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I know, I know.... - 6/28/2007 3:18:36 PM   
daddysblondie


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Status: offline 		this has been hashed out time and time and time again. I really just need to vent.

What the heck is up with people?

I've always been honest about the fact that I'm not sttracted to older men. Never have, not sure I see the point in trying to force myself to do so now. If they're the same age as my parents, I'm just not interested. I know some people will have a problem with that. I'm prepared to deal with the backlash of saying it.

Here's where my issue is. I had a "Dom" email me the other day and tell me basically that the only way I could have a DaddyDom was if he was old enough to be my daddy. He then proceeded to call me shallow. Okay, fine. Everyone's entitled to their opinions, regardless of how baseless they are. Whatever, I went on about my business.

So today, I get another email from this person because I read his first email and didn't respond. What the hell?!? He insults me and I DIDN'T respond and that's not good enough so he's going to goad me some more?? Dare I say that his actions make it clear to me that age does not equal maturity? ARGH!
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RE: I know, I know.... - 6/28/2007 3:22:52 PM   
SirMIkeSD


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Status: offline 		Thats what the block button is for!

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RE: I know, I know.... - 6/28/2007 3:27:34 PM   
daddysblondie


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Status: offline 		Well, yeah. I really didn't see a need to block him originally.
It was simply a case of him sending an insulting email and me getting over it. I NEVER expected him to send a second email when I didn't respond.

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RE: I know, I know.... - 6/28/2007 3:34:38 PM   
SirMIkeSD


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Status: offline 		Well if he is stupid enough to send a rude email as inital contact.  I would block him in an instant there is no need to leave yourself open to another from such an asshole.

Mike


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RE: I know, I know.... - 6/28/2007 3:47:07 PM   
mstrjx


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Status: offline 		..... and I see absolutely no value in blocking anyone at any time.

I'm assuming most people are mature enough to see an incoming email from someone they don't wish to have contact with, and delete it.  Or not open it to begin with and let CM remove it after a while.

The best protection against other people playing on your emotions is not to allow them to play with your emotions.  And it's best not to cause any emotional fluctuation with someone you don't wish to anger.

Jeff

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RE: I know, I know.... - 6/28/2007 4:40:03 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		As with anybody, we all hate to feel rejected, especially for something in which we have no control..ie:age,appearance,health issues etc...so more than likely he was taking his frustration over the situation out on probably the latest of rejections for that very reason..and of course it was childish, but also very human. Of course he probably needs to realize also that by pursuing someone much younger and wanting that to happen, he too is rejecting someone for their age..and the circle continues.....Tempting

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RE: I know, I know.... - 6/28/2007 4:40:25 PM   
zumala


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Status: offline 		On occasions like those... when I'm in a smart-ass kind of mood, I like to reply thusly:
 
*yawn*
 
zuma  =^.^=

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RE: I know, I know.... - 6/29/2007 12:00:29 AM   
MissOchistic


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Status: offline 		I don't block someone unless they are flooding my inbox with crap. I usually get too much amusement from their poorly written attempts to convince me to "see the light" (usually concerning their penis) to want to damn the source.

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RE: I know, I know.... - 6/29/2007 12:58:02 AM   
Pilgrimii


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Status: offline 		don't worry too much about pricks like him, unfortunately many areas of life are tainted by thicko's  not least those areas relative to sex and relationships.....have a little smile....move on and hopefully he won't be the level at which all of us Daddydom's are judged and measured
Pilgrimii

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RE: I know, I know.... - 6/29/2007 1:36:04 AM   
Domspaintoy


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Status: offline 		Hi daddysblondie

my advice for what its worth is just to ignore the tosspot, as you said age does not equal maturity, sounds like he annoyed because you wont 'bend to His will'!! The worlds full of idiots he is just another to add to the list.

Block him!

Dpt.


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RE: I know, I know.... - 6/29/2007 4:28:51 AM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		Another sign of maturity is not throwing a tantrum every time something darkens your inbox.

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RE: I know, I know.... - 6/29/2007 5:26:20 AM   
Tatshua


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Status: offline 		Yeah, I hate when people think they are the only ones who could possibly live a good lifestyle. I usualy ignore people who just send me a mail/message just to ask if I want to have sex with a guy I've never met before. Sometimes I send a polite response and hope they go away.

Though, once I met someone who was so shallow I though he deserved a little punishment. So I pretended to be in the middle of a sex change, and I think he is, this far, the only thing to dissapere from msn faster than light.

So, therefor, I ignore people who thinks with their penis.

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RE: I know, I know.... - 6/29/2007 6:29:30 AM   
MstrssPassion


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quote:

ORIGINAL: daddysblondie

Well, yeah. I really didn't see a need to block him originally.
It was simply a case of him sending an insulting email and me getting over it. I NEVER expected him to send a second email when I didn't respond.


Take this as a lesson... if you don't want to hear from someone again, block them. Don't look at it as being rude & don't be afraid to use it. Block is a tool. It is a simple tool that allows you to control the content & volume of your mail. If they get their panties/boxers in a twist because they can't reply, so be it. You have at least prevented them the ability to get yours all bunched up.


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RE: I know, I know.... - 6/29/2007 7:05:59 AM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		I have been known to ask them if they speak to their mothers in that way? How would their mother respond if she knew he was talking to a strange woman in that rude a manner? I suggest he tells her everything and follows her advice.

Oddly enough, they have never come back to thank me for sending them home for a refresher class in manners.

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RE: I know, I know.... - 6/29/2007 7:32:52 AM   
slaveish


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mstrjx

..... and I see absolutely no value in blocking anyone at any time.



Agreed completely. ~polite nod~ In such circumstances, they get bored if one ignores them. No need feeding their ravenous appetites for reaction.

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If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other. ~~Mother Teresa

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RE: I know, I know.... - 6/29/2007 7:35:31 AM   
cjenny


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Status: offline 		I've never blocked anyone, and honestly I don't see why anyone would. Tis easy enough to skip a post if you don't care for the person posting.
I must admit that there is one person that tempts me to blocking simply because she has absolutely nothing positive to add anywhere. I won't do it but I occasionally think about it with that one individual. Eeep that makes me feel icky inside though.

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RE: I know, I know.... - 6/29/2007 8:12:27 AM   
swtnsparkling


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Status: offline 		I don't block on the other side- I rarely get any mail, a few a year maybe lol
as for on the boards, there is only 1  I have ever blocked- because his posts were so long with so many , , ,   ,,    ,, ,
and things that just did not make any sense to me. I found blocking his posts just made it so much easier to read and enjoy the boards

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RE: I know, I know.... - 6/29/2007 8:17:02 AM   
cjenny


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Status: offline 		I guess I feel that blocking someone means that there is a lack inside of me. That I should be tolerant or understanding of everyone and their situation because I usually am.
I like my strong sense of empathy, it is a huge part of me. Blocking someone means that I can't tolerate them or see where they are coming from.
Mail I don't bother blocking at all, I just read then delete.

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RE: I know, I know.... - 6/29/2007 9:18:11 AM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		If you do respond, you could ask him how he plans on controlling someone else when he clearly can't behave himself more maturely than a middle-schooler.

Otherwise, just block him.

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RE: I know, I know.... - 6/29/2007 9:22:01 AM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: cjenny

I guess I feel that blocking someone means that there is a lack inside of me. That I should be tolerant or understanding of everyone and their situation because I usually am.
I like my strong sense of empathy, it is a huge part of me. Blocking someone means that I can't tolerate them or see where they are coming from.
Mail I don't bother blocking at all, I just read then delete.


Jenny, I really do admire where you are trying to come from... but some people just aren't worth reading. The people who mail me trying to convince me to leave Valyraen, that he isn't a man, blah blah blah... the sort of people who randomly e-mail someone to insult them... just not worth reading.

Besides, you can block someone from sending you messages and still read them on the boards.

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Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

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