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themask -> Will a Mistress help get a slave to them? (7/7/2007 6:08:10 AM)
Are many Mistresses open to helping a slave/sub get to them? As a student who does not yet drive (working on it), a Mistress who would be willing to drive down and pick me up to take me somewhere I may serve her and be played with is almost a must. When I was going for men it was never an issue, they were always happy to, but somehow a part of me sees a Mistress as less likely to help a slave get to them, as they are so much more in demand. Has my sometimes insecure mind, and all this talk of tribute wrongly put Mistresses in a category that says they will not go out of their way to see me? Is this faulty? I would love opinions and comments and thank you for your time [:)]. ps. please don't tear me up! I mean no offense in anyway and some of you are scary the way you rip people to pieces on your forums. [:o]

chiaThePet -> RE: Will a Mistress help get a slave to them? (7/7/2007 6:17:14 AM)
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MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: Will a Mistress help get a slave to them? (7/7/2007 8:12:25 AM)
In life, there are times when we need to focus on things other than relationshps - career, school, children, what have you. If a sub was completely without transportation, or without a job, or the like - I would say that it was one of those times in life where they need to focus on improving themselves and their current situation first, and worry about starting a relationship later. It's better to spend time working on the issue(s) that they feel is blocking them finding the relationship they want (especially if it's something like lack of transportation - get a job, save money, buy a car), rather than inviting all the frustrations that go along with being turned down all of the time.

MsKatHouston -> RE: Will a Mistress help get a slave to them? (7/7/2007 8:15:07 AM)
I would not. Not because of the effort it would take but for safety issues. I would not go to your house and pick you up on a first meeting to be alone in my vehicle. Maybe if I had a male friend who packs with me. Maybe not. However, for a first meeting I find it hard to believe there is not some compromise. What about the bus? Can you take the bus to a nearby Starbucks? For a continuing relationship, I would have no problem with this for awhile if it was not completely out of my way. I would have to see you were attempting to improve your situation and you had something to contribute. If you are getting an education and there would be an eventual pay off, I have no problem with this. But I would not like feeling I was being mooched off for a long time, paying for everything and doing all the driving. If I felt you were doing all you could within your means, no problem.

earthycouple -> RE: Will a Mistress help get a slave to them? (7/7/2007 8:57:13 AM)
No. I would not. First of all I can't be assured you would actually be there and I do not waste my time, effort and money for someone who may flake out...I spent my time doing that and won't ever again. Second if you can't make your way to meet me once then you have no initiative or want to do so or you haven't the intelligence to figure out how to make it work. There are all sorts of public transit systems in this world and if you want to meet me you can take three buses and the Metra to do it. I realize that sounds very cruel but that's exactly how I feel. So to sum up: it's about your initiative and brain power and my lack of believing anyone will really show until I see their pretty little face in person.

DreamyLadySnow -> RE: Will a Mistress help get a slave to them? (7/7/2007 11:03:20 AM)
I have a nice, young man coming over to do some yard chores for me tomorrow. I live way north, in the middle of nowhere. He lives south. His bus will arrive at about 10:45. Need I say more? If you want to do it, you will find a way. LS

Evanesce -> RE: Will a Mistress help get a slave to them? (7/7/2007 12:09:34 PM)
No, I would not go pick up a sub to "serve" me. To my thinking, that would be putting ME in a position of service to the sub, and that's simply not going to happen. If a sub wants to interact with me, they're going to find a way to get here of their own volition. I don't offer curbside service.

MsRose -> RE: Will a Mistress help get a slave to them? (7/7/2007 12:18:48 PM)
With the abundance of submissives I have to choose from, who do have their own method of transportation, I'd have to say honestly that a sub who does not know how to figure out a bus schedule, a train schedule or good walking shoes, would not be my first choice with whom I'd be interested in developing a relationship. For the other reasons mentioned (safety, convenience, initiative) I strongly concur. Fortunately, I live in a city where public transport is in abundance. You may want to focus on your education and then worry about developing a relationship with a domina. Best of luck to you, MR.

MistressHolly71 -> RE: Will a Mistress help get a slave to them? (7/7/2007 12:36:33 PM)
No, I wouldn't. They can find a way to me if they're really interested. Public transportaion, bicycle, walk, friends, etc.

queencaliph -> RE: Will a Mistress help get a slave to them? (7/7/2007 12:37:39 PM)
I'm afraid I must agree with the other ladies. The subs I deal with only need a set time and directions and they come to me. If they don't have their own transportation I don't meet them.

LadyHeart -> RE: Will a Mistress help get a slave to them? (7/7/2007 6:32:23 PM)
I will go to meet someone at the train station, provided they send me the agreed TXT that they are actually on the train. I have no problems taking them home afterwards, if it is night time and they are prepared to brave the sidecar of my motorbike. I would also consider collecting a female submissive at night, as public transport isn't really safe in my area after dark. But during the day, I expect submissives to make their own way to my house. :)) LH

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Will a Mistress help get a slave to them? (7/7/2007 6:36:20 PM)
I have picked up pets to serve. I do so for Angel on a regular basis. Hoever, I wouldnt do it until they were established with me. On a first meeting, never. Later on, Maybe. DV

imthatacheyouhav -> RE: Will a Mistress help get a slave to them? (7/7/2007 6:48:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: themask Are many Mistresses open to helping a slave/sub get to them? As a student who does not yet drive (working on it), a Mistress who would be willing to drive down and pick me up to take me somewhere I may serve her and be played with is almost a must. When I was going for men it was never an issue, they were always happy to, but somehow a part of me sees a Mistress as less likely to help a slave get to them, as they are so much more in demand. Has my sometimes insecure mind, and all this talk of tribute wrongly put Mistresses in a category that says they will not go out of their way to see me? Is this faulty? I would love opinions and comments and thank you for your time [:)]. ps. please don't tear me up! I mean no offense in anyway and some of you are scary the way you rip people to pieces on your forums. [:o] What??....can't a person get a license at 16?....or is that not country wide?

MisPandora -> RE: Will a Mistress help get a slave to them? (7/7/2007 6:57:28 PM)
I think it depends on the individual and the level of involvement that I have with them. Their resources also come into play. If they're nowhere near me, I'm not going to be the one to always go to them -- as an adult, they need to learn to be resourceful and figure out a way (or take guidance.) For instance, you're in NY, I'm in Philadelphia. You'd need to learn to get on the train and come south from time to time if you don't drive. I however, am not made of money and will not be sending plane tickets around the world to every submissive who doesn't drive and who wants to see me. If they want it bad enough, they'll earn it -- and work hard to put money away for their own plane ticket.

MisPandora -> RE: Will a Mistress help get a slave to them? (7/7/2007 7:01:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: imthatacheyouhav What??....can't a person get a license at 16?....or is that not country wide? It is. However, many New Yorkers (city residents) don't drive nor do they have to. They don't even BUS kids to school -- many take mass transit or walk to school. I was stunned to learn that 40% of NYC police applicants don't have a drivers license over a year old when they apply. 20% that get hired have less than a year's worth of driving under their belt. So yeah, not having a driver's license at age 20 isn't a big shock to me.

MissIsis -> RE: Will a Mistress help get a slave to them? (7/7/2007 7:24:39 PM)
I wouldn't. I hate driving. If we were established, maybe, depending on circumstances. If he or she got sick or broke a leg or something, more than likely, I would try to help, but as a general rule, no.

LadyPact -> RE: Will a Mistress help get a slave to them? (7/8/2007 5:44:08 AM)
Add My vote in with the rest who said no. Especially not in the beginning. I have driven to submissives that I am already established with, but nothing like the circumstances that you are describing. I have been the one to drive to a different town to meet with My submissive when unexpected things have happened, but I've never driven to him so I could pick him up and bring him home with Me. I'm not willing to do all of the traveling and pick up all of the bills so that someone can serve Me.

MHOO314 -> RE: Will a Mistress help get a slave to them? (7/8/2007 7:37:52 AM)
*Uhm, no I think you missed who serves Whom, --you want to be there, you better find a way or get out of the pool.*

petdave -> RE: Will a Mistress help get a slave to them? (7/8/2007 8:18:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHeart I will go to meet someone at the train station, provided they send me the agreed TXT that they are actually on the train. I have no problems taking them home afterwards, if it is night time and they are prepared to brave the sidecar of my motorbike. Awesome [:)] Never let anyone tell you that a "real Domme" would make them ride pillion (known as "riding bitch" among bikers here). Sidehacks are just too cool.

stella40 -> RE: Will a Mistress help get a slave to them? (7/8/2007 8:39:33 AM)
Don't You Want Me Mistress? (song parody - original is Human League's Don't You Want Me Baby?) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=arUqoKjU3D4 You were a Domme with a profile on Collarme and a car When I found you I found your profile thought of a message And even sent it off to you And now it comes around to the time we are to meet With a car it should be easy for you But don't forget it's me with the gift of submission And I live far from the bus stops too Don't, don't you want me? You know I can't believe it when I hear you won't collect me Don't, don't you want me? You know I don't believe it when you tell me you won't fetch me I haven't passed my test So you collecting me would be best And you better bring your car or we will both be sorry Don't you want me Mistress? Don't you want me oh-oh? Don't you want me Mistress? Don't you want me oh-oh? I'm a Mistress with a profile on Collarme That much is true But being a Domme doesn't mean I'm a taxi driver Running round after lazy subs like you The messages we've exchanged gave me such a good time I actually like you But now I think it's time you got your driver's license Or buy a bike, whatever's the best for you Don't, don't you want me? You know I can't believe it when I hear you won't collect me Don't, don't you want me? You know I don't believe it when you tell me you won't fetch me I haven't passed my test So you collecting me would be best And you better bring your car or we will both be sorry Don't you want me Mistress? Don't you want me oh-oh? Don't you want me Mistress? Don't you want me oh-oh?

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