RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion



Message


HalloweenWhite -> RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? (7/1/2007 8:31:57 AM)

Tall women, broad shouldered women, women with long dark hair, women with very short blond hair, tattoos, piercings, and unusual hair styles-different colours, that kind of thing.




Lucylastic -> RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? (7/1/2007 8:34:06 AM)

Physical turn ons:  cute tush with dimples that deepen when the butt is clenched, brown eyes, men in kilts, male armpits with soft hair that smell goood, a deep voice filled with passion
Mental turn ons: people that can laugh at themselves, sharp wit, sensuality, compassion, Im sure there is more but I think I need a private moment
Lucy
edited to add........After reading darks posts, I have to agree with humility.....not to be confused with humiliation
mmmmmmmmm and cocks. :)
Now I defnitely need a private moment




GhitaAmati -> RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? (7/1/2007 8:40:29 AM)

quote:

Why doesn't anyone ever mention good cock?  Breasts - sure... butt... yum... but cock?  It's like it's a bad word..


probably because for the most part...it isnt one of those things we see right off the bat....I mean, I can notice a nice butt in a pair of tight jeans, or tits peeking out of a tank top while im sitting in a bar....but except for a very few bars, I dont normally get to determine my first impression of a guy by what his cock looks like. (although it would definantly make things easier)




LeMis -> RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? (7/1/2007 8:44:47 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: cuddleheart50

No fake DD's here. [;)]


or here either, hehe  [:D]

quote:

ORIGINAL: cuddleheart50
My biggest turn on is confidence!


I have to admit that self confidence (not to be mistaken with arrogance) is a big turn on as well as a nice butt, yummm

a good sense of humor, a kind, patient, thoughtful person with manners who can spell well.... mmmmm

geeky, nerdy people and DIY'ers, *whew*  is it getting hot in here or what?  [;)]




RCdc -> RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? (7/1/2007 8:51:34 AM)

It would make it easier huh?[:)]  However, I didn't think the thread was just about first impression turn ons so my mistake.
On the breast frontage (no pun really) I have to say, I am turned off by false breasts - regardless of size - but a natural bosom is lovely.  Same goes for chest area on a man - I like a natural chest, not an excessively pumped up one.
 
Peace
the.dark.




KnightofMists -> RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? (7/1/2007 8:54:06 AM)

my biggest turn ons are Kyra and Alandra... it really is that simple....

After that to lesser degree is so many of the wonderful women I have become friends with. *w*

and then will there is all the wonderful women that I haven't become friends with... but want to *w*




GhitaAmati -> RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? (7/1/2007 8:54:50 AM)

quote:

However, I didn't think the thread was just about first impression turn ons so my mistake.



It isnt! so no worried, I just meant that its what most people probably think of first, so thats why you dont see "nice cock" listed as often..as say.....nice guns




boy46 -> RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? (7/1/2007 8:57:31 AM)

Being pulled from my leash to a Lady´s bed.
:)




RCdc -> RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? (7/1/2007 8:59:23 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GhitaAmati

quote:

However, I didn't think the thread was just about first impression turn ons so my mistake.



It isnt! so no worried, I just meant that its what most people probably think of first, so thats why you dont see "nice cock" listed as often..as say.....nice guns


Well, dayrum - shoot me now - guns turn me off... [;)] now show me a man who can use a knife or a razor well...
 
the.dark.




switchsecrets -> RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? (7/1/2007 9:02:27 AM)

Physical turnons:  eyes that pierce your soul, sexy lips and nice ass. followed by a sexy pussy. a camel toe really gets me hot!

Mental turnons: either totally submissive or a totally  Dominant Bitch whose commands make me melt. also women who appreciate a nice ass and cock and love to use the words.




GhitaAmati -> RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? (7/1/2007 9:03:05 AM)

lol..i was referring to a man's upper arms...although i am an avid gun enthusist




thetammyjo -> RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? (7/1/2007 9:05:43 AM)

My turn ons include:

Collars
Short hair on the head
No or very little body hair
Expressive eyes
Soft voice -- not squeaky, not rough, loud enough to hear
Blond or red/auburn hair
Smiles
Blushing
Liberal social and political ideas
Intellectual discussions
Geeky discussions (of some types, not computers or science)
Kneeling
A pleading "please"

etc




RCdc -> RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? (7/1/2007 9:34:33 AM)

Yikes - well I'm a Brit... dunno all these new fangled terms... but upper arms... yeah... I agree.  Music is a big turn on for me, and as Darcy plays bass, his arms rock! (Actually He has all the elements I have mentioned... guess that's a given hey[;)])
 
Peace
the.dark.




AquaticSub -> RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? (7/1/2007 9:43:34 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GhitaAmati

After being compleatly bummed out by the turn off thread, and noticing that alot of others were also, I thought I'd create a spin off. So, lets stop concentrating on the negative and think about the positive. Be truthful, I think alot of people out there don't realize that something they might think of as a flaw might actually be a turnon to someone!



Personally, I don't see how it's concentrating on the negative since an important part of keeping someone aroused is knowing how to not turn them off. Finding out common turn-offs is just as important to the arousal skills as finding out common turn-ons.

But.. you ask so here...

Vampires. Vampires. Vampires. Vampires.

Appearences don't actually do much for me either way. I prefer thin or muscley, but I don't care all that much. I've dated men who weigh 160 and I've dated men who weigh over 300, and that was when I weighed 120. It's all about personality. And sharp teeth.




Valyraen -> RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? (7/1/2007 9:47:13 AM)

I'm probably an anomaly here (like I am most places, so I've lost my reserve of shyness about it), but I don't put physical features so high on my list of priorities. Yes, I can look at a woman and find her attractive, but it doesn't really turn me on. It's just flesh, after all. *shrug*

What really does it for me? All of the intangibles, all of the things that you can't see. Personality, compassion, spark and fire, intelligence... I've dated former models that don't turn me on in the slightest (now, not at the time I was dating them), and I'm now with Aqua, who can get me hard without even thinking about it, sometimes. If beauty's in the eye of the beholder, my vision gets gradually more rose-colored the more I find I like about someone.




aidan -> RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? (7/1/2007 10:11:59 AM)

Physical things:
Red hair
Black hair
Green/Blue/Purple/Weird hair
Long, flowing hair
Short, crisp, pixie-like hair
Buff, athletic women
Curvy women
Tall women (this is a big one, but hard at almost 5' 11")
Green eyes
A low, sultry voice
Glasses

Personality/social things:
Somebody who laughs easily
A silly, quirky sense of humor
A dry, dark sense of humor (the two are not mutually exclusive)
Nerdiness/geekiness (If you know the HD for a Lvl.10 Vampire Ranger, I'll swoon)
Intellecualism (...And if you can talk about the historical and philosophical roots of the vampire myth, I'll ask you to marry me)
A compassionate nature
Flexible intellect (Are you open to new concepts, ideaologies, philosophies? Is the gaining of knowledge and wisdom important? Can your opinions change or become flexible with new evidence?)
Decisiveness (especially in conversation)
A slightly scary, evil-looking smile
Ecclectic fashion sense
Strong physical presence




NoirUMC -> RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? (7/1/2007 10:24:17 AM)

Commas, apostrophes, and periods, all in the right places. People who know what an Oxford comma is--and use it. People who hate AP style. People who can season their punctuation and formatting with intelligent conversation. ;)

Any woman who can understand why my jeep has a name (and remember it).

Any woman who doesn't mind falling in love with Jekyll and Hyde at the same time.

Edited for reality: I should say put up with Jekyll and Hyde.




slaveish -> RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? (7/1/2007 10:29:45 AM)

Seeks - ~laughing~ Yeah, I hear ya on the DD longs. Gravity is a bitch.

Turn ons for me. Humor humor humor, intelligence, gray hair, kissing, that indescribable attitude of utter solidity in control, laughter, hairy chest / belly, masculinity.




GhitaAmati -> RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? (7/1/2007 10:31:01 AM)

quote:

Any woman who can understand why my jeep has a name


Nothing wrong with a Jeep having a name, mine's named Nerby (first three letters of the license plate are NRB)




MercTech -> RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? (7/1/2007 10:39:58 AM)

  Hey, GhitaAmati, ever run across Baroness Morchaitaigh from Darkwater?  I can't forget her take on turn-ons, "After I turned 40, I found that competance is very very sexy.  And competance at something I'm interested in too make for wet spots."  .... I have called her a "Domme without portfolio" as she doesn't scene but always has a bevy of young boys around she dominates.

For the old fart here, the physical side still gets my attention.  Things like red hair, grass green eyes, or taller than 5'9" will get a sudden head snapping focus.  But, it is what is between the ears that will call for more than a mental snapshot.  A person able to carry on an intelligent conversation about shared interests will get a lot of very  focused undivided attention on my part.

And, I do agree with the Baroness, competance is very sexy.

Stefan




Page: <<   < prev  1 [2] 3 4 5   next >   >>

Valid CSS!




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy
0.046875