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subitodolce -> RE: How can I make Him feel a rush? (6/28/2007 5:33:28 AM)
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ORIGINAL: RchmdServiceNeed
Speaking as someone who has worked all summer at a camp: Nothing beats a hand written letter.
And candy.
I know you said you were communicating by email, but a letter is like 30xs the effect, just as it is. *note: This is not the place for your porn thoughts, lol-- You should consider [and expect] that everything at camp is really not safe from co-counselor's and camper's riflings, lol, so DON"T PUT PORN in there!! lol, but just tell about your day, what you're up to, that you miss him, etc etc. Words: "love, hugs, kisses" sure. words: "bondage, lick, $^&@%#" no.
It feels so so good to get a letter at camp I can't really explain it. It's like Santa at Christmas and going all summer without a letter is like Santa never came. :(
The best letters are the ones that have little candies inside like airheads taffy, pepermints, cream savers, and other stuff. You can be creative-- "gobstopper" became me and my honey's name for blowjob and he sent me some at camp to "practice" so that was funny. ;)
Non-vegetarian guys tend to like the slim jims and stuff like that. i would just send whatever his fav thing is.
If you want a letter back I would send a self addresses STAMPED envelope and paper. And I wouldn't expect him to write back though, at camp you have zero, seriously zero time.
**Again, seriously: if you have a few code words that's fine but do NOT put fantasies/porn in there! It will embarase him if anyone gets their hands on it [which is really easy at camp] and could get him fired depending on what is in there or cause him to loose respect of co-workers and/or campers so no porn! Just a good, nice, "I miss you/love ya" letter. :) Have fun!
It will last and stay with him for a long time -- the thought and the letter itself so he can read it at times he can't get to the computer. :)
Edited to say:
1.**Do not send chocolate. Again, do NOT send chocolate anything.
2. Consider that he might not want "a rush." He is at camp, with kids, responsible for them, enjoying nature, etc. He may not be in the same headspace as you nor want to be-- i mean, he has chosen to be at camp... You're still an adult and you have adult thoughts, but it is certainly not the time nor place for him to be consumed with you, thoughts of you, or sexual thoughts -- it would be really uncomfortable and not what most camp counselors would want whille they are at camp. So I would say-- Don't worry about "giving him a rush" whille he is a camp -- Just do things to let him know you are thinking about him, missing him, and looking forward to his return-- But save "the rush" for when he's at home and can be an adult adult with you and giev you that same attention back. :) [which he is probably not able to do at camp and you might end up feeling burnt out or not returned feelings which might not be the case, but camp doesn't allow for much "interaction"-- just one sided]
I would have to second this. My guess is that any email access is run through a community computer at the camp, and makes it FAR too easy for somebody else to inadvertantly gain access to pictures of you. I agree with Rchmd in that you doon't want to do anything that may get him potentially fired...because getting fired for viewing porn at a summer camp does not bode well for any future employers who contact that camp for references. :-/
Written letters are always good (because who doesn't love mail call at summer camp! Besides, if the other counselors figure out who the letter is from, nothing is more fun than stating to a room of 200 campers that so-and-so got a letter from his girlfriend [:D]). Is there a fragrance that you wear that is his favorite? Give the inside of the envelope a spritz before you put the letter in. :-) It is certainly alright to say how much you miss him and look forward to his return, and that you look forward to pampering him when he gets back...but in the event that the letter is discovered by a camper (and some would be ornery enough to go searching through things to get the letter), you certainly don't want to expose that little guy to that (it's opening him and the campground up for a lawsuit...parents will sue over anything nowadays).
On top of all of this, what if he does manage to keep a dirty letter a secret? Trust me, I've been a counselor, and you get almost NO time to yourself...so should he get that little rush, it will be unlikely that he can find a time and a private place to expel that energy, and that may serve to be more frustrating than arousing.
Your best bet, keep it PG-13 until he gets home, and then knock him off his feet as soon as he gets in the door. The power of suggestion does more to a guy's mind than anything else (it drives my Sir /nuts/ if he thinks I'm planning something for our next time together), so just inform him that he has you all to himself upon his return, and plan a very special "welcome home" party for him [;)]
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