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Why is it so hard to find Female Subs in SF - 6/25/2007 7:48:00 PM

DommeFemme415

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I am living in San Francisco. I have been looking for a female for months now. I feel like trying to dominate something new. Any helpful hints??
Mainly for the ladies....

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RE: Why is it so hard to find Female Subs in SF - 6/25/2007 7:50:15 PM

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Finding open female submissives looking for a Domme is rough anywhere. Knowing they are just a kick for you wanting to dominate "something different" mightmake it harder. I know out here, I had zero luck finding a sister for Angel.

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RE: Why is it so hard to find Female Subs in SF - 6/25/2007 7:56:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

Finding open female submissives looking for a Domme is rough anywhere. Knowing they are just a kick for you wanting to dominate "something different" mightmake it harder. I know out here, I had zero luck finding a sister for Angel.

I have to second this. While I would like, when the time is right, to be involved with another woman since I have Valyraen's blessing, I have no interest in just being "something different". I don't know how a woman who is solely interested in other women would feel, but I tend to get the "wow your sexuality is such a novelity" to the point where I don't go looking for it.

On the other hand, you may have some success looking for a bi-curious submissive woman who just wants a fling to see if she really likes other women sexually or not. It does mean you run the risk of her deciding she doesn't like it and walking out, maybe in the middle of a scene.

Hope this is helpful.

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RE: Why is it so hard to find Female Subs in SF - 6/25/2007 8:28:33 PM

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oooh that would be nasty walking out during a scene. It would be more than a fling. I feel I will be much happier with a woman than a male sub.
My body is yearning for female bonding of any kind. I am just one of those girls who does not have many female friends. I am not here for kicks. I am here to delve and resolve my deep longing and need for a woman.

That is why pride this year was so fun for me... I had so many women that I hung around with. and felt really loved and understood. I met them off of Craigslist SF BAY. I went to Exiles all women play party at the Citadel. I guess I will answer the question I posed eventually. Just thought I could get some tips here.

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