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SweetDommes -> The good ones (6/26/2007 2:47:40 PM)
Yes, that's right ... I said the good ones. To hell with the bitching and moaning, to hell with the ones who frustrate, irritate and just flat out piss us off. I want good stories - even if the boy ended up not working out for you, for one reason or another. We've had various potentials, but the two right now are the ones that I want to talk about. I actually just posted in my journal about this on the personals side of the site ... One is local - about 30 min away. We chatted a year or so ago, just as friends, because he was planning to graduate college and then move away. As it turns out, he did graduate and move away ... and then moved back. I would say within 2 weeks of getting himself settled back in the area, he messaged me to say that he had moved back and that since he is now planning to stay in the area, could be please be considered. He was always polite and friendly, and a pleasure to chat with, so I figured, why not? Things are still going rather well with him, although with me working so much overtime last week, and then sleeping my whole weekend off, we haven't chatted much for a bit. I just have to say, though, that I appreciate that he does talk to me when I have time, he understands that life is crazy sometimes, and he never makes me feel like I'm neglecting him when I have to be offline for a week or so. The other is not so local - he's from Idaho. Honestly, I like him better ... except for one major lifestyle issue that I don't know how much of a problem it will be. He's a vegitarian and we are all rather carnivorous here LOL. He is also wonderful to chat with, and he makes a real effort to stay in touch (although his schedule is almost as crazy as mine lately). He has checked in with me about my job interviews that I've been going to, which means a lot to me that he's paid attention and has taken that effort. So, anyone else have good stories of boys or girls that they have talked to? Even if it didn't work out ... I want to hear about it [:D]

SweetDommes -> RE: The good ones (6/26/2007 8:36:41 PM)
Oh come on ... hours and hours later, and 63 views ... and no replies?? I know that there are positive stories out there. Share already! LOL

pixelslave -> RE: The good ones (6/26/2007 9:33:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetDommes Oh come on ... hours and hours later, and 63 views ... and no replies?? I know that there are positive stories out there. Share already! LOL I'm happy for you to hear that you now have two potential subs that might work out for you! It's always good to hear that kind of positive news here on CM instead of the opposite kind. [:D] Honestly, with all the veggies that you folks grow in Indiana (I was raised in Western Ohio), I wouldn't worry about the fellow from Idaho being a vegitarian; instead, just ask him what his needs would be beyond what you'd normally prepare for meals. I'd be more concerned about him missing the mountains and adjusting to the flatlands if I were you. [;)] Clearly, he's asking the right questions that are focused on what's important to you! Can't complain about that one... [:)] As to things working out, Majik collared me this past weekend (Fri the 22nd), I'd think that would qualify for your thread. Being honest, she caught me totally by surprise! Now we've begun starting talking about the details necessary for us to both start working toward eventually being together on a 24/7 basis. [:D] - pixel Collared to Majik 6-22-07

LadyHeart -> RE: The good ones (6/26/2007 10:17:17 PM)
I sent an email to a lovely young man who seemed like a very good play match. He replied promptly and intelligently. He arrived for a talk on the due date at the right time, which was a minor miracle considering the fact that I had informed him that he would have to meet my husband, which is somewhat daunting, but if they can't jump that fence then they need to play in other pastures. We made an appointment for our first play session, and he not only turned up but was early. The moment I put a collar round his neck he dropped right into role and proved to be a perfect submissive to play with. We had a session that left me on a high for days and him on the floor like a blob of jelly - the first time he's relaxed in three years, he said. And we are playing again on Saturday night. Yes, he's a "good one." They are out there... :)) LH

SweetDommes -> RE: The good ones (6/27/2007 12:13:30 AM)
Oh, Pixel - that's wonderful [:)] and definitely qualifies for this thread. Congratulations! We have discussed the culture shock issues with the one from ID ... he said he was "tired of mountains anyway lol" When we started talking, he was planning to move eventually, just didn't have a location in mind - now he's thinking Midwest [;)] LH - how lovely. I know that they are out there, it just seems that sometimes they get lost in the shuffle of all the 'bad' ones. Yay for you for finding one of the good ones for yourself.

MsRose -> RE: The good ones (6/27/2007 12:36:44 AM)
Hmmm, I'm thinking that I have a good one to share... I began a correspondence with a young submissive man who lives thousands of miles away. That being said, we've remained in contact almost consistantly since the day he contacted me nearly a year ago. I can't say much more than that, except, we're still communicating. I hope that counts. I'd definitely say that meeting him ranks as one of the good encounters that I've had. Cheers, MR.

SweetDommes -> RE: The good ones (6/27/2007 12:41:43 AM)
yup, that counts [:)] I'd say more, but my cat is demanding the keyboard to lay on (and just layed don on my hands a second ago lol) ah, cats ... everyone's Dom/mes [sm=biggrin.gif]

blmtrsne -> RE: The good ones (6/27/2007 4:09:51 AM)
I've met a boy way back in 1979, and tested his goodwill by telling him to help my mother with the dishes, let him carry my bags etc... He became my slave/husband in 1988 and we are still a Femdom-couple. (IRL: no play, but service like caring for the home, doing jobs in and around the house, pampering me and doing what I say). Guess I found my good one. blmtrsne

SweetDommes -> RE: The good ones (6/27/2007 4:24:03 AM)
That's so sweet ... I won't tell you how old I was in '79 though LOL I guess I should also share how we met rob (although I'm sure the story is around here somewhere). We were in a munch group that was run by a self-admitted attention whore who was also a two-faced little twit. We left the group shortly after this happened, but anyway ... we went to a munch with a boy we were seeing at the time, and rob was there - I vaguely remember seeing him, but as we were at different sections of the table, we didn't talk much. Holly, the boy and I didn't stay for long, seeing as it was at a loud bar that allowed smoking, but apparently, right after we left, the twit started "warning" people about us. I guess her warning backfired though, because a week or so later, rob and I started bantering back and forth on the list ... which led to us chatting off the list, and him coming to visit ... and he's now been with us for approaching 4 years. [:)][:)][:)][:)]

MsCfromMelbourne -> RE: The good ones (6/27/2007 6:32:29 AM)
Last weekend I did an interrogation scene at a private play party with a friend of mine, Mistress Scarlet, and this very sweet 23 year old guy Scarlet met at a BDSM club (By the way, I have a submissive and we pride ourselves on being monogamous love partners which is an extremely radical kink in our circle of friends) Anyway, this interrogation turned wild. It was very violent, funny, sexy and scary. We three were alone in the "cell" but a camera in the corner of the room relayed the action to a TV screen outside. I was told afterwards that every bloke in the place was watching with their eyes watering, especially when the extreme CBT started. As the lead Mistress, it was my job to interrogate and I really didn't know this guy from Adam: what information could I torture him for? His bank account number? So predictable :( Then I had a brainwave -"have you been having dirty fantasies about Scarlet and I"? The poor bugger blushed red as a beetroot and we had our answer. Had that fithy pig been wanking thinking about us? Our victim started stuttering and begging for forgiveness WHAT disgusting thoughts did he dare to have about us, the worm? He started wailing no, no, no....he could never tell us. Huh? He was serious!!!. He was cringeing with embarassment and would not confess. Honestly, I have never had to hit and humilate anyone as hard and long as I tortured this guy. He just keep wailing "no, no, I can't tell you, I'm too embarassed". We had him screaming, begging and almost crying. I even told him "come on, just make something up!" but he wouldn't confess and he wouldn't lie. He just kept snivelling "no, no, please, I can't tell you" Two hours later we stopped the interrogation because my right arm was aching and our victim was bordering on hysterical. He didn't crack and confess. Scarlet left and I started untying him from the bondage chair. He was giggling, shaking and talking gibberish as you do on a mega endorphin high. Then he whispered "do you want me to tell you? Do you want to know my secret?" He was grinning and nodding. Ok, what? "I am a virgin" he whispered, too low for the camera microphones to pick up "Do you think that makes me strange? " What could I say? That was why he wouldn't confess. He didn't want everyone watching the video streaming to know his big fantasy is losing his virginity (on my living room floor mind you!) to a Domina. Why would someone who has never had vanilla intercourse be hanging around private dungeons doing extreme scenes? Its like deciding to learn to drive by racing Ferraris in the Formula 1....... BUT getting to the point, he was a really, really nice guy! Clean cut, genuine, sincere, attentive......totally unspoiled. Not a sleazy bone in his body. Perfect, wide eyed innocence just waiting to be corrupted into everything a Dominant woman could ever want. Now here's the interesting part: I asked him why such a tall, good looking (smart professional!) sub doesn't have a Mistress. Why not advertise on alt or collarme? He said he does!!!!! Its just that no-one really notices him because he is shy. Dommes only notice cool subs and troublemakers. he is a "good one"....and single! There must be someone out there willing to be the First Great Love of this boy's life :)

SweetDommes -> RE: The good ones (6/27/2007 6:58:47 AM)
Unfortunately, he's a bit young and on the wrong continent for us LOL

MrrPete -> RE: The good ones (6/27/2007 7:21:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetDommes ah, cats ... everyone's Dom/mes [sm=biggrin.gif] My cat, Dilbert, a 15lb male stray, I have discovered is a bit of a msaochist. He likes to lay in my recliner when I'm on the computer. He won't move even when I getup UNTIL I turn toward my recliner. When he realizes I'm headed in his direction He moves, and fast. He knows there are consequences if he stays put. He likes to lay on my chest with his front paws under my beard and I like it when he does. One day I smacked him lightly on the rump to get him to move qand he didn't budge so he got another more forceful. Same results. He just would not budge no matter how hard I smacked him unless I knocked him across the room. Not even a meow out of him. So I changed tactics. I simply got up and dumped him onto the floor. He's fast enough to just jump free. BTW he often truns right around and waits until I'm sitting, before I get the footrest in place, then rushes up and plops down on my chest as if to say, "this is what you get for chasing me out of the recliner."

MsCfromMelbourne -> RE: The good ones (6/27/2007 7:35:40 AM)
Bummer Maybe I can sell him on e-Bay......

Ayanaev717 -> RE: The good ones (6/27/2007 7:50:27 AM)
Well...it's hard out there. But, I have spoken to quite a view potentials. One potential I have been speaking too is very submissive and eager to learn. My only concern is that maybe too new is not for me. I hope the conversation will continue. That's good isn't it?! LOL A

SweetDommes -> RE: The good ones (6/27/2007 7:51:51 AM)
It sure is ... and keep in mind, everyone has to start somewhere. With no one to give him experience, how can he ever get any?

Lashra -> RE: The good ones (6/27/2007 8:45:11 AM)
I met My boy totally by luck. I had been sort of looking for a sub for about 2 years and was about ready to give up. I was playing Star Wars Galaxies when this character walked into the bar and we started talking. His name caught my eye and mine his. He was very quick to admit he admired "very submissive women". I kind of chuckled and said, I am sure there are some of those type of women around here. He said You aren't submissive? I said Nope not in the slightest. Oddly enough we kept talking and over time our relationship developed. He was a Master at that time who never felt comfortable wearing that hat and is now my submissive. We've been together for 3 years now. [:)] I intend to keep him. ~Lashra

LadyPact -> RE: The good ones (6/27/2007 9:30:34 AM)
I'll add this little story. I'll let it up to the readers to decide if it belongs in the catagory or not. To start with, everyone knows My hair fetish. I'm pretty vocal about it here, in other places that I chat, and in r/l. Anyway, I was chatting about this particular topic a couple of nights ago in a semi-local BDSM chat. One of the submissive girls who I have had the pleasure of meeting at some of the events in Atlanta was becoming a bit sad about the topic of converstation. A very pretty blonde who is just as friendly and sweet as a person could ask for. Anyway, after it became apparrent that she was unhappy about the topic of My love for long hair, I asked her why it was making her so sad. She then broke the news that, just that afternoon, she had cut off 12" of her gorgeous blonde hair, and donated it to Locks of Love. She was sad about the drastic change of her look with short hair. (Btw, I've seen the pictures, and she looks absolutely wonderful. I think it was just the drastic change bothering her for the moment. She looks great!) Well, having heard her so sad, but knowing she did such a noble, unselfish thing, I promised her that the next event that We were at together, that I would do a public scene with her. It cheered her right up, and she's quite excited about it. The new joke for the situation is that, no good deed goes unpunished. No, it's not exactly the kind of story that the others have mentioned, since this girl isn't My submissive, and she isn't male, but she's definitely one of the good ones.

stockingluvr54 -> RE: The good ones (6/27/2007 12:50:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetDommes It sure is ... and keep in mind, everyone has to start somewhere. With no one to give him experience, how can he ever get any? SD... Thanks for bringing that up.....

SweetDommes -> RE: The good ones (6/27/2007 1:07:17 PM)
Hehe, doesn't have to be your submissive - as I said in the OP, even if it doesn't work out, it's ok ... and while I'm a bit biased towards male submissives, female submissive stories are welcome here as well. As long as it's positive, it belongs here [:)]

MsLadySue -> RE: The good ones (6/27/2007 1:29:04 PM)
I had pretty much given up on my search for a single male submissive. I was also tired of not having some vanilla fun, so put a profile on a free internet dating site. Turns out a single male on that site had seen my alt.com profile several years ago (he had a Mistress then) and I'd used the same picture on the dating profile. I got a lovely email that spoke of his submissive side since he knew it would be of interest to me. We emailed, then yahoo'd and went to phone ... we have a great deal in common even though he is much older than I am. He took me to dinner last week and we talked for what seemed like hours, came back to my place and had a short session. He is everything I could ask for and he says the same about me. Finally!

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