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Bed Time - 6/29/2007 3:40:15 AM

alittlebent

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i am interested in knowing what bed time rituals, if any, that are required of you. Do you have a specific time? Do you have a special garment or device to wear? Are you restrained? Are you allowed to sleep with your Dominant or close by?....Etc. This is not gender specific, but i would appreciate hearing from the male subs in particular.

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RE: Bed Time - 6/29/2007 3:49:57 AM

sleazybutterfly

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I sleep with my Master, and I go to bed almost everynight when he does. This rule was made when I didn't work, now I get up earlier than him, so I am the first to call it a night. If I couldn't sleep, he would let me stay up later if I liked once in a while.

I sleep with him every night, we wouldn't have it any other way. I don't have anything specific I am required to wear, or to do. The only thing is that if he wants sex/bj, I have to do it whether I am in the mood or not (I almost always am).

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RE: Bed Time - 6/29/2007 5:58:24 AM

Littlepita

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We go to bed at the same time. The first thing we do is I stand still as he removes my collar and kisses my neck. It's a special moment that we share every night, and again every morning when he puts the collar back on. After that he watches me as I get naked and dive under the covers. He gets in bed and I snuggle up to his left side, throw a leg over his, reach down with my right hand and hold his cock, and with the left hand caress his face or chest. We kiss and talk a little and go to sleep.

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RE: Bed Time - 6/29/2007 6:48:33 AM

sambamanslilgirl

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my work hours vary from concert to concert so my bedtime could be early or extremely late. our nightly rituals involve chatting about His day at the office and/or things we planned to do during the weekend. He makes sure i'm caught up in my reviews and i keep my concert schedule. i'm allowed to sleep in a night gown and/or nude however i must wear a collar, ankle chains and wrist chain to bed. if i'm coming home late from work - i have to note Him that i'm home ...like any real father, Daddy does worry about me working late at night

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RE: Bed Time - 6/29/2007 7:23:51 AM

slaveluci

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quote:

ORIGINAL: alittlebent
i am interested in knowing what bed time rituals, if any, that are required of you. Do you have a specific time? Do you have a special garment or device to wear? Are you restrained? Are you allowed to sleep with your Dominant or close by?....Etc. This is not gender specific, but i would appreciate hearing from the male subs in particular.

I always sleep cuddled up to Master and I am always completely nude and wearing my collar and ankle cuffs. My right cuff is chained to the bottom corner of the bedframe via a heavy-duty chain. I go to bed when He does though I don't always have to. I just don't like the idea of Him lying in there all alone without me

. He has no problem with me staying up later, however. I have a time or two and then, when I come to bed, He wakes up and chains my ankle. More often though, I curl up beside Him and He permits me to have the lamp on my side of the bed on so I can read until I get sleepy.....slave luci

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RE: Bed Time - 6/29/2007 7:35:36 AM

LuckyAlbatross

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Snuggling, getting into "sleeping position" and a tap for a kiss.

It's not an enforced ritual, but it's something that grew between us and we enjoy.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_721438/mpage_1/key_bed%252Critual/tm.htm#721564
bedtime rituals

http://www.collarchat.com/m_769257/mpage_1/key_bed%252Critual/tm.htm#769371
daily rituals

http://www.collarchat.com/m_579363/mpage_1/key_ritual/tm.htm#579537
Rituals and protocols, which ones do you use?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_512995/mpage_1/key_ritual/tm.htm#513015
Daily Routines

http://www.collarchat.com/m_307839/mpage_1/key_daily%252Croutine/tm.htm#307839
Structure

http://www.collarchat.com/m_99518/mpage_1/key_daily%252Croutine/tm.htm#99518
day to day in the lifestyle

http://www.collarchat.com/m_83995/mpage_1/key_daily%252Croutine/tm.htm#83995
Need help...consistency problems

http://www.collarchat.com/m_45593/mpage_1/key_daily%252Croutine/tm.htm#45593
routine

http://www.collarchat.com/m_504581/mpage_1/key_rituals/tm.htm#504854
Rituals...

http://www.collarchat.com/m_229409/mpage_1/key_ritual/tm.htm#229409
Purpose of ritual and types

http://www.collarchat.com/m_234894/mpage_1/key_ritual/tm.htm#234894
Ritual in anticipation of time together

http://www.collarchat.com/m_242681/mpage_1/key_ritual/tm.htm#242681
rituals, your favorite and why?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_110/mpage_1/key_rituals/tm.htm#110
rituals

http://www.collarchat.com/m_7380/mpage_1/key_rituals/tm.htm#7380
protocols

http://www.collarchat.com/m_48910/mpage_1/key_rituals/tm.htm#48910
special rituals please?!

http://www.collarchat.com/m_97744/mpage_1/key_rituals/tm.htm#97744
rituals (2)

http://www.collarchat.com/m_296210/mpage_1/key_rituals/tm.htm#296210
favorite rituals

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RE: Bed Time - 6/29/2007 9:01:20 AM

amiciaN

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Since NChaka and I are long distsance for now, I don't normally get to sleep with Him or even at the same hours. I will also stay up half the night if I get involved in something, including chatting online. Therefore, I have to stop chatting by midnight and go to bed by one. If I can't sleep for some reason, I can get up after about half an hour of trying and read or play a pc game for a while then try again. I also email Him almost every night, though it isn't required.
He will be here in 12 days and I will get sleep with Him while He is here.

NChaka's amicia, who is looking forward to going bananas when He gets here.

I have never been lifted so high as when I kneel at His feet.

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RE: Bed Time - 6/30/2007 2:53:00 AM

mitda

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I am bound (hands and feet) every night and my wrists are locked together (such a complicated system). I usually fall asleep before Master does, so He wakes me up to get into my ropes, as it were.
Of course, W/we sleep naked, Master in between emmie (cohort, second slave) and i. (another complicated system.)

-mitda

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RE: Bed Time - 6/30/2007 12:22:54 PM

MagiksSlave

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Me and Master dont live together, we live close enough to see eachother a few times a week. I dont often stay the night becuase its a rather short ride for me to drive home and be snuggly in my own bed. Master only has a twin bed so it isnt big enough for both of us to sleep in so i get the fold up bed a few feet away from him. But mostly when Im home my bedtime ritual is usualy a phone call with Master right befor bed (usualy lasting 1-2 hours) if I dont have school or work the next day i dont have a time I have to be to sleep but if I do I have to be in bed eyes closed trying to sleep 8 hours and 15 minuts befor I have to be awake (the 15 minuts because Master says it takes about 15 minuts to fall asleep) There is prolly more that I cant think of at the moment!!

Magik's slave

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RE: Bed Time - 6/30/2007 12:40:40 PM

goodpet

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i usually ask permission to get ready for bed. i do the general personal needs things, then lay out his clothes, make sure his work items are ready to go, fill his tea glass one more time and then tell him i am ready for bed. He will either tell me OK, and i lay on my mat on his side of the bed, or he will tell me to crawl into his bed. if Sir gets too hot between lorrie (roommate with benefits) and i, i get kicked out back onto my mat. it is cold out i get pushed down to the foot of the bed to warm his feet.

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RE: Bed Time - 7/5/2007 7:27:49 AM

MHOO314

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Chains, at times in bed, at times on a mattress on the floor--if he snores NEVER in the same room--I have chains on all 4 legs of the bed----and I prefer collar and leash---naked of course--

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RE: Bed Time - 7/5/2007 9:49:47 AM

slaveofKaos

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I go to bed when Master does although sometimes he allows me to stay up later. I sleep in bed with him and i'm always nude when we sleep. Before getting in to bed I have to read my list of rules then ask permission to crawl in.

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RE: Bed Time - 7/5/2007 10:13:50 AM

pleasureforck

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Since this is long distance we can't sleep together often but we have a nightly routine. If he is working then we text each other goodnight. Nights he is home he calls me and we talk a couple hours before I go to sleep. I can't get to sleep without a goodnight from him. Already hard enough being apart.

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RE: Bed Time - 7/5/2007 10:27:58 AM

LadyPact

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In those times when I have had male submissives who didn't live with Me, We have always had some sort of ritual about bedtime. One in particular had a very specific time to say good-night and go to bed. If he wanted to stay up later, he did have to ask permission to do so, and include why he wasn't ready to go to sleep yet. I would listen to his reason, and if it was a valid one, such as working on a certain task or assignment, he would be allowed the time to stay up past midnight. In his case, it was to make sure he would get enough rest, because otherwise, he would want to stay up and not get enough sleep.

Funny thing this was mentioned, because I was just saying on another board how I have gotten into the habit again of telling certain submissive friends that I send them a kiss on their forehead in wishing them sweet dreams. I'm almost certain coming back to this habit is from the period when I had the submissive who I enforced a bedtime.

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RE: Bed Time - 7/5/2007 12:49:43 PM

jauntyone

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Greetings

Master and I have no rituals at bedtime per se other than those that we would normally do. In regards to sleeping arrangements though; if Master is home, I sleep where he tells me to sleep; sometimes on the floor, on the couch; sometimes on the bed. When Master is gone, I always sleep on the floor or on the couch.

I wish you well

melissa

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RE: Bed Time - 7/7/2007 1:38:29 AM

alittlebent

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Thank you all for your input......it is intersting to know the requirements of other's relationships and what some Dominants expect.

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RE: Bed Time - 7/7/2007 8:16:16 AM

lonlyrossInNeed

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am not posative on why but i have always felt safe when my Owner would give me a bed time i miss it and hope to find it agen

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