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LadyHeart -> Sissy Maids (6/25/2007 5:22:13 PM)
I have had a number of emails from sissy maids wanting to offer me their services. I have always shied away from them in the past, because I suspected that they might be more trouble than they were worth, expecting constant micro management and validation. Am I being unfair or wrong in my assessment? Allowing for the fact that all generalisations are going to be somewhat sweeping - what are other Mistresses' experiences of playing with sissy maids, and of course, if sissy maids want to chime in with their side of the story (their expectations and mindset) I'd be open to hearing more, as I've had no first hand experience of this kind of play. :)) LH

MsKatHouston -> RE: Sissy Maids (6/25/2007 5:28:36 PM)
I adore sissy maids when they adore me. Like I mentioned in the fetish thread a second ago, it's not the activity in and of itself that is the issue but whether or not there is a connection and a concentration more on me than the fetish. If someone is a sissy maid, likes to dress up but also has a genuine desire to serve me whether dressed or not, then I love it. I will indulge them completely and have a lot of fun with it. But if they half heartedly serve me but get very into it when we are doing some walking around in the heels...that's a problem. There are some wonderful sissy maids and for those, I think you would have a great and rewarding time. There are also some really iffy people and you might find yourself putting in more work than they are. Choose carefully and make sure you are both realistic and honest with your expectations up front.

planomaid -> RE: Sissy Maids (6/25/2007 5:30:42 PM)
I think I can answer this one... :) My experience has been that you will find some that are good, some that aren't, and some that are simply wonderful. In short, sissy maids will be just like any other person in the lifestyle. Personally I enjoy being a maid, and I find it difficult to be micromanaged (I get that at work!). I prefer having the tasks laid out, any special instructions given, then to be allowed to complete my duties to gain the approval of the person I am maiding for. Of course, if there is a scene going on that involved micromanagment, or something similar, that is different. But basic maid service should be done as a real maid does it - as best as you can, do the job right, and if you need special attention, be upfront about it BEFORE you start. It's always frustrating to get done with something and then have an issue arise that could have easily been avoided if a discussion occured prior to service. I'd say give them a shot and see who works out for you.

Trampler -> RE: Sissy Maids (6/25/2007 6:45:18 PM)
just my 0.02 worth. While I like the idea of dressing my sub in a girly outfit once in while, especially to go to a play party,(mostly for the amusement and humiliation factor.) I am not at all interested in having a sissymaid for a sub.

GoddessinDallas -> RE: Sissy Maids (6/25/2007 10:53:59 PM)
Sissies are unique and different in their own way. Grouping them all together isn't fair.

TaraSterling -> RE: Sissy Maids (6/25/2007 10:56:29 PM)
I completely agree Goddess in Dallas!

LadyHeart -> RE: Sissy Maids (6/26/2007 12:12:49 AM)
It would be nice if those who jumped in with "it's not fair" had read the original post properly. :)) LH

MsCfromMelbourne -> RE: Sissy Maids (6/26/2007 5:18:55 AM)
I had a live in (non-sexual) sissy maid for 4 years. S/he wasn't narcissistic and definitely did not require micro-management. S/he was however steadfastly not submissive. Nor was s/he a masochist. Sissies are cross dressers. Its a different kink altogether. If cross dressers are not your kink, getting a maid is a bad idea. Quite a few of the pro-dommes in Melbourne keep a sissy maid to act as "lady in waiting" (about 10 - 20% I would estimate). Perth may be similar But be warned: IME most dommes find any "slave" - sissy maid or not - is more trouble than they are worth.

GoddessinDallas -> RE: Sissy Maids (6/26/2007 6:48:21 AM)
I did.

DiannaVesta -> RE: Sissy Maids (6/26/2007 8:25:27 AM)
Ok I don’t agree that sissies are cross dressers entirely. Again I suspect that would depend on the sissy. I train a lot of sissies and have for years. I enjoy them because I love humiliation, being attended to and proper training can make a very loyal sissy. The trick is finding one that is not all full of him/herself. First of all I would only be interested in a sissy that was submissive and enjoyed complete control. I will not tolerate any drama or passive aggressive BS. Breaking a sissy down to respect the alpha female (me) needs to happen right from the git go. I have always felt that with any aspect of female domination you study your potential sub carefully and find the buttons that invoke passion, fear, deep submission, etc. You build and create a bond that sissy learns to trust in and you with them. I also think that there’s a time and place for him being a sissy and he needs to also learn how to balance this.

LadyHeart -> RE: Sissy Maids (6/26/2007 5:23:36 PM)
Thanks to those who have made useful contributions to this thread. I now have a much better idea of what to look for and how to frame my questions. :)) LH

iwearpanties -> RE: Sissy Maids (6/29/2007 3:49:31 AM)
hello MIstresses i just had too say thank you to those of you who understand and like and or enjoy the company of we panty bois / crossdressers ..... thank you for being there for us ....

YesMistressIrish -> RE: Sissy Maids (6/29/2007 5:50:26 PM)
* sends a smile to iwearpanties

iwearpanties -> RE: Sissy Maids (6/29/2007 9:21:17 PM)
Mistress Irish hello and thnak you very much . for the smile not many have come my way so thnak you so much

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