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theslavechris -> Missing my Master (7/1/2007 2:06:55 PM)
i'm told that i have to maintain. It's difficult. i spend a lot of time apart from my Master. Any suggestions? sometimes i get really down. please help! Thank you! christine

Rover -> RE: Missing my Master (7/1/2007 2:13:14 PM)
I presume that you're in a long distance relationship, and will reply accordingly... Sometimes it helps to imagine that he's there with you, to your side, just out of your line of vision, watching over you. John

beltainefaerie -> RE: Missing my Master (7/1/2007 2:18:28 PM)
What a sweet idea, Rover. I have to be apart from my Master for this month while i do some job training. I think that may help quite a bit.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Missing my Master (7/1/2007 2:19:32 PM)
http://www.collarchat.com/m_688989/mpage_3/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#689642 LDRs and you http://www.collarchat.com/m_555442/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#555476 How do you cope? http://www.collarchat.com/m_399208/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#399230 Long distance relationships...how do you all make them work and overcome the obstacles that arise? http://www.collarchat.com/m_358232/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#358330 When the Master is away http://www.collarchat.com/m_243191/mpage_2/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#243396 Online or Distance relationships http://www.collarchat.com/m_5502/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#207957 Long Distance Relationships http://www.collarchat.com/m_214831/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#214831 Long distance d/s http://www.collarchat.com/m_210165/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#210165 Pleasing my master long distance http://www.collarchat.com/m_131170/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#131170 In Between Visits http://www.collarchat.com/m_124826/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#124826 LDR and sickness or death http://www.collarchat.com/m_89834/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#89834 Long distance punishment ideas http://www.collarchat.com/m_22973/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#22973 Long Distance Relationship (2) http://www.collarchat.com/m_5502/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#5502 Long Distance Relationships (2) http://www.collarchat.com/m_3521/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#3521 Long Distance http://www.collarchat.com/m_272610/mpage_1/key_LDR/tm.htm#272610 LDR D/s ideas http://www.collarchat.com/m_108560/mpage_1/key_LDR/tm.htm#108560 Long Distance Relationships????

theslavechris -> RE: Missing my Master (7/1/2007 2:25:56 PM)
i am a seconary relationship. he lives an hour from me and with his job we are apart a lot. thank you so much for your suggestion! i try to write to him a lot. i'm a communication whore. i need to be in touch. last month Master tattooed me and that helped a lot. i just feel so down sometimes and think that i'm alone. Thank you very much for your reply. christine

theslavechris -> RE: Missing my Master (7/1/2007 2:27:03 PM)
Thank you, LuckyAlbatross! i will check them all out. i really appreciate it! christine

Rover -> RE: Missing my Master (7/1/2007 3:47:35 PM)
I travel a fair bit, so I've had to manage with some of the same issues over the years. When I'm away, I've also found it helpful to call with a daily message (such as "Master misses you") which she'll write on a piece of masking tape and place in her shoe, or panties. You'll be able to feel that tape throughout the day, and be reminded of the message. It can help to feel a bit "closer". John

theslavechris -> RE: Missing my Master (7/1/2007 6:12:19 PM)
What an awesome suggestion! i thank YOU so much! christine

skaterboy -> RE: Missing my Master (7/1/2007 6:24:34 PM)
I miss him too, and I don't even know him....which tells me he is an awesome Master. chill! which has such a broad meaning, but you know what I mean..don't you? Sir KC

skaterboy -> RE: Missing my Master (7/1/2007 7:40:48 PM)
Didn't mean to be cold and I do know what you mean. I'm really sorry that your Master is not holding you now. Please forgive me for trying to be funny, as I do sympathize with you. Sir KC (Kevin Clark)

cadavera -> RE: Missing my Master (7/1/2007 9:30:57 PM)
i am in a ldr with my One too, i find that by talking to Him before i retire for the night, that i can slumber with His warm voice still in my ear, and i also post Him every morning beofre i go to work tolet Him know that i am always thinking of Him

subitodolce -> RE: Missing my Master (7/2/2007 3:48:21 AM)
Cell phone plans with free nights/weekends make it bearable for me. We'll occasionally have a nice chat during the day via phone, but with the both of us working slightly different schedules, our paths really don't cross until after 9:00. After that time, we can talk until we both get too tired to stay up any later, and then we don't have to worry about either of us racking up a huge phone bill. Emailing is nice...but hearing his voice is so much nicer.

heavenleigh -> RE: Missing my Master (7/2/2007 3:57:35 AM)
Master and I were apart for nearly a year while he was deployed. All of our contact was online, via IM or email, with only 2 telephone calls the entire time. It's hard. Write a LOT. Master liked it when he found 5, 10, or even more emails from me daily. Anytime something came up, no matter how insignificant, if it was something that I would share with him if he were in the next room, I would put into an email. Some of them were one-liners, things like 'I just burned the roast, I'm ordering a pizza now.' (okay, I never actually sent that, I prefer chinese takeout to pizza!) Keep a journal, an online blog, something. You can write daily or almost daily, and he can read at his leisure. Ask him for assignments. Researching topics, writing stories or essays for his amusement, Master used to send me self-bondage assignments and make me report back to him, in detail, what I did to follow his instructions and how it made me feel. Don't know if your relationships, with your Master and with others would allow, but Master would even get in touch via email with other Doms we know, and ask them to pay me a visit, and give them a list of things to do to me, with instructions to bring a camera so he could see how things went. We called it 'Domming by remote'.

cadavera -> RE: Missing my Master (7/2/2007 4:58:35 AM)
ACHERONSflame

theslavechris -> RE: Missing my Master (7/2/2007 12:09:35 PM)
OMG! YOU are so right! i do know what you mean! That's exactly what He would say. Thank you so much Sir KC! i think that's great advice!!

theslavechris -> RE: Missing my Master (7/2/2007 12:13:10 PM)
Thank you, heavenleigh! i write to Master a lot! it does help. Thanks so much for sharing with me.

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