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RiotGirl -> Force (6/11/2005 7:19:05 AM)
i've discovered recently that i LIKE force. (i mean really like it) Though i know it almost goes against the "C" in SCC. Though i suppose its concensual nonconsensual? Anyone else find they like abit of force? i mean, REAL force? Like if they drag you across the room by your hair, plop you down and take you, even if you try to get away (which you got to try, just to feel that "force") you know you cant.

EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: Force (6/11/2005 8:10:52 AM)
That's what's normally known as "non consensual consent" or "implicit consent" The boyfriend and I adore force play and we do it with eachother very regularly, we love it.

ElektraUkM -> RE: Force (6/11/2005 8:16:55 AM)
If you like physical force, and consent to it, then I don't see where the problem is. ~ Elektra

sanita -> RE: Force (6/11/2005 8:25:26 AM)
the first time i played with the One who is now my Master, there was a point where He had my wrists pinned on the floor over my head with just one of His hands. it suddenly occured to me, that even if i wanted to get away, i probably could not. and i am a strong woman. that realization drove me wild. often, after a very rough day, i tell Him i really could use some of what i call rag-doll sex. He loves that i enjoy Him slinging me around and using me like a rag doll. this includes quashing any resistance on my part. so, to answer your question... oh! mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm! yup. mmmmmmm.

perfection20005 -> RE: Force (6/11/2005 8:46:48 AM)
I love it. And if you both agree to it, I don't see anything wrong with it. It adds to the excitement. perfection

KittieSummers -> RE: Force (6/11/2005 8:53:46 AM)
Being forced (either to have sex, to pleasure my Mistress, or even something non-sexual) is one of the most erotic things we do. Mistress is very strong (and I'm very weak) so when She pins me down and I know there is no escape...it excites me. I think it's because of the show of power and dominance. Oh, and I love to struggle too! :-) Kittie x

stormsfate -> RE: Force (6/11/2005 9:56:37 AM)
Oh yes...most definately [:D] And the more real it is, the better...lol. f

Sweeticing -> RE: Force (6/11/2005 3:14:40 PM)
As being more domme then sub I love when hubby really takes over. He has no problem falling in line when he really wants it and I make it hard for him. he pulls my pants down I pull them up he pushes me on the bed i try to get away.... then he grabs my hair and holds me down and paddles my butt ... I step on his foot and try to break lose. I get all of 2 steps away and snap goes my head when he has pulled me back by my hair. Now my arms are pinned behind my back as he...... we'll you know...[:)] The best part of this whole scean is im laughing the whole time. And im not letting him get any slack I am all out trying to get away. He has to really work to get me down. Sometimes I just want rough hard sex. Not all the time but sometimes I think its more playful.

Mia1978 -> RE: Force (6/11/2005 3:58:08 PM)
Must say I really like that too! I like how it makes me feel small & dainty. Hard to explain, but I really like it. And there is a big element of play, challenge and seeing his streangth. I can't help but smile through it all :)

jennel -> RE: Force (6/11/2005 11:43:10 PM)
RG: Most certain without a doubt, one of my greatest fantasies is to be 'forced' as you described. Play rape is way, way up there. From the looks of it, you're not alone in your thinking. :) jennel

MzBerlin -> RE: Force (6/12/2005 1:26:32 AM)
RiotGirl- I've found that most of the play I engage in has some component of struggling being done on my part, or force being roughly exerted by my partner. I don't think that it is unsafe or unsane or nonconsensual. A poster on these boards once wrote that she told her partners that as long as she was struggling that everything was fine, and I tell my partners that now. (I think it was Bailey, but I'll have to look it up.) I really like the idea of being "stuck" and NOT being able to get away. I think that force fantasy play is common, and it's often an introduction to BDSM. B

MzBerlin -> RE: Force (6/12/2005 3:12:42 PM)
It WAS BaileyThorne, but I could not find the link to the thread where she stated that. sob B

Lordandmaster -> RE: Force (6/12/2005 3:21:02 PM)
OK LIKE THE DIFERENCE IS SIMPLE. IF YOUR BEING FORCED AND YOU DONT WANT, IT ITS NOT CONSENTUAL IN FACT ITS PROBALY RAPE IF YOUR BEING FARCED AND YOU DO WANT IT,IT IS CONSNESUAL AND THEN ITS NOT RAPE NAYMORE. MOST POEPLE DONT UNDERSTAND THIS BECAUSE THEY ARE VINALLA EDITED BECAUSE I DONT SPEL VERY WELL.

liltxsubby -> RE: Force (6/12/2005 5:48:09 PM)
I love it, too. Although we haven't done a lot of hard force (just pining me down by my wrists and such), I've been thinking about how to ask him for more. A few months ago when I was just starting he had mentioned play rape and i was like "nuh-uh no way not me". Now I feel more like "OK, when?", but don't know how to bring this up. I've always beeen horrible at asking for what I want. Any suggestions?

kc692 -> RE: Force (6/12/2005 7:09:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: liltxsubby I love it, too. Although we haven't done a lot of hard force (just pining me down by my wrists and such), I've been thinking about how to ask him for more. A few months ago when I was just starting he had mentioned play rape and i was like "nuh-uh no way not me". Now I feel more like "OK, when?", but don't know how to bring this up. I've always beeen horrible at asking for what I want. Any suggestions? Let him read this thread!!!!!![:D][:D][:D]

sanita -> RE: Force (6/12/2005 7:42:54 PM)
liltxsubby... posting here should about do the trick. lol have fun!

asissyforher -> RE: Force (6/12/2005 11:26:22 PM)
i have not been in this as yet, but i have always had a fixation of my ear being pulled on... a sissy

KittieSummers -> RE: Force (6/13/2005 9:19:08 AM)
quote: EDITED BECAUSE I DONT SPEL VERY WELL. Lordandmaster, have you thought about getting a proof reader? use someone on the forum or on MSN messanger or AOL...whatever you use. I have a dyslexic friend who does that. :-) However you spell, we know what it says anyway...no worries. Kittie x

sprite67 -> . (6/13/2005 11:38:43 AM)
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Lordandmaster -> RE: Force (6/13/2005 2:34:29 PM)
Kittie, I was joking. Lam quote: ORIGINAL: KittieSummers Lordandmaster, have you thought about getting a proof reader? use someone on the forum or on MSN messanger or AOL...whatever you use. I have a dyslexic friend who does that. :-) However you spell, we know what it says anyway...no worries.

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