the first place to indicate that I should be contacting them in the first place.

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RE: this is not the way to acted - 6/10/2005 12:09:31 PM

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The fault is not yours the fault is the "sub" who is keeping something from their "Dom"

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RE: this is not the way to acted - 6/10/2005 5:56:00 PM

MsSilvie

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quote:

ORIGINAL: nighthawk99200

just wanted to let eeryone know i am new to this site and i have messed up i message someone and there dom got pissed when she did not even have that on her profile. just want to see what everyone thinks am i in the wrong hear?

So let me see... nothing on the sub's profile indicating "owned", and a dom gets all pissy because you e-mailed her. What a diminant. First off, if someone isn't allowed to get mail, set the damn profile up to block all mail. Secondly, don't think the internet as a whole has decided it's subbing for any particular diminant these days. People will e-mail pretty much anyone they please. Maybe you want to say all mail goes to your dom, that's fine. But a hissy fit about getting an e-mail, no matter how hng and lame it is, sure does nothing to make a person look mature.

So, attention, insecure ego'd dom/mes: get used to the idea that unless someone has agreed to sub for you, you are owed nothing but vanilla manners and courtesy. Subject to being revoked if you can't display the same.

Anyway, welcome to the net, where anyone can cap their nick and expect to be coddled.

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RE: this is not the way to acted - 6/11/2005 2:13:49 AM

Jennsen

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hmmm...I would think if he were that concerned and controlling he would have made out her profile himself to make sure that wouldnt happen. Or why would he let her on here in the first place???? I seems to me this Dom might be playing head games with her and everyone else he lures into his trap.

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