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canada67 -> Strap on's (6/27/2007 10:45:50 AM)
It seems strap ons are becoming more popular.i been done three times in the recent past. my question, as a male slave, is why do Women find strap ons so interesting? Is it just a power trip or what?

MisstressNboytoy -> RE: Strap on's (6/27/2007 2:43:04 PM)
I'm guessing, at least from my own experience, that both parties enjoy it equally (or even perhaps the male enjoys it more). It's definitely one of the ultimate forms of submission, to be taken that way. It could be a power trip, a way to punish your submissive if they do not enjoy it, but I think more often it is a just another type of domination that many people enjoy.

rhythmboi -> RE: Strap on's (6/27/2007 3:14:09 PM)
i'm sure there's alot about power and domination and 'the phalus' and blah blah blah, but sometimes it's just practical if your partner has 'slot b', you want a 'tab a' to put in it.

DianeB269 -> RE: Strap on's (6/27/2007 3:15:39 PM)
Fast Reply!!!!! Do a strapon search here. I think there's about 20 threads on the subject. I think F2m strapon is becomming more and more vanilla now. Everytime I'm at Good Vibs or Stormy Leather I see more and more vanilla cauples buying dildos and harnesses. Diane

wldchld -> RE: Strap on's (6/27/2007 4:39:40 PM)
I would just like to say, that through personal self play, I find the action very stimulating, and I would hope to one day partake in strap-on sex. I'm not sure it is submission as much as it is that the orgasim is outstanding.

Urcreatrix -> RE: Strap on's (6/27/2007 4:42:51 PM)
Going to agree with everyone else and add that some subs just beg so sweetly for it, it becomes hard to resist. Plus, since I enjoy recieving, why deny another such pleasure just because of gender?

MistressLorelei -> RE: Strap on's (6/27/2007 4:46:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DianeB269 Fast Reply!!!!! Do a strapon search here. I think there's about 20 threads on the subject. I think F2m strapon is becomming more and more vanilla now. Everytime I'm at Good Vibs or Stormy Leather I see more and more vanilla cauples buying dildos and harnesses. Diane I think more women are realizing that it's not a bad thing to lead their relationships. Some have lead all along, but have not embraced it- it's liberating. The bras were already burned, now it's time to buy a strap-on! To the OP: Power trip? Not so much as the exchange of power. I love the feeling of expressing myself intimately to a male I have a bond with, in a way that is not shared by the vast majority of society. I also love the idea of a male being taken by a version of 'manhood', while his own 'manhood' rests quietly encased in plastic. Strap-on play is intensely bonding, fun for both involved (in a rather unique way), a great way for a woman to exhibit her sexual dominance over her submissive... and a great way for a submissive to give in deeply (literally) to his own submission to her. Besides, the strap-on that I have has a nice little attachment for the Woman... so with each push, my pleasure combined with his pain/pleasure makes it all the better.

yrstocollar -> RE: Strap on's (6/27/2007 4:51:21 PM)
All the usual feelings of power and control come into it for me... But as a lesbian... even without there being any kind of power exchange going on, just pretty standard vanilla sex, there is a whole lot of stimulation happening from the straps around your upper thighs and bum and you feel some strong pushing and pulling sensations pretty much everywhere! It's enough to make me cum [:)] Plus I know exactly how it feels like from the other side too so that's a turn on...

LaMistressa -> RE: Strap on's (6/27/2007 7:04:55 PM)
Not to mention that if you have a Nexxus II or a Feeldoe in your harness, it feels great for the pegger as well as the peg-ee. I also see it as a power exchange, and a great role reversal if with a guy. But strap-ons are also great with a female submissive - hell, they're just fun!

palemale2000 -> RE: Strap on's (6/27/2007 7:12:07 PM)
If you are male and haven't been done by a woman with a strap-on you really need to try it. First, it feels good, second it educates about how women by physical design are usually submissive, and third it can relax men about bi or gay sex. I've had the pleasure from two different women and while it was my idea orginally, once started they both enjoyed it. I still get it monthly, and she usually gets off each time. I don't even ask anymore, she insists. Currently it is the only sex I get. Having someone position you so they can enter you, or move you so they are more comfortable and can get off on you, is exciting. I have never reached orgasm thru anal sex, but since I was first streached out to accomodate a strap-on it has always been a pleasureable experience.

switchsecrets -> RE: Strap on's (6/27/2007 7:15:46 PM)
i agree with the bonding aspect of it. i've never had the pleasure of a woman doing this to me. but, it would definately put me deeper into submission and feel a special bond with her. ultimately, it would be something that pleases her to do and gives her more power.

malloves69 -> RE: Strap on's (6/27/2007 9:18:11 PM)
love strapon sex [:)] something about seeing a sexy lady wearing a big strapon dangling inbetween her sexy legs i think is very erotic indeed [:)] me and my mistress use her strapons like a fore play thing until she fists me ..first she says hello to my ass with her strapons getting me to relax and open up for her and when she thinks im ready out goes the strapon and in goes her fist [:)] gawd i love when she fists me ..talking about a great way to submit to a lady [:)] yes my mistress is back thank gawd !! and today first she fucked me with her strapons and then she fisted me and yes im still smiling [:)] mals happy once again and yes i was a good boi while she was gone [:)] have fun and yes i will gladly bendover for her anytime she wants to take my ass [:)] mal

EarthGoddess52 -> RE: Strap on's (6/27/2007 9:24:25 PM)
How do you know they're "vanilla" couples?? I'm just curious. I don't generally wear my leathers into Pleasure Chest......or is that a whole new thread?

EarthGoddess52 -> RE: Strap on's (6/27/2007 9:27:16 PM)
I always wondered how something so uniquely male, so phallic, would be utilized by FemDommes. Isn't there another method of asserting Female Power and Dominance??

Misstoyou -> RE: Strap on's (6/27/2007 9:35:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: EarthGoddess52 I always wondered how something so uniquely male, so phallic, would be utilized by FemDommes. Isn't there another method of asserting Female Power and Dominance?? Of course there are plenty of methods to assert "Female Power and Dominance," and not all of us (including myself actually) use strap-ons. But the question was addressed to the women who do, and enjoy it. ** edited for a typo

subitodolce -> RE: Strap on's (6/27/2007 10:36:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: EarthGoddess52 How do you know they're "vanilla" couples?? I'm just curious. I don't generally wear my leathers into Pleasure Chest......or is that a whole new thread? Good question. I don't know that the average person would be able to tell myself and my Dom from any average vanilla couple. Heck, none of our friends can tell the difference, despite the subtle ways I express my submission to him in public. We do have one mutual friend who knows, but I know he is also a submissive, so no harm in him knowing [:)].

ObedientYYC -> RE: Strap on's (6/28/2007 12:11:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressLorelei ... To the OP: Power trip? Not so much as the exchange of power. I love the feeling of expressing myself intimately to a male I have a bond with, in a way that is not shared by the vast majority of society. I also love the idea of a male being taken by a version of 'manhood', while his own 'manhood' rests quietly encased in plastic. Oh my.. is it getting warm in here? whew

MissOchistic -> RE: Strap on's (6/28/2007 1:35:10 PM)
If you had the option to screw like a woman screws, you wouldn't be tempted? And anal don't count, 'cause I can tell you as a woman versed in both, it ain't nothing the same.

BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: Strap on's (6/28/2007 1:49:11 PM)
Because the wish they were a man.....OF courses as always just the opinion of this ol' master.smiles

DianeB269 -> RE: Strap on's (6/28/2007 2:50:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: EarthGoddess52 How do you know they're "vanilla" couples?? I'm just curious. I don't generally wear my leathers into Pleasure Chest......or is that a whole new thread? I've asked some of the couples that were looking at strapons if they were into BDSM. Most said no, they are straight and never tried anything like this before. They also look very uneasy when looking around the store. Diane

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