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RE: titles - 7/2/2007 7:47:08 PM   
YourShyPet


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Joined: 6/30/2006
Status: offline 		My Daddy feels that bf is way too nilla... it makes him cringe... but then even mentioning that I call him Sir or Master makes him laugh his ass off... I call him Daddy because years ago when we were just friends I used to kid around and call him my PimpDaddy... so Daddy is just a shortening of my old nickname for him... the only time I call him by his actual name is when I'm introducing him to other people... in public or private he's Daddy.


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RE: titles - 7/2/2007 8:04:13 PM   
psykocloud


Posts: 50
Joined: 1/25/2006
Status: offline 		Call each other what feels comfy to you.Don't worry about what others think. I call Sir, Sir because that is what he wants me to call him. We are poly. He is not my husband, or b/f...He is just Sir to me.

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RE: titles - 7/2/2007 9:41:01 PM   
ownedgirlie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Me, on the other hand, you will address as:
iRon: interTubelian Master of the interGallactic interStellar Nebulae...

None of that snookums shit for me.


And here I thought you were just my little yoot.

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RE: titles - 7/2/2007 9:46:36 PM   
mistoferin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Me, on the other hand, you will address as:
iRon: interTubelian Master of the interGallactic interStellar Nebulae...

None of that snookums shit for me.


And here I thought you were just my little yoot.


Maybe he won't mind if you shorten it to iRitmotigisn....or iRi for short?

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RE: titles - 7/2/2007 9:49:19 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		LOL Is that pronounced "eerie?"  Cuz that could work :)

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RE: titles - 7/2/2007 9:57:59 PM   
mistoferin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

LOL Is that pronounced "eerie?"  Cuz that could work :)


LMAO....yeah, I guess it would be. Too funny!

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RE: titles - 7/2/2007 11:13:09 PM   
becca333


Posts: 1050
Joined: 4/11/2006
Status: offline 		It's interesting that in what's seen as such a free lifestyle, we worry so much about what's 'right'. I used to agonise at first, but now I just go with whatever suits us best.

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RE: titles - 7/3/2007 4:57:45 AM   
goodpet


Posts: 458
Joined: 6/8/2005
Status: offline 		Names and tiles are important and, as others have said, need to be personal and have meaning.

At home i call him Sir, or Master, but often it is Captain. the Captain titlw works in vanilla life also since we have a boat together (27' sailboat called EdgePlay). i can use that title anywhere.  When refering to him, to vanilla friends, it is "My Partner"

Since he is newer to the Master/slave relationship, and feels he is still learning, he will not use the title "Master" outside of the house at events or clubs.. But we do use it some here privately.

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RE: titles - 7/3/2007 5:02:21 AM   
pussinbootz


Posts: 40
Joined: 6/27/2007
Status: offline 		This is an interesting topic for me at the moment.  I can totally relate to the "norm" that is apparent on the fori.  I feel odd calling MM my partner here as, in this part of my life there is more to it than that.

I have been with MM for 3 months now and I think I have found my soulmate.  To my friends I would call him by his given name or as my partner/other half.  I've never liked Boyfriend as a title as I feel I have grown out of that.. it works if it's a very new relationship and we're still not sure whether we love each other or not but as soon as that realisation is made, he's my partner.

Here I use a shortened version of the online name he uses elsewhere as I don't want to use his real name without his permission.

We are both very new to the lifestyle. I am a bedroom sub and he is not quite sure what he is at the moment.. I would say a service top who's finding his dominant feet. 

I would like to have a name for him for when I am in sub mode... but Sir and Master just don't feel right for him and to be honest I don't know how he would feel about it.

It's not something we've discussed yet as I want to wait until he's more comfortable with where he is with all this.. so for now, if I want to ask for something I just make sure I put "please" in front of the question to show that I am asking and not telling.

I think the power dynamic is more important to me than it is him... so I don't know what's going to be the final decision.  I'll talk with him soon.

Puss


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RE: titles - 7/3/2007 5:16:00 AM   
Littlepita


Posts: 1430
Joined: 10/6/2005
Status: offline 		Only with people in this lifestyle do I refer to my Joe as my Daddy/Dom. Everywhere else he is introduced or spoken about as my boyfriend. I do call him Sir most of the time when out in public, but he is older than me and we're in the south so it isn't an issue.

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RE: titles - 7/3/2007 5:16:09 AM   
MrrPete


Posts: 614
Joined: 11/7/2005
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quote:

ORIGINAL: pleasureforck

I am happy how it is, just wondered on here if it was odd. I wouldn't feel comfortable calling him Master or Sir .


On CM odd is the norm. Remember that.

Also if you have submitted to your BF then do what He wants you to do and don't worry about it


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RE: titles - 7/3/2007 10:09:16 AM   
Celeste43


Posts: 3066
Joined: 2/4/2006
From: NYS
Status: offline 		I call him by his name, or honey or sweetheart. He doesn't like dear. And if he's doing something that makes me yelp I've been known to call him a rat. The word louse however is strictly forbidden.

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RE: titles - 7/3/2007 10:16:14 AM   
MissOchistic


Posts: 315
Joined: 4/30/2007
Status: offline 		Me and Daddy built up a good friendship before becoming anything more. So a while ago I had the talk with him about him always staying just "my friend" as well as Master and love.

Mostly, I call him Master/Daddy/my Owner here because when I don't, there is often confusion over who I am talking about. I also prefer not to use his real name on the internet where he himself does not.  In person, I usually call him pet nates and his first name.


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RE: titles - 7/3/2007 10:42:18 AM   
sleazybutterfly


Posts: 2801
Joined: 5/15/2006
Status: offline 		In regular social circles, I always called my Master my bf.  On here I used the term Dom, or now Master to show the status of our relationship.  I only use it when talking to others that are into bdsm, to everyone else he is my "insert name here".  I don't call him Sir, Master, or anything like that on a daily basis.  It's usually hun, baby, sweetie, or "his name"...and once in a while "ass".

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