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RiotGirl -> Do you ever? (6/11/2005 9:07:19 AM)
Get a tiny hair up your bottom and just feel the need to be a BRAT? Though i never would, i can imagine folding my arms across my chest, tapping my foot and saying "i dont feel submissive right now, so come talk to me later" Especially at times when i'm in trouble. LOL just the thought of folding my arms across my chest and tapping my foot is bratty to me. Anyone ever feel like they'd just like to say things they're not supposed to say? LOL i got abit in a mood yesterday and it was all i could do not to go find him and say, "i've decided to over throw my submissiveness for awhile AND this is how its gonna be" Luckily for me, it didnt come out and reach his ears (though i've nice little foot tapping thought to go with the consqquences of those actions) Anyone ever feel they want to just go act a brat, but know you never would?

Xilisma -> RE: Do you ever? (6/11/2005 9:14:18 AM)
My wife acts that way all the time. We have a lot of fun with her bratty attitude. It usually results in her being wrestled to the floor or forcibly led to the bedroom where she is spanked and paddled most vigorously. Usually leads to sex after, but I love the bratty way about her! quote: ORIGINAL: RiotGirl Get a tiny hair up your bottom and just feel the need to be a BRAT? Though i never would, i can imagine folding my arms across my chest, tapping my foot and saying "i dont feel submissive right now, so come talk to me later" Especially at times when i'm in trouble. LOL just the thought of folding my arms across my chest and tapping my foot is bratty to me. Anyone ever feel like they'd just like to say things they're not supposed to say? LOL i got abit in a mood yesterday and it was all i could do not to go find him and say, "i've decided to over throw my submissiveness for awhile AND this is how its gonna be" Luckily for me, it didnt come out and reach his ears (though i've nice little foot tapping thought to go with the consqquences of those actions) Anyone ever feel they want to just go act a brat, but know you never would?

sub4hire -> RE: Do you ever? (6/11/2005 9:19:28 AM)
I don't think that I do however other's percieve us in different ways then we do ourselves at times. Doug does tell me I'm a big kid. Then again though, I can be one with him so maybe I do?

EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: Do you ever? (6/11/2005 10:21:45 AM)
No one FEELS submissive all the time. But I never want to be a brat or upset the Owner in any way, it's not who I am and the consequences of such an act are NOT worth any pleasure I'd get from it.

feline -> RE: Do you ever? (6/11/2005 11:00:37 AM)
NEVER! LMAO!!! [image]local://upfiles/17000/B61811C1339644B4B4FAB277110C27CE.gif[/image]

RiotGirl -> RE: Do you ever? (6/11/2005 12:20:30 PM)
quote: But I never want to be a brat or upset the Owner in any way, Oh i know. i dont WANT to upset him and usually in that mood. upseting him is also part of the consequences. i dont even think about the fact that it will upset him. Hehehehe, i kind of "blank" on how he'd feel about it. Though luckily for me yesterday as i was feeling abit foot stompish a friend of mine reminded me how it'd go over and how'd he feel and it ended right there. LOL also i was reminded of the consquence of my sore little bottom (which helped as well). But still, all unhappiness of others disregarded, LOLOL, <sigh> i suppose its just the rebellious nature in me, finding a great kick out of upsurping authority from time to time.

EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: Do you ever? (6/11/2005 12:23:33 PM)
That's why they created training, and that's why it can take years of self-discipline to acheive.

RiotGirl -> RE: Do you ever? (6/11/2005 12:24:19 PM)
quote: That's why they created training, and that's why it can take years of self-discipline to acheive. LOLOL i dont wanna!

Sweeticing -> RE: Do you ever? (6/11/2005 3:05:57 PM)
Oh I often feel bratty and act on it a lot of masters love it. It gives them something diffrent to act on. And they like the challange. [;)]I think you felt a temper tantrum comming on because you wanted to show some emotions and didnt know how to express yourself. There are lots of ways to be submissive I like to be the willful submissive .

feline -> RE: Do you ever? (6/11/2005 3:07:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2 That's why they created training, and that's why it can take years of self-discipline to acheive. YEARS?! Geeze . . . glad I'm a fast learner. [image]local://upfiles/17000/DEED256E46D749579C7FA5FA0B11293F.gif[/image]

jennel -> RE: Do you ever? (6/11/2005 11:51:10 PM)
So a Master/Mistress really wouldn't get -ANY- pleasure from beating the brattiness out of us? I'm finding that hard to believe. I can imagine it going from fun to serious real fast and quickly spin out of the sub's control. I believe it is refered to as 'topping from the bottom'. The sub acts out to get her way (what she is looking for is either attention or gratification from the punishment), however a true Master/Mistress will quickly find a way to disable that behaviour. RG, I think you were wise to hold your tongue. That's just my humble opinion anyway. :P At any rate, the idea is fun to entertain at times and I can totally understand where you're coming from ... jennel

EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: Do you ever? (6/12/2005 1:10:42 AM)
The Owner hates brats with a passion, I tend to find them quite annoying myself. There's many ways to be entertaining, to be witty, to be amusing, to get attention, WITHOUT having to resort to immature brattiness. My job is to make the Owner's life easier, not cause him irritation.

jennel -> RE: Do you ever? (6/12/2005 1:42:44 AM)
Emerald, no doubt that you're very devoted to your Master, however there are many flavors and appetites out there. I think some Masters like Sarcastic Sallys. If it's not for you and what you have works for you, then rock on. :) jennel P.S. I actually agree it's better to listen, obey, etc, but I won't shame another for a different kind of kink. :P

RandBcouple -> RE: Do you ever? (6/12/2005 5:59:12 AM)
Riot Girl, you truly are a riot lol...i love ya for it! i get those urges every so often...less and less with time tho...but sometimes i do feel a lil urge to just say, HEY, HOLD ON A MINUTE BUSTER! I DON'T THINK SO!!!! lmao...but of course the reality of upseting Him, and ofcourse that damn CANE, quickly sets in and luckily prevents me from actually vocalizing my bitchiness/brattiness. i think it's human to feel that way at times, no matter how submissive you are there comes a time when you are either in a rotten mood, or simply pmsing, or both, and you just don't feel upto whatever it is you are doing. The key is not to let those impulses take over, instead to wait a second and think before you take action. And we have BOTH learned that well RG lol. love ya!! ~hugs~ Ruffneck's babygirl

asissyforher -> RE: Do you ever? (6/12/2005 11:22:14 PM)
EmeraldSlave2; No one FEELS submissive all the time. oh? i always thought i did. when i was last r/t, in calif..03-04..i was 24/7 and i never once did not feel i was not Hers and never once had any feelings of not being Hers and i personally feel slave-y all day and all night, in my thinking. even when i am the macho dude at walmart..i would sooner if i could go to 'a' clerk i knew was a Domme, and have Her check out my stuff in line. i find myself yearning to kneel to Ladies when i find them in a skirt and heels. if i thought, for a mere second i could get by with it? oh myyyyy. ok i'm done. thanks a sissy

nonuts4thshoney -> RE: Do you ever? (6/13/2005 7:17:30 PM)
When I become bratty I usually hear: "keep it up and I won't beat you". LMAO!!

Hissweetshiv -> RE: Do you ever? (6/28/2005 6:55:55 AM)
I think most, if not all, submissives feel the occasional spark of rebellion. I have to agree with emerald about brats though - Master and i both find brats annoying at best and sometimes repulsive, depending on how severe the behaviour is. Yes, i have moments when i don't "feel like" doing what i'm supposed to, but bratting would get me nowhere. I get good girl spankings, lol... so why would i want to rebel and get punishments that are no fun?

magiqnapa -> RE: Do you ever? (6/28/2005 7:58:55 PM)
Mmm....I finally found a Sadistic Dom who can control me....and boy can he! But, last night, after giving me six orgasms in the space of a few minutes, a couple of hours later I couldn't cum at all. I was very very bratty!! I was super pissed off at my body and frustrated and embarassed. It had never happened before. I just wanted to put a hole in the wall or hurt something. And, he realised I was "acting pissy" (his exact words). How did he handle my being bratty? Because I was pouting, pissed off, ect. He forced me to lie down and rest. I didn't want to....I wanted to go and go and go until I cummed again. He just rolled over and went to sleep, leaving me very sexually frustrated, as he laughed at me of course. A good couple hour rest (as i watched the damn clock) worked though. So, on the flip side of this, my new Master knows how to handle my being bratty, but I guess it would have to do with the reason, and wether you are really being "bratty" or challenging him. When my Master went to grab my throat last night for breath play, I had an instinctive reaction and grabbed his wrist, pushing him away. It is the last time I will do that! I will NEVER forget the look in his eyes when he grabbed a huge handful of my very long red hair, yanking my head back to the point I saw stars... and brought my face a hairs-breath from his and told me, in a VOICE I will never forget as well to "make very sure I never did that again." It shook me to my core. So, I guess your master will let you know if "bratty" is ok or not, but I now know that challenging m Master is never ok, so just make sure that is not what you are doing, I guess. [image]local://upfiles/127127/3984FE1DC57F47529CE6611D41D76630.jpg[/image]

EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: Do you ever? (6/28/2005 8:10:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: magiqnapa So, I guess your master will let you know if "bratty" is ok or not, but I now know that challenging m Master is never ok, so just make sure that is not what you are doing, I guess. Challenging the Owner is fine, you just have to ask permission first. :) We like forceplay, me fighting back is half the fun, specially knowing it's only because he allows it. But it's only within very specific confines and how HE allows it, not just because I feel like it.

magiqnapa -> RE: Do you ever? (6/28/2005 8:33:31 PM)
MMMmmm...I agree, force play is FUN!! Especially since I am a real Hellcat....and thank you so much for reminding me about asking him for it. Being a sub is a very very new thing for me, and it is hard for my Domme side sometimes to be so repressed. But, I unconciously challenged his authority I guess when I grabbed his wrist and pushed him away. It all happened so quickly, you know? I didn't even realise it until it was way too late. God, I'll never forget that terrified feeling of not knowing what this new Dom was going to do, especially since I know what he is capable of. If it ever happens again by accident, I know I am in for it good.

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