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RE: Am I wierd? - 7/6/2007 7:40:23 PM

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Why someone would think less of you because of this is beyond me/ It sounds like you have sound reasoning, so obviously if someone is going to be a compatible partner with you, they will certainly be understanding. I can think of a million 'weirder' things than being a virgin in their twenties.

On the flip siad, I was 25 dating a 23 year old virgin and was incredibly aroused at the thought of her using her virginity as power and control over me. We eventually had sex a few months into the relationship, and it really was never used in a Femdom way, but damn I had some interesting fantasies and dreams.

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RE: Am I wierd? - 7/7/2007 1:41:37 PM

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Thanks a lot to everyone who posted, this has really helped me out. I've been doing a lot of thinking latley and feel very confident in my goal of someday finding a dominant woman to serve 24/7. I've sent out messages to some ladies in my area (there aren't a lot) and I'm waiting for responses. I just want to invite everyone to stop by my profile and send me a message if you would like to chat more about this issue or others.

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RE: Am I wierd? - 7/7/2007 5:37:16 PM

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Thought you might want to know what happened with my 23 yo old virgin (apologies to everyone else not interested)

We went to a private party last night and the owners of the house had dug out a dungeon downstairs. The Virgin was dressed top to toe in latex.....two or three layers! Every latex garment I think our local Leather Gay Man shop sells. He looked impressive, I must admit

Cuffed him to the cross and I gave a lovely new Asian Mistress some introductory needleplay lessons in his arms (only 36 needles). Nothing dramatic, although a bit bloody, since she had never done it before

He seemed pretty spacey afterwards, so I drove home and told him in the car he should crash at my place. I made it clear he should can sleep on the other side of my big brass bed. No touching. It would just be safer than driving home. I swear I didn't leer at him. Or salivate. Or grope any rude bits.

You know what happened?

He said no, his Mum and Dad would be furious if he stayed out all night. He had never done it before

And he scuttled out my front door fast as he could.

NOW I could be really offended. Rejected by a 23 year old virgin!! But I know he thinks I am beautiful.

fear, fear, fear....he looked more terrified by the idea of curling up in bed with me all night than any amount of needles :)

Your virginity as a fetish theory makes sense.

The BDSM lifestyle is an endless source of fascinating and funny things :)

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RE: Am I wierd? - 7/7/2007 5:52:35 PM

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Wow MsC! Sounds like he had a wild night, needle play sounds a little advanced for me, he probably needed some alone time to cool off. I dont think I would have rejeced your offer of sleeping over, since I live by myself I dont have to worry about being home for Mom and Dad. Thanks for the story, it's great that you have a bdsm community like that, we dont have anything like that around here.

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RE: Am I wierd? - 7/8/2007 8:27:00 AM

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ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne

Your virginity as a fetish theory makes sense.

The BDSM lifestyle is an endless source of fascinating and funny things :)

Ms C;

I wanted to comment on what you wrote here because it stuck in my mind. Yes, forced virginity is a fetish of mine, one that I find very arousing. In that way it goes deeper than just wanting to stay a virgin for my future mistress. This fetish hits on several things; especially denial and power exchange. First I want to be denied sexual intercourse, I want her to have that power over me, to enjoy teasing me, keeping me frustrated. The power exchange of this fantasy is amazing. In our society men are expected to always be out having sex, to lose their virginity at a young age, while women are (still, to a degree) expected to refrain from those things or be labeled sluts (a term I find terribly offensive). But this is a real tole reversal, with the man now the chaste virgin and the woman holding the power. I hope this sheds some light on this fetish, anyone else share my views on this?

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