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fillepink -> RE: newbie!!! (6/24/2005 4:09:13 AM)
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when i first came here, i met a wonderful Man.. a master of several years..who became my mentor. He taught me a great deal and kept me safe from harm. W/we spoke for a long time each morning as i was over-excited by my mail and not paying attention to profiles. He had approval power over whom i met and under what circumstances, to assure my safety.
i knew when i arrived here i was a submissive, but that's not much more than saying i'm a woman; the range of submissives is very broad; and working with my mentor helped me understand and focus and determine that i was a pleasure sub. it did not happen overnight.
i do not know where Marion is, but many munches are listed on www.mybdsm.com; You may find one in Your area. seems to me You need to understand first if You are a Dominant or a submissive/slave..and then seek the attention of the women who could satisfy Your needs...but in a very cautous manner.
it does not matter that You are sexually inexperienced; i am 49 and so am i. real BDSM people are not going to judge You or reject You; not so long as it is apparent You are learning and respectful to others.
So, i would do two things. read -- castle realm (www.castlerealm.com) is a good site. and try to find a woman with more experience than i to be Your mentor..hopefully someone You meet in real life, but if not, then perhaps You could search here for submissives and Mistresses in Your area and ask if T/they could make time for You.
if ever i can be of any help, don't be afraid to email me..and i wish You great happiness...fillepink
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