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Questions - 6/11/2005 9:21:23 AM

RiotGirl

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When you ask your Master or Mistress a question, any question, and they dont answer what do you do? Do you repeat it incase they havent heard you, or do you wait and wonder if they've heard you? Prolly as simple as asking "did you hear me" but what if again they dont answer? Just sit there patiently? Does it ever drive you a bit nuts that they DONT answer and will just let you sit there and wonder? Even if its just to wonder about the answer? ESPECIALLY if the question is somewhere along the lines of "Would you like me too......"

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RE: Questions - 6/11/2005 10:17:46 AM

Davesgirl

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Oh yes...It drives me nuts when my Master doesnt answer me. Most times, I will repeat it, or ask if he ehard me. But, if I know hes in a foul mood, I jsut keep my yap shut. LOL Better for me to just let it be then try and push it.

It could be his way of reinforcing his control over me, by simply talking to me when he wants to. Either way, yeah, it drives me nuts

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RE: Questions - 6/11/2005 10:20:22 AM

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I will either say "Master?" or just repeat the question. I've learned by his body language and experience how he looks when he's thinking versus didn't hear it.

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RE: Questions - 6/11/2005 10:44:44 AM

sanita

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we talk about so many things, Master and i, that sometimes we loop around, and have two or three subjects going at once. when i realise a question wasn't answered, i usually ask it again. if He does not answer a second time, i usually flat-out ask (respectfully, of course): "Will You be answering this at some point, or should i drop it?" if He says to drop it, i do. sometimes, though, in order to be sure i am reading the situation correctly, i ask if it is one of those things i can bring up again later, or if it is drop it for good.

*s* actually, there has not been anything that has been "drop it for good," yet. of course, He knows i have a thing about questions. if i ask, i am prepared for whatever answer may come.

gently checking to make sure you were heard, as Emerald does is a good idea. but in my case, my hearing is worse than His, so sometimes He answers and i don't hear it. He can hear me mutter something ornery from another room. *moan* so just repeating the question is not helpful to me.

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RE: Questions - 6/11/2005 12:05:24 PM

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Well...

I've never experienced Stephan's silence after one of my questions. If he doesn't answer right away, I already know he's thinking a very good response (or a funny one) to clear my doubt.

If he doesn't answer (if he's ever going to do so) I will know there's a problem, or I'm just being a dirty brat who deserves one of his dirty looks instead of an answer.

I guess it's all about knowing the person you are with. It's funny how I already know his answers to my questions. Sometimes I like to know we think similar.

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RE: Questions - 6/11/2005 12:09:47 PM

RiotGirl

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It's funny how I already know his answers to my questions.

LOLOL yeah i know alot of the answers to the questions i ask. If its something good, i like to hear it again, if i dont like "my" answer, i'll ask in hopes i'm wrong.

Prolly why he doesnt answer me alot. Either that or he thinks i just neednt know!

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RE: Questions - 6/11/2005 3:23:30 PM

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very nice suggestions sanita

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RE: Questions - 6/11/2005 9:36:24 PM

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Not being answered, drives me nuts too!
The minute i become aware, that he heard all right! and he's choosing not to respond. That would usually mean, either ive goofed, or he's controlling something in some way, and a few seconds later, i usually get what 'it' is. So for the moments of silent, bliss/agony while you await your next clue as to what to do. Like a rabbit in the headlights, mesmerised by what if's? and oh pullease Sir's.

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RE: Questions - 6/11/2005 9:39:11 PM

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I DUE THIS TO MY BITCH ON PRUPOSE ITS GREAT

SOMTIMES SHE GETS SO FURSTATED SHE TURNS INTO A PUMKIN AND THEN I HAVE TO BORROW MY NEGIHBORS MAGIC WAND TO TURN HER BACK

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When you ask your Master or Mistress a question, any question, and they dont answer what do you do?

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RE: Questions - 6/12/2005 3:52:26 AM

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In everyday life, mood and general atmosphere between us often dictates my responses. It also dictates how and when she asks, too! Naturally, she has to ask properly....

Mostly, I'm quite open and responsive to anything she asks and I won't deliberately ignore her as though she's not there. But there's all manner of variations depending on circumstances.... If she has to ask twice, she gets a buzz if I hadn't heard her first time and I apologise when she repeats herself..... If I don't answer a second time, she has her answer but, again, I don't completely ignore her - the "stare" takes care of that situation.

I'm not one for just letting her sit there when she's asked something. Through experience, she knows when to ask, when to bide her time and when to be quiet.... If I want her to sit there in silence, I'll either tell her or arrange it that she physically can't do anything else, anyway!

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RE: Questions - 6/12/2005 4:46:26 AM

RandBcouple

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hmm, i don't think Master ever just stays silent after one of my questions, He will usually just say, "what business is it of yours?" if it's something which just doesn't concern me....i can be a bit too curious about things which don't concern me which get me in trouble often, but He will let me know quickly that it's just something i don't need to be concerned with. That's one of the things which is hardest for me to over come, and i have improved, but still find myself questioning way too often stuff that as He says, just doesn't concern me.

If you don't get an answer, riotgirl, just drop it, when it's obvious that your Master heard you it means he just doesn't find it necessary to answer.

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