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pandoravampire -> RE: Pre-Training (6/13/2005 3:17:16 PM)
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i think the post before this one, says it very well.
But you want tips on how to wow him? like cook book tips on stuff that is hot for him? choose anything you think would pull his chain from below.
1. get something really slutty on put a chair and a beer by his dirty car, ask if he'd mind sitting in it, whilst you wash his car, getting soap sudded up.
2. crawl toward him, head real low, pushing a glass in front of you, careful not to spill the bloody thing before you get there.
3. write to him, of your need. Be explicit, sexual, sensual, emotional, honest, so that it shows all that you are offerring. Be prepared for his response, not the one your fantasising over, it may well be no thankyou. But its best to know.
4. turn up at his, dressed in a submissive manner that he enjoys, hopefully when the dependant ex Domme friend of his is their. And go to town with your submission.
5. Put a dogs choke chain that you can buy at the pet store, once cleaned, insert it till just one end is dangling out by about 3 inches, (looks very story of O) and hand him a lead to clip onto it. Or place the ring on his finger.
6. bathe him, pamper him, massage him, feed him, then curl up and sleep beside him.
7. go look at a old checklist youve completed with his knowledge, ask him to try one of the things, he'd highlighted as a need, but you'd put a limit on for yourself. Show him how much you trust him.
A month is a good amount of time. If he's indicated that he wishes for this time, to put his affairs in order, use this time to do likewise yourself. At the end of the month, it would seem to be decision time for you two. I hope that you gain what it is you need, not necessarily what you want. If he does not commit to you after his imposed time frame, then sadly, you will move on, but have learned from this. Take what you have learned, concentrate on the good things you can take with you forward.
i wish you luck
pandora
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