i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms like BBW's

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winterlight -> i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms like BBW's (7/2/2007 11:13:11 PM)
i can imagine that there are a small amount of them that like BBW's. I loved the A Fat Rant on YouTube. Hope that is ok to say in here.

AquaticSub -> RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms like BBW's (7/2/2007 11:46:49 PM)
Depends. Are you talking about like them as in "I'm only sexually attracted to them because they are big women" or are you talking about "I don't care if a woman has a big body - I just want a woman with a great personality who is into the same things I am"?

rmanrr -> RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms like BBW's (7/3/2007 12:24:21 AM)
Greetings. I like women...period....big, small, medium....it matters not in the least what they are body shape wise....as much as it matters what makes them who they are with regard to intelligence, emotional stability, and many other factors. I have played/sessioned with some real lookers who did not come up to standard for the long term and have done the same with some outwardly plainer girls who shone with an inner beauty that was a pure joy to behold and experience.

CuriousLord -> RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms like BBW's (7/3/2007 12:38:38 AM)
I'm well aware of there being a fat fetish. Some guys just want really, really, morbidly fat girls. Or anything approaching that's a plus. The statistics? Can't help there. Even the statistics on how many people masturbate's still largely guess work. I am under the impression that the limited population in the BDSM community leads such individuals to be less selective in tradional qualifying points for a mate, such as social status and physical attraction. (This is not to say the BDSM community is without standards. Simply, with more concern towards finding compatiable kinks, concerns for physical appearance are more to the wayside.) Therefore, it would seem to follow that excess body weight isn't as big of a deal. I'd point out that this is true, whether the particular prospective partner's perference is for or against heavier-set women.

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms like BBW's (7/3/2007 5:28:10 AM)
does it really matter? it doesn't to me because i know Daddy loves me for who am i and NOT for my body size. sheeeeeeeesh - grow up

earthycouple -> RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms like BBW's (7/3/2007 5:40:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl does it really matter? *edited text out here* sheeeeeeeesh - grow up I so wanted to say the same thing. Before I even opened the thread I wondered why we are seeing so many "stats" questions. However I then realized it's really a valid question albeit phrased terribly. I am going to choose to read this as an actual curious question from someone who has a vested interest in the subject and isn't simply trying to be a jackass. To the OP: to find this answer you need to get off your lazy typing fingers and do some research. Browse profiles and start tallying to find your answer. Most people put something in their profile if they don't want a larger person and most who are specifically looking for someone bigger will also state as such. We are not going to do the work for you. Personally size matters very little to me. I am not interested in looks; I am interested in want, abilitiy, need, honesty, sincerity etc. The person matters to me...not one little component of said person. Size only becomes a problem if it hinders good health. If you are 300 lbs and healthy great. If you are 170 pounds and in an unmanaged unhealthy state then we have a problem. Manage health issues then find me. We will work on it together once you make the committment to be healthier.

becca333 -> RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms like BBW's (7/3/2007 6:37:38 AM)
If you look at the statistics of the size of the general population, and the percentage that are overweight or obese, a whole lot of people had better like plus-size partners, because that's the majority.

SeeksOnlyOne -> RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms like BBW's (7/3/2007 6:48:13 AM)
there seem to be quite a few who have a fetish for fat chicks..........and a few who think fat chicks will fuck anything cuz lawd knows we cant find someone....were fat after all...... i will pass on being a fetish......and ive become quite the masterbaiter, so i have no need to go out and get laid just for the sake of getting laid........ i will peacefully live my life, and when the time is right, someone who just likes me, my brain, my wicked sense of humor, the joy i feel every day when i wake up, the sensuality i work daily to keep alive, someone who likes all that will appear......when it should happen. that worked the last time and i know it will this time also. if you are fat, and are concerned that no one likes fat chicks, take the time to look at all the non-fat, beautiful people, who are miserable.....if beauty was the secret to happiness, cindy crawford and richard gere would be living happily ever after. everyone has preferences for physical traits that turn them on, myself included, but for the one that really matter to YOU, just being you will be all it takes for it to happen. good luck finding what you seek.........

soultoshare -> RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms like BBW's (7/3/2007 7:45:55 AM)
I have found that the men involved in the lifestyle aren't as judgemental as vanilla ones are. I work with men, always have, and quite frankly, they can be pigs.....not necessarily a bad thing, but sometimes, they unknowingly say things that have actually hurt me in their observations about women. But I have also nailed them to a wall for it too, so i'm not easily hurt by comments made by my co-workers in general. I have been involved with men who are athletic in stature, average in stature, and like me, carry a few extra pounds. It seems that their reaction is actually an easier gauge for me to determine whether or not they are real (OMG! The dreaded word, but not in the context usually debated!) in seeking out someone they are compatible with. Someone hung up on the physical appearances usually aren't looking for the same things I am...they want play, quick sex, whatever. So, this one just moves on. I have never been called names by anyone I've met here, but hey! that can change any day. Meh....just consider the source..... I have to agree with earthycouple here....peruse the profiles if you want actual numbers. It's probably not the most scientific arena, but at least you'll get real numbers! Personally, I prefer the compatibility issue before the physical issue......it figures in, hey, I'm human, but i look at the package, not the pics.....one reason why I don't have one......it is hard to erase a first impression based on a lifeless piece of color on a webiste, most won't even get past it. If someone won't even talk, or meet, without one, well, it's their loss. I stand the same chance of them being not who they say they are just as much as they do. OK...off to do more domestic chores.....damn! m

instynctive -> RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms like BBW's (7/3/2007 8:38:09 AM)
I too can enjoy women of all shapes and sizes... when it comes right down to it though, I am more attracted to classic figures... give me hips and tits, a poochie belly and a round ass.. my anaconda don't want none unless you got buns, hun. 36-24-36? Only if she's 5'3".

robertolapiedra -> RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms like BBW's (7/3/2007 3:20:18 PM)
Hello winterlight. Go to a shopping mall and watch the couples. You will have your answer. The great majority of males, have wifes that are overweight (20-40 pounds overweight). The irony I find, is that most BBWs fantasize about the same stereotypes as non BBWs. You dont see that many BBWs specifically looking for "BBMs" in their profiles. If you are talking about morbidly overweight people, that should be "a small amount" same as those who like morbidly underweight people. There used to be the acronym "SSBBW" (I do not know if still in use) to make a distinction between the rubenesque body type and the Super Size BBW. I for one make a distinction between the two body type kinks. RL. Edit: typo

Arpig -> RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms like BBW's (7/3/2007 4:06:55 PM)
Like Mark Twain said...there are lies, damned lies, and statistics

imthatacheyouhav -> RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms like BBW's (7/3/2007 4:15:31 PM)
I had measurements that were 38"- 26"- 36" i was 5' 5".....it was the happiest 6 months of my life....LMAO...

instynctive -> RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms like BBW's (7/3/2007 4:25:22 PM)
Sorry Ache.. that's too tall. ;-)

winterlight -> RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms like BBW's (7/3/2007 8:12:39 PM)
I have looked at a lot of profiles in here. Some of you didn't need to be obnoxious in your replies. I am not on here much and frankly i have lost weight and will continue to do so and eat healthy. It was something that i wondered about because i have perused hundreds of profiles when i first came on here. Does is matter to me if you are fat, thin, stupid, dumb, kind, intelligent. Of course not. I work with all kinds of people..and it never fails to amaze me how some truly are. For those of U/u that left positive replies tyvm! Pardon some of my terribly worded questions and sometimes typos. Although English is my language, i am hearing impaired and what i learned about people and from people would amaze U/u. [:@] U learned from hearing language. I got 1/4 of it. Not asking for pity just stating what is. Ciao!

JohnSteed1967 -> RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms like BBW's (7/4/2007 2:29:21 PM)
Is Proud to stand up and say I love BBW!

SeeksOnlyOne -> RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms like BBW's (7/4/2007 2:38:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: earthycouple snip To the OP: to find this answer you need to get off your lazy typing fingers and do some research. Browse profiles and start tallying to find your answer. Most people put something in their profile if they don't want a larger person and most who are specifically looking for someone bigger will also state as such. We are not going to do the work for you. snip lol-i did this, simply because i had never thought of putting bbw in the search field.....i tend to just figure things happen when theyre supposed to..... my non-scientific results are..........of the 22 profiles that had bbw in them......3 said they love bbw, 19 said they would not consider bbw for any reason.....out of that 19, 9 made a point of telling us how disgusting we really are, one even referred to no bbw and stated that the term, to him, meant no fat stinkin psycho bitches(i paraphrase cuz i was laughing too hard to remember it verbatim) ill continue with my "things will happen when theyre meant to" philosophy. i dont wanna be a fat, stinkin, angry with the world, psycho bitch. in fact, i refuse to be that.

HaveRopeWillBind -> RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms like BBW's (7/4/2007 2:45:37 PM)
Turn it around. Ask yourself how many females on here are seeking males over 300 lbs. Whatever number you come up with for a percentage will likely be close to the answer for your question.

SeeksOnlyOne -> RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms like BBW's (7/4/2007 2:54:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HaveRopeWillBind Turn it around. Ask yourself how many females on here are seeking males over 300 lbs. Whatever number you come up with for a percentage will likely be close to the answer for your question. couldnt find any profiles with bhm in it-i think thats the male equivilent of bbw.........bbw is a term i hate too......im a fat chick.....whether i am beautiful is in the eyes of the beholder only....

HaveRopeWillBind -> RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms like BBW's (7/4/2007 3:40:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SeeksOnlyOne .....whether i am beautiful is in the eyes of the beholder only.... And that's the only thing that matters, especially if the beholder is the one holding you. Hmmm, how about BBM for larger Doms? You know Big Bossy Men.

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