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LadyEllen -> pre-July update! (6/27/2007 3:43:03 AM)

I was going to wait till the next roll call, honestly! Even though it is still just about June....but I'm impatient!

We had our first session in the new room last night! Its taken us since January to get it all ready, but yesterday the final initial finishing touches were made and we tried it out. This is the very same place we're doing our pro femdom business from, so it was only right to give it a test run, so to speak! Meanwhile, our business cards are done, we have email and phones in place and the website is being finished soon, so its almost there.

We'd invited D (a masochistic fetishist with one great bod - he's on CM on the other side, but no more clues as to his ID sorry!), P (a guy on his first visit to anywhere - not sure where he came from as my friend sourced him, but a very nice man indeed), and also present were "Marge" (my friend's CD subby hubby) and of course we two.

Marge was initially going to use the evening to try out being at the other end of the stick, something attempted before but which had not been altogether successful, but as they say, if at first you dont succeed....... However, D had to cry off at the last minute and then Marge managed to put hirself squarely in the firing line as a replacement (funny how they pull that off quite innocently, isnt it?) by insisting on a proud demonstration of hir maid's outfit. Oh dear.

So, my friend took P and I took Marge. Now, being TS and all, its often a bit difficult to know how guys will react to me - its usually OK as long as one avoids certain activities. However, playing domme to a guy whom one hitherto has known only as a friend whilst his wife is in the room watching - thats a whole different thing! Still, lost in the moment it all seemed to go very well and I didnt get slapped at the end or anything, so I guess I'm OK!

To be fair though, it was a bit of a surprise since I was expecting D, who is pretty simple to deal with all in all - a straightforward, damned good thrashing with lots of marks being his thing - last time I think my arm was aching as much as his backside! The sudden change of "victim" threw me for a while, even though we've discussed likes and dislikes at length in the past, I never really expected to be playing with him, you know? Never mind, he got what I think I do best, which is an interrogation/correction scene, centred around his failures as a maid (though actually he's pretty good), which he seemed to enjoy as a change from the usual. The time flew by as usual.

We tried most stuff out, (including my display only single tail, which I've adapted a little - it stood up well all in all and seemed to do the trick), and all in all it was a success.

The only teething problem we all found was with the temperature of the room if anyone has any ideas on that? It had been heated beforehand, but we found that those of us standing were in tropical temperatures, whilst about a foot from the floor it was pretty cool for those with fewer garments on! The problem really stems from the room having a concrete floor, but a carpet is not a good solution because we intend to do wax play at some point. We also dont yet have the sort of funds needed for the likes of underfloor heating. We did think about a fan heater, but these tend to make a lot of distracting noise. Any ideas appreciated, especially by the slaves, as otherwise they will be wearing pink bunny fluffy slippers in future!

E




DommeChains -> RE: pre-July update! (6/27/2007 5:43:37 AM)

Congrats and a big attagirl for a successful trial run.  A suggestion for the floor might be yoga mats?  The better ones give some decent protection, are pretty cheap so if they did get messed up from wax play no big deal and they are portable so you can roll 'em up when not in use or move around easily depending on the scene.




mnottertail -> RE: pre-July update! (6/27/2007 6:13:27 AM)

if you put temporary matting on the floor, you need to roll it up when done, the cold floor in warm house you got moisture, know whadda mean, Vern?

Having said that....if you know anybody in carpeting, or clients who know---

one of the underlayments used on cement and moisterous places is felt.  The thing is, unless you can work them over good, and you install it yourself, they cost it to you at about 64 dollars american per roll, it costs them about 8 dollars american.
I would assume that is the same rough case in the UK.

It rolls and unrolls really nicely and is very soft for your subbies tootsies.  you could make a few paths of that. But you have to have some cold floor for disciplines.

Ron(ne)  




LadyPact -> RE: pre-July update! (6/27/2007 9:47:21 AM)

Congratulations on your trial run!  It sounds like things, aside from the floor, went splendidly, and you had a wonderful time.




LadyEllen -> RE: pre-July update! (6/27/2007 11:50:39 AM)

Thanks all - I shall be looking up yoga mats though not sure how I feel about getting felt!

E




SDFemDom4cuck -> RE: pre-July update! (6/27/2007 2:06:28 PM)

Yeah You! Congrats E! I would agree as well with the roll up matting.You could even go with a sissal or bamboo woven mat. Not exactly comfortable to kneel on but still a cushion against a cold cement floor. You might want to consider some ceiling type fans for air flow. They will circulate the warmer top air down to the floor and in summer they'll work in the opposite. They're also quite nice to have for a slight breeze during wax play, or interrogation scenes.

Let us know how it all works out.




MisPandora -> RE: pre-July update! (6/28/2007 10:40:39 AM)

Re temperature -- I've found that those little ceramic core electric space heaters work wonders in terms of managing temperature control for a naked bottom. 




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