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RE: New sub problem finding Mistress - 6/20/2005 6:42:58 AM

MstrssPassion

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Replying to these types will often produce more senseless BS as a retort. Ignore or block is my policy.

I really do not have the luxury of time to respond to undesired contacts & typically they are just seeking out immediate gratification, ignore them & that individual will go away.

Of course there are many more that will follow, but really, do any of us have the time or interest of blasting into every online snert out there?

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RE: New sub problem finding Mistress - 6/20/2005 2:19:06 PM

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ORIGINAL: kc692

I would like to borrow it also, LA!! Maybe if the troll gets the same exact response from all the Dommes, then maybe when they receive the exact same reply for the fifth time, they will realize it's the same response....

And won't that make him feel all warm and fuzzy ;)

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RE: New sub problem finding Mistress - 6/20/2005 2:21:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: MstrssPassion

Replying to these types will often produce more senseless BS as a retort. Ignore or block is my policy.

I really do not have the luxury of time to respond to undesired contacts & typically they are just seeking out immediate gratification, ignore them & that individual will go away.

Of course there are many more that will follow, but really, do any of us have the time or interest of blasting into every online snert out there?

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1) I rarely get a message back when I send this note. When I do it's along the lines of "Sorry Miss. I won't bother you anymore." They realised they messed up. I have yet to have a vile reply. I have had a handful of desperate "Please give me a second chance reply and I tend to reply No and block."

2) I do not blast. That was the whole point of my well written, diplomatic message. I don't invest anymore time then Cut & Paste.

3) It works for me and that is all that matters.

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RE;replies - 6/20/2005 2:41:58 PM

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usually "i' get just no answer..period.
that pretty much tells me it isn't happening.

why bother answering if these guys send weird mails?

mine are sincere but i still have an empty mailbox.

go figure.

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RE: New sub problem finding Mistress - 6/21/2005 4:14:37 AM

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BeachMystress

Thanks for the info

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RE: RE;replies - 6/21/2005 2:59:55 PM

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ORIGINAL: asissyforher

usually "i' get just no answer..period.
that pretty much tells me it isn't happening.

why bother answering if these guys send weird mails?

mine are sincere but i still have an empty mailbox.

go figure.

Funny. I sent you a mail a few days ago apologising for misunderstanding one of your posts on another thread and you have yet to read it. You might want to check it now and then.

And the only reason why I answer all my mail is because I WANT TO. There really needs to be no other reason, right?

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RE: New sub problem finding Mistress - 6/24/2005 5:32:37 AM

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i am a new sub which you could call me a novice which is hoping to find my self a mistress who i can serve
but its finding the right one is the question just sending them emails does not work so now i am going to a few munches
in the london area and introduce my self to them look forward to all replies

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RE: New sub problem finding Mistress - 6/24/2005 10:34:11 AM

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I think that's a pretty wise approach. I wish you the best of luck.

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RE: New sub problem finding Mistress - 6/25/2005 5:54:14 AM

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I agree with the advice you have been given, you need to understand people are coming to the lifestyle in droves with a very very small % truly lifestyle people, the rest are looking for a diversion to vanilla sex--to be honest the life has filled with "pervs"--smiles--and it takes a lot of weeding through--I always tell My newbies, go away, think about what drives you--mentally, emotionally, psychologically--THAT is where the magick of the D/dance is, it is not a list of do--mes--or a chinese menu of kink variables, it is in the soul, if that drive exists to the marrow of your being, this is the foundation you start with--and it comes with humility and a willingess to learn--think hard and long grasshopper--then write your profile as such and be patient--in the meantime go to the library, read on line, get into groups--- GOOD groups and learn learn learn, begin your practice in your everyday life--it can be done even in the vanilla world--smiles--good luck.

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