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pain.. pleasure... OUCH!!!! - 7/3/2007 8:56:10 AM

pussinbootz

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Hiya

Something interesting happened at the weekend and I was wondering if anyone else had experienced it.

I'm still fairly new to all this.. and in the past it's been a case of receiving pain (yummy) followed by some pleasure ending in sex..... but at the weekend MM started with the pain, played nice with me for a while and then went back to the pain.

I found that the pain tollerance level that I had built up at the start had diminished after he was "nice" to me and it was almost like i needed warming up again so I could take the same level of pain.

Is this something other people have experienced? I vaguely remember reading somewhere that after orgasm the extra sensetivity can make this happen.

I'm going to see if it happens again before I make up my mind if this is a "normal" reaction for me.

If it is though it opens up a whole new concept.. stuff that I had become immune to during the scene, he can come back to and do all over again... yaay!!!!

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RE: pain.. pleasure... OUCH!!!! - 7/3/2007 9:07:56 AM

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Eat four sweet cookies in a row.

Then eat two sweet cookies, a salty pretzel, and then two more cookies.

Likely, you'll notice the sweetness in the second set of cookies much more than you did just eating four in a row.

Our bodies become habituated, they get chemicals flowing and reactions going to what we give them. If we keep going on that level, the chemicals level out, our bodies adjust. This is natural and normal for survival.

Now, change something else, your body needs to readjust again, whole new sets of reactions and chemicals.

When you go BACK to the original one, you're starting near baseline with those happy chemicals, rather than just building up like you're used to.

Everyone has different variations of HOW they feel it, to what extent and in what ways- but it's a general universal truth that our bodies and minds interpret signals more when they are changed than when they stay the same.

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RE: pain.. pleasure... OUCH!!!! - 7/3/2007 9:20:05 AM

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Master does this a lot with me, he will build me up on occasion allow me to orgasm then start again building me up with the pain knowing full well it will be like starting all over again.

The best way is when He builds me up pain wise but refuses to allow me to cum but changes tack slightly but has a similair effect that the orgasm would, eventually allowing me to orgasm. he will frequently get me to the edge of orgasm and inflict some deeper level pain which is just exquisite and what usually brings the orgasm to the point of no return and He eventually permits the orgasm.

Tis Fab!!

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RE: pain.. pleasure... OUCH!!!! - 7/3/2007 4:14:02 PM

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LA hit the nail on the head here.

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RE: pain.. pleasure... OUCH!!!! - 7/3/2007 4:16:06 PM

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Yeah... what she said.

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RE: pain.. pleasure... OUCH!!!! - 7/3/2007 8:31:47 PM

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Yes, your body creates its own stasis, and threshhold builds up. Which is why we all have nothing to fear from being burned in Hell for all enternity for being the immoral cysts we are =P, since we'd theoretically adapt probably within a few months and wouldnt notice anymore =P

The procedure you describe is how -real- torture is performed if you have a long term subject you want kept alive (and i don't mean playing hip-hop music). You might put someone through electro shock torture, then maybe give them a nice warm bath, then get right back into the torture again (making sure they've dried off first, of course =P). Your nerves remain in "neutral" as it were, and you have to start all over again.

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RE: pain.. pleasure... OUCH!!!! - 7/3/2007 8:40:39 PM

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We always have pain, sex, fun, pain, sex, pain, really hot sex.... I love going from one thing to the other and back again, never knowing exactly what to expect. The man's an artist.

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RE: pain.. pleasure... OUCH!!!! - 7/3/2007 8:44:06 PM

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I'm with becca on this one, especially with sensory dep involved..going from pain to a sensual touch, then wham! Here comes the cane again. Yum!

all worked up and no place to go *laughs*
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RE: pain.. pleasure... OUCH!!!! - 7/3/2007 8:45:18 PM

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Oh, and the blindfold, to make it even more intense.

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RE: pain.. pleasure... OUCH!!!! - 7/4/2007 12:14:21 AM

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