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RE: chasing - 7/8/2007 4:32:43 AM   
bandit25


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Status: offline 		OMG!  I love that!  I'll have to have one made.

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RE: chasing - 7/8/2007 5:11:26 AM   
Oumae


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Status: offline 		The effort a sub puts into wooing me can be a good indicator of how much effort they will put into submitting so I'm all for seeing how they do.

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RE: chasing - 7/8/2007 7:47:28 AM   
MaamJay


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Status: offline 		In terms of initial approach, it can go either way. However, while I will "hold My end up" in terms of effort of establishing a relationship, I very much put it on the potential sub to follow through wherever possible. Like LadyHeart and LadyHugs, I want to see that they are reliable and capable of keeping to schedules and promises. Otherwise they're not going to be much use to Me!

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RE: chasing - 7/8/2007 7:54:33 AM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		hmmm interesting, "chasing" to Me denotes stalking and I will have none of that-the damn pings as soon as I  go active----argh, nasty business---courting is a different matter---I do like  to be petitioned, courted, however, I am the Domina, so I do the calling most of the time--My schedule, My terms---I don't wait, its not My style.

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RE: chasing - 7/8/2007 8:24:30 AM   
MistressGala


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I saw Midori last summer. She said that she loved being tied up and having hot wax torture. One of the things she talked about is how BDSM people try to put their roles in a box and if they step outside of those roles they are termed "not real."
As a Goddess style dominant, I have the need for a man to court me. Sell himself to me. Convince me that he has qualities that can enrich my life in ways not related to money. But he best be courting me. That shows no passiveness on my part.

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RE: chasing - 7/8/2007 2:31:20 PM   
jamesthehumanrug


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Status: offline 		dearest trampler ,
You're rite the chase is the sustaining element and the game that keeps things alive, but, i'm a ''slave'', and, no- i don't pursue.
i find it'' pressure'',AND, A PERFORMANCE , to be what i'm not,AND, to have to ''pursue'' the top ,or do the picking up IS DREAD CITY .... i totally expect it to be the other way around.
SHE GETS ME !I just hope im in the rite place at the rite time.
"i don't pursue" ,also means:  i'm never guilty of flirting ;i'm the slave. i can be auctioned etc, but,.... i dont chase anyone;i'm chosen period.
isnt that what a slave is ?passive ?i dont waste my time ,w/ vanilla; t and a ,and, suk and f ,but, altho i don't pursue it .sex and pursual is  still all'' pressure'' to me, unless i'm ,under the mistress and, SHE wants to do so ,so naturally  i dont pursue sex ,chase her ;pressure her or expect sex from my goddess mistress either and SHE is always pure, and ,allowed any ,and all her desires while i remain merely an object; chosen or not...if she chooses another ,just as creamy to me to see and know shes happy and feeling....but, no demands from me ,if i ever have to CHASE A TOP !???
well ....WHAT'S WRONG W/ THIS PICTURE?!
so me '' pursue ?''
I don't think so,
but, nice to know: it's ok mistress.
*KNOW THE SONG ,'SMOOTHE',?
DON'T WONDER WHAT STUPID ''SLAVE'' GOT PLAGIARIZED AND RIPPED OFF OF THAT MEGA- HIT..., BUT,
'WAIT ON YOUR MOOD'
 IS EXACTLY WHAT I MEANT .


< Message edited by jamesthehumanrug -- 7/8/2007 2:36:14 PM >

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RE: chasing - 7/8/2007 2:48:22 PM   
VeryMercurial


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Status: offline 		I let them chase and chase me, until I catch them.

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RE: chasing - 7/8/2007 3:14:45 PM   
jamesthehumanrug


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Status: offline 		,tail end of my reply to you  mistress trampler ,THAT'S THE SONG CALLED:  SMOOTHE, that i''m talking about , AKA  SMOVE 
ANY WONDER ?

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RE: chasing - 7/8/2007 3:41:41 PM   
MistressLorelei


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Status: offline 		I always hated to be chased as a teen and very young adult. I am sure I was at least a  little flattered, but it usually was a turn off.  I went the for hard-to-get guys.. and then when I got them, I realized I shouldn't have bothered.

As I got older, I found that the males who made the effort were more likely to catch my eye.  If a male is attentive, considerate, and seemingly interested, but not on the verge of stalkerish or obnoxious, as long as the other traits that I seek are present as well, he may likely gain my attention.  I have no problem in saying "down boy" if he gets a bit overzealous. 

I too find that males who make an effort and show attentiveness usually continue that throughout the relationship, but there is a fine line.  That same "type" can also turn out too needy or in contrast, they can be the same types who just know how to play the game for a short time anyway. 

I think a male can have a submissive quality to him... yet be motivated enough to go after what he truly desires just as I can have that same motivation  I don't need to feel chased to feel wanted, but I don't need to chase to feel powerful either. 


< Message edited by MistressLorelei -- 7/8/2007 3:42:21 PM >

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RE: chasing - 7/8/2007 4:59:08 PM   
Trampler


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Status: offline 		SweetDommes, Yes, If I am remembering correctly it was in the 2nd book of Arrows of The Queen. (She is one of my favorite authors, even though she seems to think that bdsm is crazy. lol.)

I believe that a slave can be aggressive enough to go after what he wants, as long as he is respectful.  (well anybody, period.) Plus the idea is hawt to me,  heighten the arousel. (sexual denial in both.) hehehe thank you all. 

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RE: chasing - 7/8/2007 10:23:23 PM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		It is - Arrow's Flight   She happens to be one of my favorite authors as well (I have the entire Valdemar series on my book shelf, and quite a few of the Bardic Voices books).  I read the whole set at least once a year.  I'm now working on getting all of the Pern books by Anne McCaffrey in my collection ... I'm hoping for a boy who already owns them, then I solve two needs at once

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RE: chasing - 7/9/2007 9:19:06 AM   
Trampler


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Status: offline 		**snickers** never got into the Pern books, tho for a while I liked the Pegases/Rowen novels. 

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RE: chasing - 7/9/2007 11:33:05 AM   
goddessAVA


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Status: offline 		I believe the slave has to work VERY hard for the Dominas attention-after all we are the rare and unique ones......Once I decide to give them my attention, I like to frustrate the hell out of them by being elusive and hard to reach, its like holding a mouse by the tail and watching him try to get away.   Their agony brings a smile to my face, this is part of play for me-if it doesn't happen I have no interest in the fool, his loss!

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RE: chasing - 7/9/2007 9:36:33 PM   
undergroundsea


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Status: offline 		I think being chased or sought in no way conflicts with dominance. There is a power in being pursued.

Cheers,

Sea

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