littlespike
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Joined: 5/21/2005 From: Austin Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: nonuts4thshoney I started a relationship with my girlfriend 7 monthes ago. She decided to surprise me with some rope and a flogger for a little kinky play. I had never been tied up or flogged. The first time I was flogged I became extremely aroused and wanted more. When she had tied me up and flogged me I was slightly nervous not knowing when and how hard she would flog me or what she would do next. But this aroused me even more. Since then She has flogged me a small handful of times. Recently we went to gay pride and there was a leather tent that demonstrated some flogging techniques. I was sooo fascinated by this. When we got home the following day she whipped out the flogger and tried some new techniques. This experience was different because This was different because sex would not follow. It was just so that I could be pleased. She started slow with softer hits then gradually worked up to harder blows. I like thud and sting. And the harder she hit me the better it felt. I felt each hit go right through my body and it felt wonderful. When I had reached my limit she softly ran the tail along my spine and then ran some cold water down my back. This was the first time that I was in tears. It was such an amazing experience and look forward to it again. It has now been three weeks since my last flogging and I seem to crave it more everyday. My girlfriend has never praticed this with anyone else before. So we are both new to this. It is getting to the point where I really want to pratice this more often. It's almost like I am addicted to it. I need it. But I dont want to seem like a freak. LOL! She likes to do this when she is in the right mood. And when she is, it turns her on extemely. How do I tell her that I'd like her to please me more often without sounding needy? LOL! i think that flogging is cool.... i like flogging, although single tail is another story. Communication and trust are important areas of a relationship. So maybe if you had a heart to heart with your significant other about this subject something could be worked up. Perhaps bi-weekly flogging sessions. Although being aware of the mood factor is important. If she does not feel like it, remember to respect her feelings. Respectfully Little spike
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