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RchmdServiceNeed -> RE: writing dirty emails (6/29/2007 1:08:28 AM)
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Do Not write anything about anyone under 18 -- camper or not -- whille he is at camp.
SERIOSULY.
The law on internet use "at work" is clear: They own it and can view it. At camp, you are tecnically "at work" all the time and generally are using camp computers.
I can not even begin to tell you how "not off limits" anything is at camp so don't even.
Asside from getting him in trouble work-wise, it could seriously embarase or disgust him.
I also SERIOSULY Seriosuly doubt if he has chosen to work at a children's camp he would appreciate any type of porn or even suggestion of attraction involving a camper. Any counselor I know [male or female] would be more likely to dump you and be upset than think it hot.
He works at a camp because he respects and likes kids and wants the best for them-- not b/c he wants to jerk off to them.... or think about anyone else jerking off to them either.
As a side note: You need to work on being yourself.
He chose to date/see You for a reason. I bet he misses *you* more than he misses or pines for any other type of porn/story/etc. You don't need to impress him, proove, or convince him to like you-- You just need to show and share yourself with him.
I think writing scenes and things you think about when you masterbate is a great idea because it is sharing yourself. Sharing what you have been up to in the time he has been gone and what you are doing in your life will make you seem interesting and capable rather than clingy and pining away for him all summer [that is generally a weird feeling for people to feel someone else has nothing going on other than them and will generally end in a good dumping]
Clinginess and devotion run a fine, fine line and At 18 it may be hard for a male to find either attractive...
You can also do a simple or a few simple google searches for "erotic stories" "bondage erotic stories" or whatever your kink is, there are stories out there and just say-- hey, I found this and masterbated to it, wanted to give you the same gift! or whatever.
If you can find collarme, by god you can find some freeking stories.....
When "writing a dirty email" it doesn't have to be anything big, you're not writing a novel, just give yourself a break and relax he obviously already likes you. :) A simple "so I saw this car/boat/corner of the mall/girl the other day and thought of you.... I was thinking about us doing ___ arround ___ whille I ____ ." There. dirty email 80% written. ;)
Just: Relax. Be yourself. Share your thoughts/feelings/kinks, that's all he wants, not a novel [he does not have time to read it anyway]
**** AND NO SUGGESTIVE STORIES OR ANYTHING INVOLVING CAMPERS!! ****
EVEN IF NOT FOUND OUT, FOR SOMEONE WORKING AT A CHILDREN'S CAMP IT WOULD BE DISGUSTING.
Beeeee Yourself. Best Wishes. :)
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