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What are your biggest turn ONs?? - 7/1/2007 6:48:17 AM

GhitaAmati

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After being compleatly bummed out by the turn off thread, and noticing that alot of others were also, I thought I'd create a spin off. So, lets stop concentrating on the negative and think about the positive. Be truthful, I think alot of people out there don't realize that something they might think of as a flaw might actually be a turnon to someone!

For example....I absolutly love a bald man, and on girls, I actually prefer smaller brests...I hear all these chicks worrying that there tits are big enough. I personally prefer smaller breasts, although bigger ones are fine too...

~~~~edited cause I was offending people apparently, not intentional~~~~

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RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? - 7/1/2007 6:55:55 AM

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But when you say things like "obviously fake DD", aren't you being negative? I'm not trying to be an ass, I'm just saying.....

Anyway. Turn ons...... it can be so many things. A smile, twinkle in her eyes, a soft voice, trim ankles, a cute butt, a great sense of humor, intelligence, kindness....

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RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? - 7/1/2007 6:58:26 AM

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I find alot of bald men to be sexy as hell too. On women, usually dark hair works for me, tho I have been known to like blonds once in a while. boob size overall doesn't matter to me, though I like ones that I can yank. ;) certain southern accents will get me going. When I 1st started out (when I considered myself a sub.) there was a guy from Georgia that I talked to. Umm even just thinking of his voice makes me wet.

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RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? - 7/1/2007 6:58:42 AM

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No fake DD's here.

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RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? - 7/1/2007 7:02:22 AM

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sorry...didnt mean to say i didnt like them...actually...kinda like all tits...I just meant you dont have to go out and have surgery to make yourself beautiful

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RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? - 7/1/2007 7:02:57 AM

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i have been amazed at some men that turn me on......i just dont know it til i see it.....

and i call mine dd longssssssssssssssss

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RE: What are your biggest turn Ons?? - 7/1/2007 7:07:07 AM

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Long legs,having the "smarts" is good..What really flips my switch is long flowing hair and a wicked smile...OF course when you reach my age any thing is a turn on...smiles

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RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? - 7/1/2007 7:09:33 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: GhitaAmati

sorry...didnt mean to say i didnt like them...actually...kinda like all tits...I just meant you dont have to go out and have surgery to make yourself beautiful

No need to say you are sorry, was just being my silly goofy self.

My biggest turn on is confidence!

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RE: What are your biggest turn Ons?? - 7/1/2007 7:12:59 AM

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Physical attributes, dark hair with grey on the sides, hazel eyes you can get lost in, Intellect is a major turn on, a great sence of humor sharply dressed,a good pain slut ...hmmmm sounds like My subby....YUMMY

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RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? - 7/1/2007 7:15:21 AM

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quote:

My biggest turn on is confidence!

see...im the same way....I could care less what you look like but if you walk into a room like you know yer all that and a bag of chips..now thats sexy to me

(oh, and people who type better than me...)

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RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? - 7/1/2007 7:16:57 AM

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Like I said in my profile, I have a "thing" for black hair, and retro/goth fetish. I think it was growing up, secretly reading my dad's pinup magazines that featured Bettie Page. The whole retro fetish look just makes my heart melt, and other parts solidify: black seamed stockings, high heel pumps, corsets, elbow length gloves... (sigh) Those are the visual cues...
The things that turn me on in their behavior, or that turn me on about a specific person... their sense of humor, for one. If they can sing or play a musical insturment I'm in awe of them. Artists, people who create something new in the world, attract me like a moth to a bonfire.
I don't really have much of an opinion about the tits issue... I think all people's bodies are fun to play with. As far as the "fake" comment goes... Disneyland is fake too, but you don't see people having a difficult time enjoying themselves there. Besides, if it were possible for guys to have plastic surgery on their cocks, and increase the size and attractivness of them, I think the lines at the medical center would look like the first day of a Star Wars film. Insulting someone because they went under the knife, and took a major risk to their health, to help them feel more attractive and boost their self esteem is hardly something I'd make a negative comment about.

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RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? - 7/1/2007 7:22:12 AM

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Turn-ons...sharp wit, sense of humor in general, intelligence.. physically speaking..strong hands..eyes..that grin that says "I know what you're thinking girl, and you'd better get it out of your head" -laughs-. Any number of things on both fronts, I guess, considering in another thread I admitted I'd love to do Letterman..lol...

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RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? - 7/1/2007 7:23:36 AM

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Hmm...I think bald men are very sexy. Ami James, anyone? And also, Very manly men. Tough, strong men with an iron look in their eyes.

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RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? - 7/1/2007 7:24:27 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: bipolarber

Besides, if it were possible for guys to have plastic surgery on their cocks, and increase the size and attractivness of them, I think the lines at the medical center would look like the first day of a Star Wars film.

Believe or not, it is possible now, just cost prohibitive for most, I think.....

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RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? - 7/1/2007 7:26:43 AM

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Ami.............................oh yeah, he makes me wet. I'd do damn near anything for him.

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RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? - 7/1/2007 7:29:50 AM

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*gets disctracted thinking of Ami and wanders off*

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RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? - 7/1/2007 7:31:43 AM

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Insulting someone because they went under the knife, and took a major risk to their health, to help them feel more attractive and boost their self esteem is hardly something I'd make a negative comment about.

sigh...I wonder sometimes if I shouldnt say anything at all....

I wasnt trying to be negative, and I tried once to go back and fix the meaning behind my comment. The thread was about what turns us on..personally..im not saying anyone is wrong for their choices, and if they have found something that makes themselves happy, then I am all for that and congratulations for being braver than I am...as a turn on, to me, surgery isnt needed...thats all im saying. Didnt say having it was a turn OFF, just that not having it is just as OK to me. sometimes I hate online communication....

If I offended anyone out there I apologize...it was not my intent.

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RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? - 7/1/2007 7:41:59 AM

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oops, I forgot....a really nice butt is a great turn on!!!

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RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? - 7/1/2007 8:06:42 AM

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ORIGINAL: GhitaAmati

quote:

Insulting someone because they went under the knife, and took a major risk to their health, to help them feel more attractive and boost their self esteem is hardly something I'd make a negative comment about.

sigh...I wonder sometimes if I shouldnt say anything at all....

I wasnt trying to be negative, and I tried once to go back and fix the meaning behind my comment. The thread was about what turns us on..personally..im not saying anyone is wrong for their choices, and if they have found something that makes themselves happy, then I am all for that and congratulations for being braver than I am...as a turn on, to me, surgery isnt needed...thats all im saying. Didnt say having it was a turn OFF, just that not having it is just as OK to me. sometimes I hate online communication....

If I offended anyone out there I apologize...it was not my intent.

You're doing fine

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RE: What are your biggest turn ONs?? - 7/1/2007 8:20:56 AM

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Hello Ghita

I didn't see the 'original' piece of your thread - however - I wouldn't worry, there are people that will pull your words apart regardless of what you meant to say - even when you explain it 101 times.
You are doing just fine. And thats words coming from a DD cup -

Anyway - on topic - biggest turn ons. A person who speaks their mind. Huge Ego, tempered with humility. Talent. Compassion. Someone who can dance. Someone who is passionate about what they believe. And at the risk of sounding coarse - (but people are mentioning breasts here so what the hell) - good cock. Why doesn't anyone ever mention good cock? Breasts - sure... butt... yum... but cock? It's like it's a bad word...

Peace
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