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Pro Domme... - 7/7/2007 6:22:34 PM   
GoddessinDallas


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Pro Domme MEANS Pro Domme.
If someone doesn't LIST that thaywill stick a fake dick up your smelly ass, don't ask them to...they didn't "forget" to list it on their profileHave a little respect and a modicum of class.
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RE: Pro Domme... - 7/7/2007 6:25:29 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		LOL, so a blowjob is out of the question then, I suppose.  Was there anything else?

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RE: Pro Domme... - 7/7/2007 6:25:59 PM   
LadyIce


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Status: offline 		Okay GoddessinDallas, do you get that many requests for it?

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RE: Pro Domme... - 7/7/2007 6:37:33 PM   
MisPandora


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OK, so what does being a pro have to do with sticking something up an arse?  I mean, there are plenty of pros that do it?  It just means that YOU don't do assplay.  Who cares?

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RE: Pro Domme... - 7/7/2007 6:38:43 PM   
Aileen68


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Status: offline 		Hey...there's a dom complaining down in Ask a Master.
Maybe you two should get together.  You have so much in common already.

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RE: Pro Domme... - 7/7/2007 6:41:17 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		Pro Domme means you are providing a service for a paying customer. They are going to request what they want.  You dont offer it, dont be surprised if they look for someone who does. Strapon and ass play is one of the BIGGEST kinks men wont admit to having unless they are being sub, so why should it surprise you they want it?
If I were paying for a service, Id save my money until I found someone who offered what I wanted, not someone who growled at me and made me feel bad for wanting it.  If I wanted to be made to feel like an outcast for wanting my kink, Id go to a vanilla.

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RE: Pro Domme... - 7/7/2007 6:41:33 PM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		Classy.  And people wonder why pro dommes have a bad rep.

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RE: Pro Domme... - 7/7/2007 6:44:50 PM   
imthatacheyouhav


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessinDallas


Pro Domme MEANS Pro Domme.
If someone doesn't LIST that thaywill stick a fake dick up your smelly ass, don't ask them to...they didn't "forget" to list it on their profileHave a little respect and a modicum of class.

What??....and we care why??


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RE: Pro Domme... - 7/7/2007 6:49:48 PM   
MsCfromMelbourne


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Status: offline 		Ok I am really confused (but what's new?)

The OP is a pro-domme.  When I view her profile, I cannot see what she will or will not do, so how are clients supposed to know not to ask for anal play?

Tip: if you want to be a successful professional dominatrix, it pays to treat unusual requests with respect.  Refer the work you don't do to a respected colleague in the industry.  Kindness and understanding will go a long way to gaining a good reputation and repeat business

BTW, being a cranky pants does not make a woman Dominant.


< Message edited by MsCfromMelbourne -- 7/7/2007 6:54:03 PM >

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RE: Pro Domme... - 7/7/2007 9:03:27 PM   
petdave


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessinDallas

Pro Domme MEANS Pro Domme.



And you can't spell "Domme" without "Do me".

Cranky pants.

...dave

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RE: Pro Domme... - 7/8/2007 2:39:51 AM   
RazorJAK


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne
BTW, being a cunting bitch does not make a woman Dominant.


Fixed that for you.  :-)


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RE: Pro Domme... - 7/8/2007 2:49:47 AM   
RazorJAK


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessinDallas


Pro Domme MEANS Pro Domme.
If someone doesn't LIST that thaywill stick a fake dick up your smelly ass, don't ask them to...they didn't "forget" to list it on their profileHave a little respect and a modicum of class.


Add one more to the " Giving professional dominants a bad name" list.

Being a whiney bitch because a client  (which is what you're looking for ... unless you're after a "sugar-subbie".  In which case you're not a pro-domme.  You're a gold digger.) asks about something he'd want to have done is just as "classless". 


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RE: Pro Domme... - 7/8/2007 3:04:00 AM   
TheDiva


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Status: offline 		I agree with GoddessinDallas...I'm all for sticking a fake dick up someone's ass, but it's only polite to make sure the 3 S's get taken care of...shower, shave, and shit.

(OK, It's really more like "shower, shave, and enema", but I like alliteration.)

Soap:                                                                          0.79
Cost of a shower:                                                        1.37
Razor:                                                                         3.99
Fleet enema:                                                                2.29

Not getting a rep as "the sub with the smelly ass":    Priceless

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RE: Pro Domme... - 7/8/2007 3:25:55 AM   
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RE: Pro Domme... - 7/8/2007 4:49:10 AM   
Raechard


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Status: offline 		This has always been the problem associated with Pro Dommes etc. How can you lead if you are taking requests as to what methods you use and how can you pretend you are doing anything other than offering sexual services if you listen to what a sub likes. I have nothing against them I just find it all so paradoxical.

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RE: Pro Domme... - 7/8/2007 5:15:01 AM   
TheDiva


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Raechard

This has always been the problem associated with Pro Dommes etc. How can you lead if you are taking requests as to what methods you use and how can you pretend you are doing anything other than offering sexual services if you listen to what a sub likes. I have nothing against them I just find it all so paradoxical.


I don't know. I think if it's a situation where the sub is telling the Domme what to wear, giving her a pre-written script, telling her that there needs to be 10 minutes of "X", 5 minutes of "Y", and no less than 45 minutes of "Z"...she's not leading. However, if he asks for say...a pony play session, and she creates a scene and uses her own ideas, I see the Domme as being in charge (even though she may incorporate some of his likes and dislikes). And pony play may fulfill a sexual desire of the sub's, but even so I don't think it falls under the category of "offering sexual services".

I think it can be a grey area. If a customer goes to a hot dog stand every day, buys a bun with lots of ketchup, takes it to a nearby Port-a-Potty and then comes out sweating and looking suspiciously happy...is the hot dog vendor now a sex worker?

Obviously, a session could involve strapons, golden showers, masturbation, body worship, or something else with sexual undertones, but aren't there Pro Dommes who will not do anything in that vein?

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RE: Pro Domme... - 7/9/2007 12:32:08 PM   
GoddessinDallas


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Status: offline 		I LOVE your reply.
Thank you so kindly for being such a classy DIVA.

A southern woman knows how to make her point without using profanity.

Thankyou .

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RE: Pro Domme... - 7/9/2007 12:39:52 PM   
darchChylde


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quote:

ORIGINAL: petdave

And you can't spell "Domme" without "Do me".



but i'd be careful about the company i repeat that in




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RE: Pro Domme... - 7/9/2007 3:42:12 PM   
slaverosebeauty


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Status: offline 		Did anyone else notice where this post is??!!
 
Nuff said.

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RE: Pro Domme... - 7/9/2007 6:15:05 PM   
YesMistressIrish


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quote:

ORIGINAL: darchChylde

my opinion has already been expressed more than once here

quote:

ORIGINAL: petdave

And you can't spell "Domme" without "Do me".



but i'd be careful about the company i repeat that in




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